Anyone on here have a compulsive disorder or some sort? And is there any help for this really???
Mine happens to be cleaning...i am a fanatic about having my house clean...i know i know...but i get out the q-tips and old toothbrush when i clean...i'm burning myself out with this...
I don't happen to have one but I know some about them. To try to slow it down some, make a contract with yourself (sounds weird but it works) that for say, just for example sake, 2 weeks I will cut one part of this out. Then in 2 weeks cut another out that is beyond what would be considered "normal". Or you can cut it down to so many times a week or so many hours or whatever, lots of variations there. Slowly removing yourself from the behavior and as a reward for sticking with your contract, give yourself a treat, be it a hot bubble bath, movie, dinner out, whatever. Whatever makes you feel like your doing something just for YOU. When the time is up for each contract (make the time something you feel you can live with without pushing yourself TOO hard) make another to cut it back until it's where you feel is livable, not overdoing it and not under-doing it.
Hope that helps some. It's not an easy thing to deal with, it's not just "because you want to" it's actually a disease so don't beat yourself up for it either, k? And best wishes, hope you can get a handle on it.
You mean to say i have NO CHANCE with you at all???
Thanks Joovisst...i'll keep what you said in mind...I really don't WANT to clean so much..i just can't seem to help it and now its like second nature i don't even think about what i'm doing..i just do it..and i work outside the home as well so believe me..i need to rest!
Yea...mine have to be cleaning too...But that goes for me and my sister both.
Maybee it's just a learnerd trait? Hmmmmmm Dunno.
Seeing my mom ever since I can remember..constantly cleaning house and making an art out of it...I mean seriously! she would vacuum at least twice a day....Thank God I'm not that meticulouse. lol
no izzyva i really do know just dont wish to share my experience. im not saying distraction doesnt work all im saying is it doesnt work for everybody. Infact it really pisses me off when they say that and i know it does to others to.
Beuty is not everything you know, there needs to be compatability as well. And I´m a dirty mongler. If you can leave a couple of dirty pizza plates on the counter for a week or so, until they turn green, then
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Mine happens to be cleaning...i am a fanatic about having my house clean...i know i know...but i get out the q-tips and old toothbrush when i clean...i'm burning myself out with this...