I have a big issue. I met this girl last week that is really amazing, beautiful, Smart, has a great smile and is just amazing. I wanted to get to know her better, but a problem arose last night/ today. She met this guy and he had a g/f. After meeting her he quickly broke up with his g/f just a hour ago and planning to ask the girl of my dreams out tonight. All I can do is tell her how I feel over the phone? Because there's no way I can leave today.... please help
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
nickster1921: Got the tip from friend
I have a big issue. I met this girl last week that is really amazing, beautiful, Smart, has a great smile and is just amazing. I wanted to get to know her better, but a problem arose last night/ today. She met this guy and he had a g/f. After meeting her he quickly broke up with his g/f just a hour ago and planning to ask the girl of my dreams out tonight. All I can do is tell her how I feel over the phone? Because there's no way I can leave today.... please help
I have a big issue. I met this girl last week that is really amazing, beautiful, Smart, has a great smile and is just amazing. I wanted to get to know her better, but a problem arose last night/ today. She met this guy and he had a g/f. After meeting her he quickly broke up with his g/f just a hour ago and planning to ask the girl of my dreams out tonight. All I can do is tell her how I feel over the phone? Because there's no way I can leave today.... please help
Seems like you already knew what your next move ought to be, quit wasting time and go for it.
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
nickster1921: Got the tip from friend
I have a big issue. I met this girl last week that is really amazing, beautiful, Smart, has a great smile and is just amazing. I wanted to get to know her better, but a problem arose last night/ today. She met this guy and he had a g/f. After meeting her he quickly broke up with his g/f just a hour ago and planning to ask the girl of my dreams out tonight. All I can do is tell her how I feel over the phone? Because there's no way I can leave today.... please help
Well i dont think you have to much to worry about..
Becos it seems like to me if another comes along..He will quickly break up with her and move on to the next...
I have a big issue. I met this girl last week that is really amazing, beautiful, Smart, has a great smile and is just amazing. I wanted to get to know her better, but a problem arose last night/ today. She met this guy and he had a g/f. After meeting her he quickly broke up with his g/f just a hour ago and planning to ask the girl of my dreams out tonight. All I can do is tell her how I feel over the phone? Because there's no way I can leave today.... please help
Hopefully she'll see that this other guy is fickle ... tell her how you feel by whatever means!!!
yea I talked to her and she said she would have gone out with me if she know I liked her. She said she talking to that guy now, but their not going out yet... does this mean maybe there's still hope?
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
Yet???That is the question...
I wouldnt want to be you...
I would never put myself in a situation like that...
If i knew some guy i liked was talking or thinking maybe going out with another but yet gave me some indication he liked me but YET talking to another...
so this mean its not a good chance for me? she really wants to hang out with me. She always ask when I'm comming down and now wants to come up and see me... I don't know what to do
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
nickster1921: so this mean its not a good chance for me? she really wants to hang out with me. She always ask when I'm comming down and now wants to come up and see me... I don't know what to do
No i am just giving my opinion..that is all..
You have to do what you think is best for you...
I mean just becareful...listen to ur heart..ur stomach..
If you think something is up with her and what she says..then pls listen to urself...
nickster1921: yeah I know I am the shyist person ever I felt comfortable around this girl more then any other. She drives my emotions off the charts
Ahh - good you are still on.
Here - this happened to me twice in life:
She was showing interest - as was I. But I kept tact and tone in between us, and of course this cowboy shows up. Twice it happened, and I learned my lesson fast.
First time I did nothing, just suffered "fool such as I"
She told me later (they broke up within a month) that if I had told her I was actually serious she would have not even considered saying yes to the "cowboy".
Second time - I met her (another girl here) at the same time as the cowboy (and another cowboy). He was fast asking her out. But before I let her leave, I took her to the side and told her - When you are done dining him, keep me in your thoughts, I would love you to give me a chance to win you from him. And I left.
She called next day. She had cancelled her date. We were together for three years. Great girl!
So you call her – do not oppose her dining him, but tell her you want to match him by a second date for her with you.
She was showing interest - as was I. But I kept tact and tone in between us, and of course this cowboy shows up. Twice it happened, and I learned my lesson fast.
First time I did nothing, just suffered "fool such as I"
She told me later (they broke up within a month) that if I had told her I was actually serious she would have not even considered saying yes to the "cowboy".
Second time - I met her (another girl here) at the same time as the cowboy (and another cowboy). He was fast asking her out. But before I let her leave, I took her to the side and told her - When you are done dining him, keep me in your thoughts, I would love you to give me a chance to win you from him. And I left.
She called next day. She had cancelled her date. We were together for three years. Great girl!
So you call her – do not oppose her dining him, but tell her you want to match him by a second date for her with you.
Go get her!
Hurrah, there are few such as you around EnSilencio.
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I have a big issue. I met this girl last week that is really amazing, beautiful, Smart, has a great smile and is just amazing. I wanted to get to know her better, but a problem arose last night/ today. She met this guy and he had a g/f. After meeting her he quickly broke up with his g/f just a hour ago and planning to ask the girl of my dreams out tonight. All I can do is tell her how I feel over the phone? Because there's no way I can leave today.... please help