A Ghost from the Past...!! (64)
roseofsharon: Some time has passed and today, out of the blue.... I get a text message from my last boyfriend!! Completely out of the blue.....
He told me that he had recently passed a place we often went and he recalled happy memories of our times there...... he hoped his message found me happy and well and sent his fondest regards.
I have not heard from him for a very long time..... why now? Its caught me completely off guard and I have been staggered by this, I don't know what to make of it....
Why does he feel the need to contact me at all after so long..... does this indicate some kind of hidden agenda?
He is clearly ecpecting me to respond, even if only out of curiosity.... but why?
Help!! Your views...??
He told me that he had recently passed a place we often went and he recalled happy memories of our times there...... he hoped his message found me happy and well and sent his fondest regards.
I have not heard from him for a very long time..... why now? Its caught me completely off guard and I have been staggered by this, I don't know what to make of it....
Why does he feel the need to contact me at all after so long..... does this indicate some kind of hidden agenda?
He is clearly ecpecting me to respond, even if only out of curiosity.... but why?
Help!! Your views...??
Damn...it could be a lot of reasons. Mr. Cynical here would proceed w/caution. But, by the same token, I've went down some well traveled roads before...so I can't say much.
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roseofsharon: Some time has passed and today, out of the blue.... I get a text message from my last boyfriend!! Completely out of the blue.....
He told me that he had recently passed a place we often went and he recalled happy memories of our times there...... he hoped his message found me happy and well and sent his fondest regards.
I have not heard from him for a very long time..... why now? Its caught me completely off guard and I have been staggered by this, I don't know what to make of it....
Why does he feel the need to contact me at all after so long..... does this indicate some kind of hidden agenda?
He is clearly ecpecting me to respond, even if only out of curiosity.... but why?
Help!! Your views...??
He told me that he had recently passed a place we often went and he recalled happy memories of our times there...... he hoped his message found me happy and well and sent his fondest regards.
I have not heard from him for a very long time..... why now? Its caught me completely off guard and I have been staggered by this, I don't know what to make of it....
Why does he feel the need to contact me at all after so long..... does this indicate some kind of hidden agenda?
He is clearly ecpecting me to respond, even if only out of curiosity.... but why?
Help!! Your views...??
He probably just plain 'missed' you, and the good times you shared.
I keep in touch with my exes, except the last one. It breaks my heart and i would be thrilled to hear from him.
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lusciousmile: He probably just plain 'missed' you, and the good times you shared.
I keep in touch with my exes, except the last one. It breaks my heart and i would be thrilled to hear from him.
I keep in touch with my exes, except the last one. It breaks my heart and i would be thrilled to hear from him.
I keep in touch w/a few. But not too many. There was a reason we parted company.
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Indyfella: I keep in touch w/a few. But not too many. There was a reason we parted company.
I don't keep in touch with all of them. My mistake.
Frankly, i just remembered some, i wouldn't mind not ever talking to, again.
The boring ones.
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I'd proceed with some Caution.
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When I feel lonely, I think about couple of ex boyfriends I don't stay in touch with...it's a nostalgic thing to do....and I noticed they do the same.
We know is not the " get together again" desire...it's just reliving the good times we had somehow nurture the loneliness....a momentary thing.
And it's tricky...allowing yourself to get back again, in one of these moments....will throw you back into the very thing you got out of...
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roseofsharon: Indy... can we keep some decorum please...??
Luscious.... perhaps he just missed me?? When I say its been some time, we are talking a few years, not months. Surely, if he was gonna miss me he would've MISSED ME long ago.... why has it taken so long? Hence, my wondering of there is a hidden agenda? Its clearly not a case of he's been unable to live without me, is it...?
Luscious.... perhaps he just missed me?? When I say its been some time, we are talking a few years, not months. Surely, if he was gonna miss me he would've MISSED ME long ago.... why has it taken so long? Hence, my wondering of there is a hidden agenda? Its clearly not a case of he's been unable to live without me, is it...?
Yep, there's a hidden agenda alright.
Maybe he got saved.
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roseofsharon: Indy... can we keep some decorum please...??
Luscious.... perhaps he just missed me?? When I say its been some time, we are talking a few years, not months. Surely, if he was gonna miss me he would've MISSED ME long ago.... why has it taken so long? Hence, my wondering of there is a hidden agenda? Its clearly not a case of he's been unable to live without me, is it...?
Luscious.... perhaps he just missed me?? When I say its been some time, we are talking a few years, not months. Surely, if he was gonna miss me he would've MISSED ME long ago.... why has it taken so long? Hence, my wondering of there is a hidden agenda? Its clearly not a case of he's been unable to live without me, is it...?
me....decorum?
Actually, I think back on old flames...and have some pleasant thoughts. Sometimes email them just to make sure all is well. But that's all I want to know. (just my view)..... Because I don't love them, doesn't mean I hate them.
