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Oct 21, 2008 10:55 AM CST Just Another Mother....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Do you think that there are men out there who consciously/subconsciously date you, not because its a big "love affair", but because you care and look after them like their mother did?....but still maintain they are "in love" with you?

What would be the signs that would indicate this to you?
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Oct 21, 2008 11:06 AM CST Just Another Mother....
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
wikked: Do you think that there are men out there who consciously/subconsciously date you, not because its a big "love affair", but because you care and look after them like their mother did?....but still maintain they are "in love" with you?

What would be the signs that would indicate this to you?



Yes....but I am nobody's mother except my children's...so they won't be dating me for that reason!!!!!



When they expect you to look after them and take you for granted...but they do nothing to look after you or make sure your needs are met...they are only worried about their own...and of course they would say they are in love with you because they don't want to lose a good thing...Heaven forbid if they have to be alone and look after themselves!!!!!!!!




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Oct 21, 2008 3:31 PM CST Just Another Mother....
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
wikked: Do you think that there are men out there who consciously/subconsciously date you, not because its a big "love affair", but because you care and look after them like their mother did?....but still maintain they are "in love" with you?

What would be the signs that would indicate this to you?


I had one of those. He always ate at my house, didn't even like to shower when he spent the night......he never invited me to his house, always had an excuse. There was also this huge bill i lent him 500euros for, only, he used the money to 'help out a friend who needed it more, at the time'. Funny, he had all these friends (including a female who would call him at midnight), who 'couldn't' help him when he needed the money. Well, this relationship lasted only a month.

......right after i demanded he give my money back.

He was a mama's boy. roll eyes
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Oct 21, 2008 3:36 PM CST Just Another Mother....
ModestlyAwesome
ModestlyAwesomeModestlyAwesomePhoenix, Arizona USA3 Threads 2 Polls 322 Posts
lusciousmile: I had one of those. He always ate at my house, didn't even like to shower when he spent the night......he never invited me to his house, always had an excuse. There was also this huge bill i lent him 500euros for, only, he used the money to 'help out a friend who needed it more, at the time'. Funny, he had all these friends (including a female who would call him at midnight), who 'couldn't' help him when he needed the money. Well, this relationship lasted only a month.

......right after i demanded he give my money back.

He was a mama's boy.


Sounds like a stand up guy roll eyes Hope you have better luck in the future.
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Oct 21, 2008 3:40 PM CST Just Another Mother....
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
lusciousmile: I had one of those. He always ate at my house, didn't even like to shower when he spent the night......he never invited me to his house, always had an excuse. There was also this huge bill i lent him 500euros for, only, he used the money to 'help out a friend who needed it more, at the time'. Funny, he had all these friends (including a female who would call him at midnight), who 'couldn't' help him when he needed the money. Well, this relationship lasted only a month.

......right after i demanded he give my money back.

He was a mama's boy.


Sis, in a month time you lend money to a guy? Sis, ma cazzodoh

Well, we always end up being their mothers in a way. But exclusively, such as giving my money and again...he being lazy just doing the service? Hah, i have a lot of aunts, my mother had 7 sisters, all crazy, so i've seen a lot!laugh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 21, 2008 3:43 PM CST Just Another Mother....
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
ModestlyAwesome: Sounds like a stand up guy Hope you have better luck in the future.


I'm traumatized. rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 21, 2008 3:58 PM CST Just Another Mother....
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
cristina: Can't you take instead?




Take 500euros from 27 year old boys?


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Oct 21, 2008 3:59 PM CST Just Another Mother....
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
lusciousmile: Take 500euros from 27 year old boys?


The same way you can afford that, they can also do the same!uh oh
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Oct 21, 2008 4:02 PM CST Just Another Mother....
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
cristina: The same way you can afford that, they can also do the same!


Don't worry, he 'paid' for that money. drinking
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Oct 21, 2008 4:04 PM CST Just Another Mother....
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
lusciousmile: Don't worry, he 'paid' for that money.


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Oct 21, 2008 4:14 PM CST Just Another Mother....
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
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