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Aug 13, 2008 2:06 PM CST Need some help....
nickster1921
nickster1921nickster1921huntingtown, Maryland USA3 Threads 21 Posts
Got the tip from friend

I have a big issue. I met this girl last week that is really amazing, beautiful, Smart, has a great smile and is just amazing. I wanted to get to know her better, but a problem arose last night/ today. She met this guy and he had a g/f. After meeting her he quickly broke up with his g/f just a hour ago and planning to ask the girl of my dreams out tonight. All I can do is tell her how I feel over the phone? Because there's no way I can leave today.... please help
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Aug 13, 2008 2:07 PM CST Need some help....
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
nickster1921: Got the tip from friend

I have a big issue. I met this girl last week that is really amazing, beautiful, Smart, has a great smile and is just amazing. I wanted to get to know her better, but a problem arose last night/ today. She met this guy and he had a g/f. After meeting her he quickly broke up with his g/f just a hour ago and planning to ask the girl of my dreams out tonight. All I can do is tell her how I feel over the phone? Because there's no way I can leave today.... please help


Ooerrr.. get in there quick.. call her. uh oh comfort
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Aug 13, 2008 2:09 PM CST Need some help....
gongman
gongmangongmanCarcassone, Occitanie France28 Threads 2 Polls 515 Posts
Carpe Diem!!!
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Aug 13, 2008 2:10 PM CST Need some help....
KingLeo
KingLeoKingLeoFrederickson, Washington USA26 Threads 472 Posts
nickster1921: Got the tip from friend

I have a big issue. I met this girl last week that is really amazing, beautiful, Smart, has a great smile and is just amazing. I wanted to get to know her better, but a problem arose last night/ today. She met this guy and he had a g/f. After meeting her he quickly broke up with his g/f just a hour ago and planning to ask the girl of my dreams out tonight. All I can do is tell her how I feel over the phone? Because there's no way I can leave today.... please help


Seems like you already knew what your next move ought to be, quit wasting time and go for it.
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Aug 13, 2008 2:10 PM CST Need some help....
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Claayer: Ooerrr.. get in there quick.. call her.



thumbs up

Go for it, nothing ventured nothing gained
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Aug 13, 2008 2:14 PM CST Need some help....
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
nickster1921: Got the tip from friend

I have a big issue. I met this girl last week that is really amazing, beautiful, Smart, has a great smile and is just amazing. I wanted to get to know her better, but a problem arose last night/ today. She met this guy and he had a g/f. After meeting her he quickly broke up with his g/f just a hour ago and planning to ask the girl of my dreams out tonight. All I can do is tell her how I feel over the phone? Because there's no way I can leave today.... please help


Well i dont think you have to much to worry about..

Becos it seems like to me if another comes along..He will quickly
break up with her and move on to the next...

All the best to you
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Aug 13, 2008 2:23 PM CST Need some help....
FlowerOfTheSun
FlowerOfTheSunFlowerOfTheSunMalaga, Andalusia Spain7 Threads 1,017 Posts
nickster1921: Got the tip from friend

I have a big issue. I met this girl last week that is really amazing, beautiful, Smart, has a great smile and is just amazing. I wanted to get to know her better, but a problem arose last night/ today. She met this guy and he had a g/f. After meeting her he quickly broke up with his g/f just a hour ago and planning to ask the girl of my dreams out tonight. All I can do is tell her how I feel over the phone? Because there's no way I can leave today.... please help


Hopefully she'll see that this other guy is fickle ... tell her how you feel by whatever means!!!

Good luck!

teddybear
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Aug 13, 2008 2:25 PM CST Need some help....
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
gongman: Carpe Diem!!!


Yes do! thumbs up

(that does not mean fish day btw)


giggle
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Aug 13, 2008 2:44 PM CST Need some help....
nickster1921
nickster1921nickster1921huntingtown, Maryland USA3 Threads 21 Posts
yea I talked to her and she said she would have gone out with me if she know I liked her. She said she talking to that guy now, but their not going out yet... does this mean maybe there's still hope?
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Aug 13, 2008 2:50 PM CST Need some help....
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Yet???That is the question...

I wouldnt want to be you...

I would never put myself in a situation like that...

