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Nov 27, 2008 9:38 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
gtthomas
gtthomasgtthomasTowson, Maryland USA6 Threads 1,370 Posts
dcj22: Thank you Thomas.
Your Welcometip hat
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Nov 27, 2008 9:44 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
mylifewithu: It's a petite seizure when not a grand mal. But that's the description my husband used on them. He had a very old brain injury, when he was a teenager he was hit by a train and in a coma for many months after. So this was his leftovers from a brain injury.
Has anybody been shaking that baby, that will do it too. Or has fallen and looked like minor injuries.



No, they don't shake them, thank goodness, and shockingly, she hasnt taken a fall, the little monkey.

The day it started, Em was babysitting and Gracie was asleep when they started. She's often asleep when it happens.



Lea just called and wanted to keep Em another night! I said NO!! I've missed my girl today!
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Nov 27, 2008 9:47 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
dcj22: No, they don't shake them, thank goodness, and shockingly, she hasnt taken a fall, the little monkey.

The day it started, Em was babysitting and Gracie was asleep when they started. She's often asleep when it happens.
Lea just called and wanted to keep Em another night! I said NO!! I've missed my girl today!
Night was when my husband had his also but they were the big ones. And during the day the petite ones, he would be sitting normal but his eyes glassed over and in a stare. So I hope they get it figured out what it is or get her on meds unfortunately. hug
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Nov 27, 2008 9:50 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
mylifewithu: Night was when my husband had his also but they were the big ones. And during the day the petite ones, he would be sitting normal but his eyes glassed over and in a stare. So I hope they get it figured out what it is or get her on meds unfortunately.


I do too. Poor thing. When Em was babysitting that day, I was at the neurologist with the mom and 3yo. He has a Chiari Malformation in his brain. He has horrible headaches. Fortunately, they shouldn't need to operate. He'll be on pain meds, and hopefully frow out of it in his teens.
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Nov 27, 2008 9:51 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Ladies.....


1 Kitty01
2 Dana (dcj22)
3 Jackie (cutelildevilsmom)
4 Druidess6308
5 autumnbreeze
6 Jenny (hollandgirl)
7 aberfoyle
8 Mylifewithu
9 Sarah (blueriver30)
10 arlene101
11 Imasquirly1
12 Linda (brokenspirit) Spirit healed for the record
13 Sue49
14 NoMindGames
15 JBIbiza
16 Immanuelle
17 Hugz_n_Kisses
18 Samorra77
19 LonelyinBC31



Men..........

1 Desmond
2 Mwhitefalcon
3 Bob (B_S1965)
4 Doorman112
5 jlw45
6 Harleyquinn
7 Luthion
8 mxtsptlk
9 Abram
10 ElvisFan
11 MrFforFun
12 Al (PeaceFool)
13 CuspofMagic
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Nov 27, 2008 9:51 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
I hope I didn't miss anyone. I'm signing off for the night. Em will be home soon.

Thank you all for a fun day!

danahug bouquet
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Nov 27, 2008 9:52 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
NIghty Night ALLLLLLLLLLL.....I better hit the hay...wave wink hug teddybear hug bouquet yawn sleep
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Nov 27, 2008 9:54 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
My resume

Lol the longer I have to wait before I see you/him the longer my "demand" list is getting lol.
My list is of course not only for you but anyone un-lucky enough to be my next "victim"

Must not need to be right all the time,
When wrong is able to say "sorry" and mean it.
Must never, never lie! This is a big one!
Must enjoy giving massages mmmmmm.
Must never go to bed angry.
Must never hold a grudge.
Must never remind his/her partner of things done or said, eons ago, if at the time it was dealt with.
Never say ugly things like your too fat, your just like your mother, etc. endless variations on this one. You can say all the "I am so sorries" you want. Once said, the damage is done.
Must never be sarcastic.
Must discuss buying large purchases not like; "honey look outside how do you like the new car I just bought?"
Must never cheat.
Must allow each other space if so desired.
May look at other beautiful women/men, shows he/she is still alive.

Being attracted is a start but if the personality is not matching, move on Jenny.
Trust has to be there, loyalty, appreciating the little things, have a generous spirit, not being arrogant, being tolerate, be honest, being able to communicate, being able to express your feelings, being clean, respectful of your partner.
Gentleness and not being selfish and demanding nor being a controller!
Not being a clinging vine, but show affection.
Sharing some, not necessary all, of the other's interest, willingness to please the other. Being observant.
Reasonable intelligent and being handy, not being insecure, being open minded, taking some pride in himself and last, but surely not least, being a considerate lover. cheering
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Nov 27, 2008 9:54 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
dcj22: I hope I didn't miss anyone. I'm signing off for the night. Em will be home soon.

