riyablossom: I am in those rare wont mince words mood.
Thanks to all of you who posted such good stuff and the little things for me.And one thing I ought to add :
A Man is the man he is ; so charming by the virtues he posesses which are obvious by his behavior , thoughts and mannerisms.
Its something that shows through WITHOUT having to ever say. Its that unexplicable charm and impressive demeanor which is spoken thro' the eyes. Its obvious.
And a Man is impressive even when he is vulnerable, emotional , sad , hurt and crying BUT when exhibited with the grace that comes with being human.
ClaayerOPWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
riyablossom: I am in those rare wont mince words mood.
Thanks to all of you who posted such good stuff and the little things for me.And one thing I ought to add :
A Man is the man he is ; so charming by the virtues he posesses which are obvious by his behavior , thoughts and mannerisms.
Its something that shows through WITHOUT having to ever say. Its that unexplicable charm and impressive demeanor which is spoken thro' the eyes. Its obvious.
And a Man is impressive even when he is vulnerable, emotional , sad , hurt and crying BUT when exhibited with the grace that comes with being human.
As you travel through life there are always those times when decisions just have to be made when the choices are hard, and solutions seem scarce and the rain seems to soak your parade!
There are some situations where all you can do is to simply let go and move on gather courage together and choose a direction that carries you toward a new dawn.
So pack up your troubles and take a step forward the process of change can be tough but think about all the excitement ahead if you can be stalwart enough!
There could be adventures you never imagined just waiting around the next bend and wishes and dreams just about to come true in ways you can't yet comprehend!
Perhaps you'll find friendships that spring from new interests as you challenge your status quo and learn there are so many options in life, and so many ways you can grow!
Perhaps you'll go places you never expected and see things that you've never seen or travel to fabulous, faraway worlds and wonderful spots in between!
Perhaps you'll find warmth and affection and caring- a "somebody special" who's there to help you stay centered and listen with interest to stories and feelings you share.
Perhaps you'll find comfort in knowing your friends are supportive of all that you do and believe that whatever decisions you make, they'll be the right choices for you!
So keep putting one foot in front of the other and taking your life day by day.
There's a brighter tomorrow that's just down the road. Don't look back- you're not going that way!
* Have you ever noticed that the worst way to miss someone is when they are right beside you and yet you can never have them.....when the moment you can't feel them under your fingertips, you miss them?
* Have you ever wondered which hurts the most; saying something and wishing you had not, or saying nothing and wishing you had?
* I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. They are the things you get ashamed of because words diminish them, words shrink things that seemed timeless when they were in your head...to no more than living size when they are brought out....
* Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart...but if you don't, you might break theirs.
* Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person?
* Your heart decides who it likes and who it doesn't. You can't tell your heart what to do. It does it on its own.... when you least suspect it, or even when you don't want it to.
* Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but that other person was too afraid to let you?
* Too many of us stay walled because we are too afraid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much, or at all.
* Have you ever loved someone and they had absolutely no idea whatsoever? Or fell for your best-friend in the entire world, and then sat around and watched him/her fall for someone else?
* Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?
* We tell lies when we are afraid.. afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie.... the thing we fear grows stronger.
* Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump. Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have, or could have had. No one waits forever...
Claayer: By the time the Lord made woman, He was into his sixth day of working overtime. An angel appeared and said, 'Why are you spending so much time on this one?' And the Lord answered, 'Have you seen my spec sheet on her? She has to be completely washable, but not plastic, have over 200 movable parts, all replaceable and able to run on diet coke and leftovers, have a lap that can hold four children at one time, have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart -and she will do everything with only two hands.'
The angel was astounded at the requirements. 'Only two hands!? No way! And that's just on the standard model? That's too much work for one day. Wait until tomorrow to finish.'
'But I won't, ' the Lord protested. 'I am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart. She already heals herself when she is sick AND can work 18 hour days.'
The angel moved closer and touched the woman. 'But you have made her so soft, Lord.'
'She is soft,' the Lord agreed, 'but I have also made her tough. You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish.'
'Will she be able to think?', asked the angel.
The Lord replied, 'Not only will she be able to think, she will be able to reason and negotiate.'
The angel then noticed something, and reaching out, touched the woman's cheek. 'Oops, it looks like you have a leak in this model. I told you that you were trying to put too much into this one.'
'That's not a leak,' the Lord corrected, 'that's a tear!' 'What's the tear for?' the angel asked.
The Lord said, 'The tear is her way of expressing her joy, her sorrow, her pain, her disappointment, her love, her loneliness, her grief and her pride.' The angel was impressed. 'You are a genius, Lord. You thought of everything! Woman is truly amazing.'
And she is! Women have strengths that amaze men. They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold happiness, love and joy. They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry. They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous. They fight for what they believe in. They stand up to injustice. They don't take 'no' for an answer when they believe there is a better solution. They go without so their family can have. They go to the doctor with a frightened friend. They love unconditionally. They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards. They are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding. Their hearts break when a friend dies. They grieve at the loss of a family member, y et they are strong when they think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart. Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors. They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show how much they care about you. The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning They bring joy, hope and love. They have compassion and ideals. They give moral support to their family and friends. Women have vital things to say and everything to give
HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE TINY FLAW IN WOMEN,
IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.
Yup!.. thats us..
You know what the really amazing thing is Claayer? Woma is an excay copy of a man. That is wahy God sees the two as one!!!
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Thanks to all of you who posted such good stuff and the little things for me.And one thing I ought to add :
A Man is the man he is ; so charming by the virtues he posesses which are obvious by his behavior , thoughts and mannerisms.
Its something that shows through WITHOUT having to ever say. Its that unexplicable charm and impressive demeanor which is spoken thro' the eyes. Its obvious.
And a Man is impressive even when he is vulnerable, emotional , sad , hurt and crying BUT when exhibited with the grace that comes with being human.
so .. thats that.
Very nicely said....