Guys are playing games ( Archived) (12)

Dec 8, 2008 12:54 PM CST Guys are playing games
Kidgloves
KidglovesKidglovesBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK19 Threads 1 Polls 121 Posts
Why do some guys on the dating sites arrange to meet and then do not show up?
Guys that is mean and nasty you do not deserve to have a date.devil very mad
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Dec 8, 2008 12:58 PM CST Guys are playing games
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Kidgloves: Why do some guys on the dating sites arrange to meet and then do not show up?
Guys that is mean and nasty you do not deserve to have a date.



They play their game well...and some women play the same game...I think it's just an ego trip myself...to see just how many they can hook and get to agree to meet them...and then the joke turns out to be on you for accepting.....things like this make it hard to decipher who is genuine on here and who is just playing to boost their own ego...leaving a trail of often times broken hearts behind them....wave wink roll eyes dunno uh oh doh
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Dec 8, 2008 1:06 PM CST Guys are playing games
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Once i've set a meeting with a paranoid guy who claimed to be a farmer kind. I've set a meeting at a garden if the whether was ok. I really liked him as a friend, he kept on saying he wasn't my type, i didn't really care, i insisted we meet just like that because he had been a true online friend.

Suddenly he started questioning why did i want to meet at a garden, which is a dangerous place (according to him), where people were usually mugged, that i was conspirating against him with his ex here on CS...and then he started sending me non-stop mails asking me to stop our friendship, telling me he knew i was on msn because i was on CS...

Before, he seemed normal!

roll eyes

Men can also find excuses not to have just a tea...dunno
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Dec 8, 2008 1:12 PM CST Guys are playing games
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Once i've set a meeting with a paranoid guy who claimed to be a farmer kind. I've set a meeting at a garden if the whether was ok. I really liked him as a friend, he kept on saying he wasn't my type, i didn't really care, i insisted we meet just like that because he had been a true online friend.

Suddenly he started questioning why did i want to meet at a garden, which is a dangerous place (according to him), where people were usually mugged, that i was conspirating against him with his ex here on CS...and then he started sending me non-stop mails asking me to stop our friendship, telling me he knew i was on msn because i was on CS...

Before, he seemed normal!



Men can also find excuses not to have just a tea...[/quote

CONSPIRING!

doh
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Dec 8, 2008 1:13 PM CST Guys are playing games
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
cristina: Once i've set a meeting with a paranoid guy who claimed to be a farmer kind. I've set a meeting at a garden if the whether was ok. I really liked him as a friend, he kept on saying he wasn't my type, i didn't really care, i insisted we meet just like that because he had been a true online friend.

Suddenly he started questioning why did i want to meet at a garden, which is a dangerous place (according to him), where people were usually mugged, that i was conspirating against him with his ex here on CS...and then he started sending me non-stop mails asking me to stop our friendship, telling me he knew i was on msn because i was on CS...

Before, he seemed normal!



Men can also find excuses not to have just a tea...


Wow, Y, I hope you finally got to meet him! Sounds like excellent husband material!laugh roll eyes hug wave
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Dec 8, 2008 1:19 PM CST Guys are playing games
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Ambrose2007: Wow, Y, I hope you finally got to meet him! Sounds like excellent husband material!


...and he was a poster honey, not a regular one but he waslaugh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

I haven't met him and i don't think i willsigh

Hi Jeffhug
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Dec 8, 2008 2:02 PM CST Guys are playing games
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
Kidgloves: Why do some guys on the dating sites arrange to meet and then do not show up?
Guys that is mean and nasty you do not deserve to have a date.


Isn't it funny!! I had a date with a woman from another site. I even called her from the place we were to meet and made sure she had the right directions. She never showed.


tongue tongue tongue
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Dec 8, 2008 2:11 PM CST Guys are playing games
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
Maybe they saw ya and ran..laugh
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Dec 8, 2008 2:13 PM CST Guys are playing games
tipaly81
tipaly81tipaly81Moscow, Idaho USA56 Threads 15 Polls 950 Posts
pretzelman: Isn't it funny!! I had a date with a woman from another site. I even called her from the place we were to meet and made sure she had the right directions. She never showed.


Been there, only the guy showed . . . . about 20 minutes late. I am such a stickler for timing and all. I have friends that I never make plans w/ at all because they can't be trusted to show up on time or at all. doh
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Dec 8, 2008 2:24 PM CST Guys are playing games
hrt4lse
hrt4lsehrt4lseRedding, California USA13 Threads 1,233 Posts
Kidgloves: Why do some guys on the dating sites arrange to meet and then do not show up?
Guys that is mean and nasty you do not deserve to have a date.


I've had that happen several times in the past. So far it hasn't happened since I moved. I would only wait 30 minutes and then leave. I also wouldn't stay and have dinner by myself.....now if a guy ever pulls a no show I'd probably go ahead and have dinner by myself (I've done it enough now that it's not so weird).
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Dec 8, 2008 2:26 PM CST Guys are playing games
hrt4lse
hrt4lsehrt4lseRedding, California USA13 Threads 1,233 Posts
cardsfan24: Maybe they saw ya and ran..


I had one guy call me after I was driving home (after waiting 30 minutes in the waiting area right at the front door) trying to claim that he'd been there, gone through the restaurant, didn't see me & left. I asked him if he bothered to look and see who was waiting to be seated....he said no....I told him he'd walked right past me & didn't bother looking....he wanted me to come back.....I was pulling in my driveway at that point & told him nope.
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Dec 8, 2008 2:28 PM CST Guys are playing games
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
hrt4lse: I had one guy call me after I was driving home (after waiting 30 minutes in the waiting area right at the front door) trying to claim that he'd been there, gone through the restaurant, didn't see me & left. I asked him if he bothered to look and see who was waiting to be seated....he said no....I told him he'd walked right past me & didn't bother looking....he wanted me to come back.....I was pulling in my driveway at that point & told him nope.
Wow...that's tough
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