Thank you all for a fun day!

dana
Goodnight thanks for all of your work on thisapplause wave wine
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Nov 27, 2008 9:55 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: NIghty Night ALLLLLLLLLLL.....I better hit the hay...
Goodnight Shelly sweet dreams wave hug teddybear
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Nov 27, 2008 9:56 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
desmond
desmonddesmondkissimmee, Florida USA375 Threads 10,888 Posts
dcj22: I hope I didn't miss anyone. I'm signing off for the night. Em will be home soon.

Thank you all for a fun day!

dana




Have a great night sweetie hug lips hug and give EM a big hug for me hug
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Nov 27, 2008 9:57 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
hollandgirl: My resume

Lol the longer I have to wait before I see you/him the longer my "demand" list is getting lol.
My list is of course not only for you but anyone un-lucky enough to be my next "victim"

Must not need to be right all the time,
When wrong is able to say "sorry" and mean it.
Must never, never lie! This is a big one!
Must enjoy giving massages mmmmmm.
Must never go to bed angry.
Must never hold a grudge.
Must never remind his/her partner of things done or said, eons ago, if at the time it was dealt with.
Never say ugly things like your too fat, your just like your mother, etc. endless variations on this one. You can say all the "I am so sorries" you want. Once said, the damage is done.
Must never be sarcastic.
Must discuss buying large purchases not like; "honey look outside how do you like the new car I just bought?"
Must never cheat.
Must allow each other space if so desired.
May look at other beautiful women/men, shows he/she is still alive.

Being attracted is a start but if the personality is not matching, move on Jenny.
Trust has to be there, loyalty, appreciating the little things, have a generous spirit, not being arrogant, being tolerate, be honest, being able to communicate, being able to express your feelings, being clean, respectful of your partner.
Gentleness and not being selfish and demanding nor being a controller!
Not being a clinging vine, but show affection.
Sharing some, not necessary all, of the other's interest, willingness to please the other. Being observant.
Reasonable intelligent and being handy, not being insecure, being open minded, taking some pride in himself and last, but surely not least, being a considerate lover.
Men don't like list, and there's some there that will scare most away.laugh wink wine
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Nov 27, 2008 9:58 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
aberfoyle
aberfoyleaberfoyleCoffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia17 Threads 1 Polls 1,328 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Right on g/f....



Hey Hugz ...gee get hooked on chat for a few minutes and four pages get added to this thread wave


hug
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Nov 27, 2008 9:58 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
mylifewithu: Men don't like list, and there's some there that will scare most away.
Mostly cause it's a bit too demanding soundinghug wave
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Nov 27, 2008 9:59 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
aberfoyle
aberfoyleaberfoyleCoffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia17 Threads 1 Polls 1,328 Posts
dcj22: I hope I didn't miss anyone. I'm signing off for the night. Em will be home soon.

Thank you all for a fun day!

dana



night Dana wave hug
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Nov 27, 2008 10:01 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
Abram
AbramAbramGoshen, Ohio USA9 Threads 2,077 Posts
wave Good night all. Gotta take the lab pup out to do his business then turn in. See ya tomorrow sometime.
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Nov 27, 2008 10:02 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Abram: Good night all. Gotta take the lab pup out to do his business then turn in. See ya tomorrow sometime.
Goodnight, sleepwellwave wine
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Nov 27, 2008 10:02 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
aberfoyle
aberfoyleaberfoyleCoffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia17 Threads 1 Polls 1,328 Posts
goodnight Abram wave
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Nov 27, 2008 10:02 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
desmond
desmonddesmondkissimmee, Florida USA375 Threads 10,888 Posts
Abram: Good night all. Gotta take the lab pup out to do his business then turn in. See ya tomorrow sometime.




Have a good night Abram cheers
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Nov 27, 2008 10:05 PM CST Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
PeaceFool
PeaceFoolPeaceFoolHawarden, Iowa USA8 Posts
I can handle a list. ya, usually find something in there like...

do away insecurities.. wow.. I think that one is best judged by the observer.

ya, the longer I'm alone, the larger the list of 'don't want' gets.

then... love happens and what list???? lol




headed for the possibility of heartbreak, hoping for the joy of love
peace

al

mylifewithu: Men don't like list, and there's some there that will scare most away.
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