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Xtabentun: When I feel lonely, I think about couple of ex boyfriends I don't stay in touch with...it's a nostalgic thing to do....and I noticed they do the same.
We know is not the " get together again" desire...it's just reliving the good times we had somehow nurture the loneliness....a momentary thing.
And it's tricky...allowing yourself to get back again, in one of these moments....will throw you back into the very thing you got out of...
We know is not the " get together again" desire...it's just reliving the good times we had somehow nurture the loneliness....a momentary thing.
And it's tricky...allowing yourself to get back again, in one of these moments....will throw you back into the very thing you got out of...
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Xtabentun: When I feel lonely, I think about couple of ex boyfriends I don't stay in touch with...it's a nostalgic thing to do....and I noticed they do the same.
We know is not the " get together again" desire...it's just reliving the good times we had somehow nurture the loneliness....a momentary thing.
And it's tricky...allowing yourself to get back again, in one of these moments....will throw you back into the very thing you got out of...
We know is not the " get together again" desire...it's just reliving the good times we had somehow nurture the loneliness....a momentary thing.
And it's tricky...allowing yourself to get back again, in one of these moments....will throw you back into the very thing you got out of...
That's an extremely good point, love..... thank you!!
Luscious... what do you mean "maybe he got saved"??
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Indyfella: me....decorum? Actually, I think back on old flames...and have some pleasant thoughts. Sometimes email them just to make sure all is well. But that's all I want to know. (just my view)..... Because I don't love them, doesn't mean I hate them.
Same with me. I like to know how some are doing. For those who never really cared for me, it doesn't even cross my mind, to check if they are still alive. I guess it's just the way it is, not that i would like to hear something bad happened to any of them.
I just don't think of some......ever.
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roseofsharon: That's an extremely good point, love..... thank you!! Luscious... what do you mean "maybe he got saved"??
It may be a, "what might have been" moment.
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roseofsharon: That's an extremely good point, love..... thank you!! Luscious... what do you mean "maybe he got saved"??
I meant that, when people find God, they completely change their ways, feel guilty of any hurt they may have caused others, and try to share the good 'news'.
It was a joke, he would have said it, if this was the case.
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While it is possible that's why he called,sorry(e wants you back),niceto think right?However take it for what i was.As said earlier nostlagia.He thought of you and was nice enough to compliment the thought wth a call.Most thnks of tei exes from time to time,a song,place etc.Most let it pass.Don't read into it.If he is interested he will call again.Can't go crazy trying to read his mind,I know well from years back.
You enjoyed the call,so leave it and if he calls again.........
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nomindgames: While it is possible that's why he called,sorry(e wants you back),niceto think right?However take it for what i was.As said earlier nostlagia.He thought of you and was nice enough to compliment the thought wth a call.Most thnks of tei exes from time to time,a song,place etc.Most let it pass.Don't read into it.If he is interested he will call again.Can't go crazy trying to read his mind,I know well from years back. You enjoyed the call,so leave it and if he calls again.........
prolly agree
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Indyfella: It may be a, "what might have been" moment.
I just get a strong feeling that he wants me to respond. Well, that's not simple nostalgia, is it?
Maybe we Brits are somewhat different, but I haven't come across this "getting in touch" after so long, just because...........
It starting to not sit comfortably with me.... perhaps my sagacious friend, Conrad, has a point??
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nomindgames: While it is possible that's why he called,sorry(e wants you back),niceto think right?However take it for what i was.As said earlier nostlagia.He thought of you and was nice enough to compliment the thought wth a call.Most thnks of tei exes from time to time,a song,place etc.Most let it pass.Don't read into it.If he is interested he will call again.Can't go crazy trying to read his mind,I know well from years back. You enjoyed the call,so leave it and if he calls again.........
What she said
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Indyfella: It may be a, "what might have been" moment.
True....only that none really want to explore "what might have been" outside of that moment/even day ...
And he might also still looking to get his closure....sometimes it takes a while until one party settle the books.....it might not have anything to do with you, he could reconnect on order to be able to let go...
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I cant believe no one has said....
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder"
I dont know what caused the break up or how it ended..( good or bad terms).. but it could be possible that the text meant exactly what was written
Why not respond and tell him thank you and wish him well...then see if he responds with a " hidden agenda "
Or just tell him to take a hike!
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder"
I dont know what caused the break up or how it ended..( good or bad terms).. but it could be possible that the text meant exactly what was written
Why not respond and tell him thank you and wish him well...then see if he responds with a " hidden agenda "
Or just tell him to take a hike!
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He told me that he had recently passed a place we often went and he recalled happy memories of our times there...... he hoped his message found me happy and well and sent his fondest regards.
I have not heard from him for a very long time..... why now? Its caught me completely off guard and I have been staggered by this, I don't know what to make of it....
Why does he feel the need to contact me at all after so long..... does this indicate some kind of hidden agenda?
He is clearly ecpecting me to respond, even if only out of curiosity.... but why?
Help!! Your views...??