Sommerauer71: A person dying, and a person leaving for another is two different concepts.
If my partner died, I would find it easier than if a person left me for another.
You see, if he was with me when he died, then that is out of my control, if he leaves me for another, then there is often a question as to why...
Now, for the three people who I know of who have suffered loss here in death that is not belittling your grief at all.
Sommer, I realize your not trying to insult anyone here. But, I hope to god you never have to go through the experience of having your lifetime "partner" die. You really don't know because you have never experienced it.
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