Why are women so fussy about a mans looks?being this way they miss out on a lot of genuine love. (14)

Dec 1, 2008 2:58 PM CST Why are women so fussy about a mans looks?being this way they miss out on a lot of genuine love.
CUDDLYBEAR1964
CUDDLYBEAR1964CUDDLYBEAR1964East Goscote Leicester, Leicestershire, England UK31 Threads 539 Posts
Im a genuine man with a warm loving affectionate caring nature.Im extremely funny and since ive been on this site,around 3yrs i have sent emails and flowers to women who i thought were genuinely looking for a genuine man but all ive met has been ignorance and sometimes some hurtful comments about my looks...so why is it women are so picky and fussy cos being so,they are losing out on a lot...IM TOTALLY FED UP WITH HOW I GET TREATED BY WOMEN...THEYRE NOT FAIR AND VERY HURTFUL..just because i only have normal looks...ive been through a lot of hurt,pain and heartbreak throughout my life...lost my only daughter...Im a human being ive been hurt enough....I WANT SOME HAPPINESS....surely thats not a lot to ask for.My hearts been broken and abused enough..I just want a genuine woman to want me and all the love i can give her.
Dec 1, 2008 3:26 PM CST Why are women so fussy about a mans looks?being this way they miss out on a lot of genuine love.
phoenix
phoenixphoenixparis, Ile-de-France France81 Threads 4 Polls 3,669 Posts
Can't help....never had that problem....Get out more..

bouquet
Dec 1, 2008 4:47 PM CST Why are women so fussy about a mans looks?being this way they miss out on a lot of genuine love.
lint874
lint874lint874Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 414 Posts
There are a few things that you can do to improve your "looks". And they don't involve surgery either:

1 don't worry about what women can do for you. Concentrate on what you can do for the women that you meet

2 maintain a positive outlook and a sunny disposition

3 become a business tycoon and earn yourself a million or two

4 join a band

5 appear regularly on TV

6 become an MP

7 go to Thailand where lots of women will keep telling you what a "hansum man" you are


And if none of that works for you, you could just decide that your happiness does not depend on what women think of you. Your happiness depends upon what you think of yourself - and surely you think you're a very special guy? And being a special guy is reason enough to be happy.
Dec 1, 2008 5:06 PM CST Why are women so fussy about a mans looks?being this way they miss out on a lot of genuine love.
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
lint874: There are a few things that you can do to improve your "looks". And they don't involve surgery either:

1 don't worry about what women can do for you. Concentrate on what you can do for the women that you meet

2 maintain a positive outlook and a sunny disposition

3 become a business tycoon and earn yourself a million or two

4 join a band

5 appear regularly on TV

6 become an MP

7 go to Thailand where lots of women will keep telling you what a "hansum man" you areAnd if none of that works for you, you could just decide that your happiness does not depend on what women think of you. Your happiness depends upon what you think of yourself - and surely you think you're a very special guy? And being a special guy is reason enough to be happy.
pointing Dashes in, crowns lint874 official forum Agony Uncle cheering Tiptoes joy out of thread again innocent
Dec 1, 2008 5:11 PM CST Why are women so fussy about a mans looks?being this way they miss out on a lot of genuine love.
lint874
lint874lint874Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 414 Posts
Zellarrone1: Dashes in, crowns lint874 official forum Agony Uncle Tiptoes out of thread again


rolling on the floor laughing
Dec 1, 2008 8:44 PM CST Why are women so fussy about a mans looks?being this way they miss out on a lot of genuine love.
bren1
bren1bren1Bucks, Buckinghamshire, England UK1 Threads 445 Posts
lint874: There are a few things that you can do to improve your "looks". And they don't involve surgery either:

1 don't worry about what women can do for you. Concentrate on what you can do for the women that you meet

2 maintain a positive outlook and a sunny disposition

3 become a business tycoon and earn yourself a million or two

4 join a band

5 appear regularly on TV

6 become an MP

7 go to Thailand where lots of women will keep telling you what a "hansum man" you areAnd if none of that works for you, you could just decide that your happiness does not depend on what women think of you. Your happiness depends upon what you think of yourself - and surely you think you're a very special guy? And being a special guy is reason enough to be happy.


doh See what I mean..... poor Deano is goin to end up on the X factor...Dragons Den....or
get mistaken for Gary Glitter in friggin Thailand roll eyes
Dec 2, 2008 6:17 AM CST Why are women so fussy about a mans looks?being this way they miss out on a lot of genuine love.
bren1
bren1bren1Bucks, Buckinghamshire, England UK1 Threads 445 Posts
Zellarrone1: Noo, I'm still holding onto my Agony Aunt Crown.