If i knew some guy i liked was talking or thinking maybe going out with
another but yet gave me some indication he liked me but YET talking to another...

I would say bye bye...
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Aug 13, 2008 2:59 PM CST Need some help....
nickster1921
nickster1921nickster1921huntingtown, Maryland USA3 Threads 21 Posts
so this mean its not a good chance for me?
she really wants to hang out with me.
She always ask when I'm comming down and now wants to come up and see me... I don't know what to do
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Aug 13, 2008 3:02 PM CST Need some help....
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
nickster1921: so this mean its not a good chance for me?
she really wants to hang out with me.
She always ask when I'm comming down and now wants to come up and see me... I don't know what to do


No i am just giving my opinion..that is all..

You have to do what you think is best for you...

I mean just becareful...listen to ur heart..ur stomach..

If you think something is up with her and what she says..then pls listen to urself...

But Do what is best for you...

I hope things go well for youhug
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Aug 13, 2008 3:04 PM CST Need some help....
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
kissmedeeply: No i am just giving my opinion..that is all..

You have to do what you think is best for you...

I mean just becareful...listen to ur heart..ur stomach..

If you think something is up with her and what she says..then pls listen to urself...

But Do what is best for you...

I hope things go well for you


I mean if you think she is being honest in what she says to you..

then by all means go with the flow..

But if you feel she is not being totally honest..Just becareful...

Dont put urself in a situation you can get out of
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Aug 13, 2008 3:04 PM CST Need some help....
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
Don't be shy, I think that is whats holding you back, just ask her. And try to hook up with the girl he broke up with too as a back up.professor
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Aug 13, 2008 3:04 PM CST Need some help....
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
kissmedeeply: I mean if you think she is being honest in what she says to you..

then by all means go with the flow..

But if you feel she is not being totally honest..Just becareful...

Dont put urself in a situation you can get out of


You cant get out of..
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Aug 13, 2008 4:14 PM CST Need some help....
nickster1921
nickster1921nickster1921huntingtown, Maryland USA3 Threads 21 Posts
yeah I know
I am the shyist person ever
I felt comfortable around this girl more then any other.
She drives my emotions off the charts
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Aug 13, 2008 4:23 PM CST Need some help....
EnSilencio
EnSilencioEnSilencioAlmunecar, Andalusia Spain13 Threads 2 Polls 1,118 Posts
nickster1921: yeah I know
I am the shyist person ever
I felt comfortable around this girl more then any other.
She drives my emotions off the charts


Ahh - good you are still on.

Here - this happened to me twice in life:

She was showing interest - as was I. But I kept tact and tone in between us, and of course this cowboy shows up. Twice it happened, and I learned my lesson fast.

First time I did nothing, just suffered doh "fool such as I"

She told me later (they broke up within a month) that if I had told her I was actually serious she would have not even considered saying yes to the "cowboy".

Second time - I met her (another girl here) at the same time as the cowboy (and another cowboy). He was fast asking her out. But before I let her leave, I took her to the side and told her - When you are done dining him, keep me in your thoughts, I would love you to give me a chance to win you from him. And I left.

She called next day. She had cancelled her date. We were together for three years. Great girl!

So you call her – do not oppose her dining him, but tell her you want to match him by a second date for her with you.

Go get her!
thumbs up cheers
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Aug 13, 2008 4:26 PM CST Need some help....
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
EnSilencio: Ahh - good you are still on.

Here - this happened to me twice in life:

She was showing interest - as was I. But I kept tact and tone in between us, and of course this cowboy shows up. Twice it happened, and I learned my lesson fast.

First time I did nothing, just suffered "fool such as I"

She told me later (they broke up within a month) that if I had told her I was actually serious she would have not even considered saying yes to the "cowboy".

Second time - I met her (another girl here) at the same time as the cowboy (and another cowboy). He was fast asking her out. But before I let her leave, I took her to the side and told her - When you are done dining him, keep me in your thoughts, I would love you to give me a chance to win you from him. And I left.

She called next day. She had cancelled her date. We were together for three years. Great girl!

So you call her – do not oppose her dining him, but tell her you want to match him by a second date for her with you.

Go get her!



Hurrah, there are few such as you around EnSilencio.
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