It takes two ( Archived) (8)

If you really love someone you stay with him/her throughout the good times and the bad.I lost my wife of 23 years to PANCREATIC cancer My wife was always there for me when I was diagnosedwith my ataxia.Our being intamite was always enjoyable.Ther were plennty of weeks because Cathy was sick that I would just stay with her at the hospital.I miss having soeone to talk to,be my friend,go out together,maybe kiss or hold hand ,taking walks with,going out for ice cream.Watching tv together.Being there when either partner feels a nned for just being ther.This my friends is a two way street not just what he/she can do for me.At least I was fortunate to find a soulmate ,friend,and life partner like that.Who know in time it may happen again.Thanks for stopping by and listen to me ratttle on.Chip 398

Chip

I share all your sentiments, but you are not doing yourself any favours by mailing this...

Hi Sommer, he seems to be saying he misses the friendship(I thought that would be a positive thing to say).

and he say's "Who know in time it may happen again". That seems so show a patience and willingness to get to know someone for themselves

and not just try to use the first passerby to fill the void.


Would you mind terribly, elaborating on why you feel it's a counter productive message?


I'm a curious sort, thanks.

So sorry Chip,a lot of us on here have a heart.If u want to talk about ur loss thats fine with me.I hope u do find someone who is right for u.