PeaceFool: I can handle a list. ya, usually find something in there like...
do away insecurities.. wow.. I think that one is best judged by the observer.
ya, the longer I'm alone, the larger the list of 'don't want' gets.
then... love happens and what list???? lol
headed for the possibility of heartbreak, hoping for the joy of love peace
al
You are right. "love happens and then what list". It's cool to have it in our minds what we want but have to be careful or we might pass up some really great people because they don't quite fit into our "idea" of the perfect mate. Funny it's really about chemistry can talk online all you want but until you have that first meeting and it's goes fine, then the first kiss and it goes well then the first disagreement better to put the list under the mattress. We all have things that we won't tolerate but then again we are coming together with others who have their own lists lol. good luck.
hollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
mylifewithu: Men don't like list, and there's some there that will scare most away.
That is okay, nothing is writen in blood, if they read my profile they will find some of this there too. It weeds some out and that is okay too. This way everyone knows what to expect from me.
hollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
I know I am a strong person and also know I am flexable as I have said before, anymore flexable and I could be called a pretzel lol. I know what I want and what I need, it is as simple as all that. No surprises with me. What you see is what you get. Oh did I mention this? He needs to have a great sense of humour and enjoy mine. I am not afraid to put my needs and wants on the line. This way my future partner knows what to expect. Would it be better if he finds this out later?
hollandgirl: I know I am a strong person and also know I am flexable as I have said before, anymore flexable and I could be called a pretzel lol. I know what I want and what I need, it is as simple as all that. No surprises with me. What you see is what you get. Oh did I mention this? He needs to have a great sense of humour and enjoy mine. I am not afraid to put my needs and wants on the line. This way my future partner knows what to expect. Would it be better if he finds this out later?
Even in my profile where I tried to keep list down I still see some negativity, really the profile should be all positive and then when we are getting to know someone tell them more. I have been meaning to change mine a bit.
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do away insecurities.. wow.. I think that one is best judged by the observer.
ya, the longer I'm alone, the larger the list of 'don't want' gets.
then... love happens and what list???? lol
headed for the possibility of heartbreak, hoping for the joy of love
peace
al
You are right. "love happens and then what list". It's cool to have it in our minds what we want but have to be careful or we might pass up some really great people because they don't quite fit into our "idea" of the perfect mate. Funny it's really about chemistry can talk online all you want but until you have that first meeting and it's goes fine, then the first kiss and it goes well then the first disagreement better to put the list under the mattress. We all have things that we won't tolerate but then again we are coming together with others who have their own lists lol.
good luck.