Are you ready for a long-term relationship? ( Archived) (944)

Nov 27, 2008 10:09 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
PeaceFool: I can handle a list. ya, usually find something in there like...

do away insecurities.. wow.. I think that one is best judged by the observer.

ya, the longer I'm alone, the larger the list of 'don't want' gets.

then... love happens and what list???? lol

headed for the possibility of heartbreak, hoping for the joy of love
peace

al



You are right. "love happens and then what list". It's cool to have it in our minds what we want but have to be careful or we might pass up some really great people because they don't quite fit into our "idea" of the perfect mate. Funny it's really about chemistry can talk online all you want but until you have that first meeting and it's goes fine, then the first kiss and it goes well then the first disagreement better to put the list under the mattress. We all have things that we won't tolerate but then again we are coming together with others who have their own lists lol.
good luck.
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Nov 27, 2008 10:10 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
PeaceFool: I can handle a list. ya, usually find something in there like...

do away insecurities.. wow.. I think that one is best judged by the observer.

ya, the longer I'm alone, the larger the list of 'don't want' gets.

then... love happens and what list???? lol

headed for the possibility of heartbreak, hoping for the joy of love
peace

al
I keep saying all of the heartbreak is worth it when we finally find real love.applause wink wine applause
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Nov 27, 2008 10:12 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
mylifewithu: Men don't like list, and there's some there that will scare most away.


That is okay, nothing is writen in blood, if they read my profile they will find some of this there too.
It weeds some out and that is okay too.
This way everyone knows what to expect from me.
dancing
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Nov 27, 2008 10:18 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA51 Threads 1 Polls 1,863 Posts
Yes. I'm available! grin uh oh frustrated
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Nov 27, 2008 10:20 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Zeloniy: Yes. I'm available!
Yea we Have one more man , applause applause hug professor
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Nov 27, 2008 10:23 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
I know I am a strong person and also know I am flexable as I have said before, anymore flexable and I could be called a pretzel lol.
I know what I want and what I need, it is as simple as all that.
No surprises with me. What you see is what you get.
Oh did I mention this? He needs to have a great sense of humour and enjoy mine.
I am not afraid to put my needs and wants on the line.
This way my future partner knows what to expect.
Would it be better if he finds this out later?

dunno
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Nov 27, 2008 10:23 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
gtthomas
gtthomasgtthomasTowson, Maryland USA6 Threads 1,370 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: NIghty Night ALLLLLLLLLLL.....I better hit the hay...
That's a nice placewink
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Nov 27, 2008 10:26 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
hollandgirl: I know I am a strong person and also know I am flexable as I have said before, anymore flexable and I could be called a pretzel lol.
I know what I want and what I need, it is as simple as all that.
No surprises with me. What you see is what you get.
Oh did I mention this? He needs to have a great sense of humour and enjoy mine.
I am not afraid to put my needs and wants on the line.
This way my future partner knows what to expect.
Would it be better if he finds this out later?
Even in my profile where I tried to keep list down I still see some negativity, really the profile should be all positive and then when we are getting to know someone tell them more. I have been meaning to change mine a bit.wine
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Nov 27, 2008 10:29 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA51 Threads 1 Polls 1,863 Posts
mylifewithu: Yea we Have one more man ,
Don't call me names! Iaaam a human being! crying blues

tongue rolling on the floor laughing grin
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Nov 27, 2008 10:40 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Zeloniy: Don't call me names! Iaaam a human being!
hug laugh laugh comfort It's ok , yes you are, a mighty nice one too.hug professor
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Nov 27, 2008 10:47 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
All single people looking for a long term relationship, come sign up Here, Please!!!!applause applause applause hug
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Nov 27, 2008 11:02 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
HOLY CRAP...when I left this morning...there were like 15 pages here...I have a ton of reading to do now....laugh
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Nov 27, 2008 11:04 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
IMmeURyou
IMmeURyouIMmeURyouDe Pere, Wisconsin USA4 Threads 1,192 Posts
i'm here to sign upprofessor
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Nov 27, 2008 11:06 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
autumbreeze
autumbreezeautumbreezeDurham, Ontario Canada49 Posts
Imasquirly1: HOLY CRAP...when I left this morning...there were like 15 pages here...I have a ton of reading to do now....


thumbs up
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Nov 27, 2008 11:08 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
Sweety2356
Sweety2356Sweety2356Ceres, California USA1 Posts
professor Im ready! cool
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Nov 27, 2008 11:10 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
desmond
desmonddesmondkissimmee, Florida USA375 Threads 10,888 Posts
Imasquirly1: HOLY CRAP...when I left this morning...there were like 15 pages here...I have a ton of reading to do now....




rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Hi Sweetie hug
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Nov 27, 2008 11:10 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
desmond
desmonddesmondkissimmee, Florida USA375 Threads 10,888 Posts
Sweety2356: Im ready!




Hi Sweety nice to meet you handshake cheers
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Nov 27, 2008 11:11 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
IMmeURyou: i'm here to sign up
Great applause applause wine
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Nov 27, 2008 11:11 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Sweety2356: Im ready!
Good deal applause applause wine
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Nov 27, 2008 11:12 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Imasquirly1: HOLY CRAP...when I left this morning...there were like 15 pages here...I have a ton of reading to do now....
There is a lot to readprofessor rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing comfort
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