Just given it a good polish so it's shining extra brightly ->

lint874 and I are going to share joint ownership of our new venture "Partners in Agony" So many problems on here that we'll probably have to work some kind of rota out... I'll be busy solving problems during the day, then he will take over on the nightshift


laugh @"Partners in Agony" I'm glad your still the Agony Aunt......cause I think my

stalkers back......uh oh
Dec 2, 2008 7:45 AM CST Why are women so fussy about a mans looks?being this way they miss out on a lot of genuine love.
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
bren1: @"Partners in Agony" I'm glad your still the Agony Aunt......cause I think my

stalkers back......
I noticed that too wink
Dec 2, 2008 3:02 PM CST Why are women so fussy about a mans looks?being this way they miss out on a lot of genuine love.
phoenix
phoenixphoenixparis, Ile-de-France France81 Threads 4 Polls 3,669 Posts
Angel_Diva: i so hate it when this man is rite but again...( dont get ideas phoenix...im stll the ice maiden) he gives good advice...he should know.......................


Thanks diva...

wine
Dec 2, 2008 4:24 PM CST Why are women so fussy about a mans looks?being this way they miss out on a lot of genuine love.
anglophile
anglophileanglophileChattown, Washington USA4 Threads 623 Posts
phoenix: Hi CB...this is easy..relax. also change your 'handle'..Join in the forums and start to butter some fit nublie females up...then take it from there. Sometimes they say no..Some times they say yes..

For the record i've been happily single for years..I get to see my monsters, sometime at weekend ends i go out (very important)..Also it's a good idea sometimes to punch above your weight..In laymans terms, you see a woman who is out of your league go for her. You have nothing to loose..if she says no, you are in the same position but if she says..yes..then you are up..


What kind of shallow advice is that???? The man is complaining about WOMEN being shallow and look what he gets for advice. fit women that are out of his league.

If he wants a geniune woman and not some playmate of the month, then he needs to stop worrying at her outer beauty and start looking at HER. Who she actually is not what she looks like. She because a woman is pretty doesn't make her geniune or nice, or kind, or anything else. She could be the biggest witch that walked the earth.

Maybe the women of his dreams is short, extra weight, and very plain but she has a heart of gold, a great sense of humor, loves all the same books, listens to the same music, and has similar interests.
Dec 2, 2008 4:34 PM CST Why are women so fussy about a mans looks?being this way they miss out on a lot of genuine love.
phoenix
phoenixphoenixparis, Ile-de-France France81 Threads 4 Polls 3,669 Posts
What kind of shallow advice is that????
quote]


If you read between the lines...it is sound advice. Very sound advice..


bouquet
Dec 2, 2008 4:39 PM CST Why are women so fussy about a mans looks?being this way they miss out on a lot of genuine love.
anglophile
anglophileanglophileChattown, Washington USA4 Threads 623 Posts
phoenix: What kind of shallow advice is that????
quote]If you read between the lines...it is sound advice. Very sound advice..


How did you come to that conclusion? The fact that he hooks up with a pretty girl. Well, if that's all that's important here, then he has no right to complain about girls being shallow.
Dec 2, 2008 5:02 PM CST Why are women so fussy about a mans looks?being this way they miss out on a lot of genuine love.
phoenix
phoenixphoenixparis, Ile-de-France France81 Threads 4 Polls 3,669 Posts
anglophile:

How did you come to that conclusion? The fact that he hooks up with a pretty girl. Well, if that's all that's important here, then he has no right to complain about girls being shallow.


It has nothing to do with the physical attributes of the woman who CB is looking for (sorry for talking about you CB in this way)...but more to do with him relaxing and enjoy being single...

From reading his original profile and the postings i got the impression that CB was maybe trying to hard...

As for punching above his weight..nothing wrong with that..Like I said sometimes the girl says ...OI (my case) phoenix in your dreams sunshine...or then again it's a case of hello i'm johnny cash..


But women today don't want the same sort of thing that women wanted years ago...Most women today are independant and fairly sure of what they want and how to get it...What is wrong with blokes thinking along the same lines...

I'll take on board your point about no one has the right to complain about women being shallow if he (anymale) comes across as shallow. then he looses the right to complain.

And for the record i don't think any of the women who use this site..IF-EU-IR-UK-OZ forums (i post on them all)...are shallow. I think they (women) all have lots to offer..And i love women regardless of their shape, size, colour or creed....




bouquet
Dec 2, 2008 5:19 PM CST Why are women so fussy about a mans looks?being this way they miss out on a lot of genuine love.
anglophile
anglophileanglophileChattown, Washington USA4 Threads 623 Posts
phoenix: It has nothing to do with the physical attributes of the woman who CB is looking for (sorry for talking about you CB in this way)...but more to do with him relaxing and enjoy being single...

From reading his original profile and the postings i got the impression that CB was maybe trying to hard...

As for punching above his weight..nothing wrong with that..Like I said sometimes the girl says ...OI (my case) phoenix in your dreams sunshine...or then again it's a case of hello i'm johnny cash..But women today don't want the same sort of thing that women wanted years ago...Most women today are independant and fairly sure of what they want and how to get it...What is wrong with blokes thinking along the same lines...

I'll take on board your point about no one has the right to complain about women being shallow if he (anymale) comes across as shallow. then he looses the right to complain.

And for the record i don't think any of the women who use this site..IF-EU-IR-UK-OZ forums (i post on them all)...are shallow. I think they (women) all have lots to offer..And i love women regardless of their shape, size, colour or creed....


Ok. Fair enough.
cheers
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