A mom in tears! ( Archived) (38)

now i was bought up by my mom who didn't believe in fighting,she taught us to walk away from anyone.that you cannot control what someone else says nor thinks of you,what someone else says or thinks about you does not matter.

do not waste your time talking to a**hole,you will not get no place with them.always walk away.but this is the only part she allow us to fight,when someone else lays a hand on us.than and only than we had her permission to beat the living hell out of them.by any means that we could


now here is where my oldest brother came into the picture.he spent his own life in and out of prison.when we was born 1 by 1 he made a proisme to him self.that none of his brother's would ever see a inside of a prison.

so not only when we did something wrong not only did we have our parents to answer to,but what was left he got.but i was always doing stupid stuff but never breaking any laws.

he agree with my mom that we should never fight,when we can walk away.but if someone else laid a hand on us.all bets was off and he taught us how to fight.he taught us that when you get someone on the ground no matter how big they are.on the ground everyone is the same size.

he taught us if someone is bigger than us to pick up what he calls a equalizer to bring them down to size.when we had to fight he taught us to do 3 things
1). to beat the hell out of them so they will never again think about messing with us
2). beat them in such a way that when we turn our backs to walk away.they cannot come up and attack us from behind
3). to offer them our hand in friendship,if they accept it than they are our friends,if not than never take our eyes off of them

it is sad that even now a days our children are going through the same thing we went through,when we was there age.yes teach your children to walk away if they can,but also tell them it is alright to defend theirsevles.but it is not alright to hit another child or start a fight with someone else.

if you cannot teach your child or children how to defend theirsevles.than find someone who can.but only teach them to use it in self defense and only for that reason


all of my 5 children went to the same JR. high school,yes even my baby went,they all caught the same bus and had the same bus driver.the teachers knew each of my children.

1 day i get a phone call from the school to come up there.when i got there i was show into the dean's office.to my surprize she was sitting there laughing.i asked her what was so funny than she told me

she knew all of my 5 children and none of them have gotten into trouble until now.it seens like my baby beat the living hell out of a boy.she did everything she was suppose to do,she told the teacher and she told the dean that the boy was messing with her

they tried to get the boy to stop but he didn't listen to them.on that day he made a mistake,he hit my daughter at the wrong time,when he hit her all hell broke loose and she beated the living hell out of him.

it took 2 teachers to get her off of her,but she did what she was suppoe to do,but sometimes you have to take matters into your own hands and take care of the problem yourself.

on that day the boy and other children learn a lesson that they will not forget,if you mess with my baby she will beat the living hell out of you.she follow the rules but when the rules would not work,she took the matters into her own hands.