I can only speak from my personal experience... and I'm thankful that there are anti-depressants in this world because medication along with other counselling has helped me get my life back.
West... I can understand where you are coming from, because I do also believe that doctors sometimes too easily hand out medication before trying other methods. There are definitely side effects from the medications as well, but it seems to me that people should be under better supervision to ascertain whether there are issues that need to be addressed.
I think that any treatment program needs to be monitored and that if medication is prescribed it should be combined with counselling to get the most effective results.
i've been taking Seroxat for the last 3 years and havent looked back since(seroxat is a form of prozac) there has been a long line of depression, Manic, Bi-polar, ocd, and severe anxiety to name a few, within my family from both sides of my parents..... i tried all sorts of alternative ways to keep mine under controll to no avail, when i was younger before treatment I was self harming, suffering with an eating disorder, and had attempted suicide too the point of I died briefly and had to be resusitated...... this was very treaumatic to my family and my eldest son who would of been quite young, but still old enough for it to of taken an effect on his personality.... it took about three months for the seroxat to star to work on the imbalances within my brain but since then i have been perfectly normal i have good days and bad just like every one else all within healthy boundarys.... what a lot of people don't realise is that a lot of depression is caused because the brain is producing insufficiant amounts of seratonin, (just like a dibetic with insulin) but once this is brought under controle the patient can live a full and normal life, I personaly feel what ever works for you is great, but it realy takes an uneducated person to impose on people with these types of illnesses to come of thier medication.... would they tell a diabetic to stop thier injections NO as this can lead to death, well the same can be said for depression, where suicide is a very real risk..... people need to read more and become more open minded to these things, some people are still living in the dark ages when some one with depression was sent to a mental asylum and left there to rot..... Again, depression is a real illness with real symptoms and people need to realise it and stop sweeping it under the carpet as if its something to be ashamed of........ OK I'M GONNA TAKE A BREATH NOW!
I am wondering if you West have ever suffered from a period of depression? I'm not talking about grief when someone passes away... but a true period of months where you are depressed that it affects your daily ability to function.... eating, sleeping, socializing, work etc.???
THANK YOU... I WILL SHOUT IT OUT LOUD FOR ALL TO HEAR I SUFFERED WITH AN ILLNESS AND THANKS TO MEDICAL SCIENCE AND VERY GOOD FRIENDS I GOT THROUGH IT....no more cause i am with my life,and who i am... also I must add, it takes a very strong person to get through this kind of illness(not blowing my trumpet, honestly)but for the people who are still suffering there is a light at the end of the tunnel, reach for it, and when you get there pat your self on the back and aknowledge what you have come through, it is who you are....
WestdeckOPAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands1,649 posts
I am glad it works for you girls. I really am! But reading how many young people are on this medication, and probably for life, horrifies me. In some cases I understand that the chemical imbalance can be, and probably must be fixed, and I understand the comparesent with insulin. But there are a lot of cases, where it is needlessly given. When people are in there mid-lifecrisses, the get it. When the loose a loved one, they get it, When they crash their car, they get it. Al those people loose the ability to go through the normal grieving motions. It often is given to 'soften' something that can, and often needs to be treated in other ways. And sometimes even not to be treated at all. A pill for everything? But I stress! I am happy for the ones that benefit from it, but we don't hear the ones that don't... and now I take a breath
westdeck you are one of the uneducated people i was tlking about...... you seem like an intelligant man most of the time so i am very surprised by your lack of propper knoweledge in to the real statistics.... if you mean the incidences of suicide of people on antidepressants true this can be high but this is due to the illness its self and not the medication..... you should read up a bit more and realise, that unless you are suffering, or someone who is close to you is suffering with depression in its worst form, and you have not seen the benifets for your self than you can not be truly aware of what you are saying...I dont advocate fix everything with pills but i do believe if something is working for you keep doing it....
If people have not faced it (truly experienced it)... they have no idea of the daily struggle and battle that is faced..... I also believe that it can be more debilitating compared to some physical ailments.
If one or two or three small pills can make such a huge difference in how I think and feel then I will take them..... I'd rather have a life worth living then being alive in my body but dead in my spirit and soul.
And if you don't agree with me... ask my brother.....oh, I guess that would actually be impossible because he shot himself in the head... so I guess that gives you the answer that you seek because he didn't seek the help that was available. I sometimes wonder if one small pill would mean that he would have made the difference between him being alive or dead.
i do see what you are saying, i too believe that a lot of medications are over prescribed, which is un called for.. sorry for blowing a horn i hadint read your next post when i wrot that one
tell me westdeck, if one of your loved ones was suffering from depression and suicidal and someone offered her a pill that could help her would you not ask her to take it
hey langly that must of been real hard hun, i'm my brothers primary carer at the moment(he is suffering real bad at the moment) like a lot of people (because of the stigma attatched to antipressants) he avoided taking them after they ewre prescribed. he ended up going into a full blown paranoid psychotic episode, which believe me was very frightening for all of us... if he had stayed on his meds i dont think he would of gotton this bad.. he is now currently on 12tablets a day and still isn't properlly balanced but his here and alive, and thank god.... i'm so sorry it came to the worst for your brother i truly am.
Deborah... thanks, but truthfully unless someone seeks help there is nothing that anyone can do. Personally I think it takes alot of courage for anyone to admit that they may be suffering and this is because the general public just does not understand..... I think sometimes it would be easier to be missing a leg to get compassion from people. Everybody just says... smarten up... its all in your mind... quit feeling sorry for yourself..etc. They just don't understand.
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