man who can't take no for an answere! ( Archived) (19)

Jan 1, 2009 12:21 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
Yvonne66
Yvonne66Yvonne66kiruna, Norrbotten Sweden8 Threads 2 Polls 65 Posts
A couple fo times now i have in a very polite way said no thank you and have refered to my profile when it comes to what i'm looking for! i have also asked the guy if he had read it, oh yes he has and he thinks we're a great match! So i say no thanks and ask him once again to read it, he probably does because he writes me back with words i don't even want to write down here. Not nice once if you wonder..doh manners please!
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Jan 1, 2009 12:26 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
abbiye
abbiyeabbiyesofia, Sofia City Bulgaria10 Threads 344 Posts
hes an idiot,i meet at least one per daylaughthey are very quick to insult you if they dont have their way.just block him.hug
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Jan 1, 2009 4:41 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Yvonne66: A couple fo times now i have in a very polite way said no thank you and have refered to my profile when it comes to what i'm looking for! i have also asked the guy if he had read it, oh yes he has and he thinks we're a great match! So i say no thanks and ask him once again to read it, he probably does because he writes me back with words i don't even want to write down here. Not nice once if you wonder.. manners please!



Hence the reason I don't even bother to respond anymore...my silence should say it all...it shouldn't have to be written...wave wink roll eyes hug kiss hug heart beating
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Jan 1, 2009 4:50 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
In response to: A couple fo times now i have in a very polite way said no thank you and have refered to my profile when it comes to what i'm looking for! i have also asked the guy if he had read it, oh yes he has and he thinks we're a great match! So i say no thanks and ask him once again to read it, he probably does because he writes me back with words i don't even want to write down here. Not nice once if you wonder.. manners please!



"I know exactly what you mean.....the bloke...!!."

frustrated
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Jan 1, 2009 5:02 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
Yep, thats why I don't bother responding to emails from men I'm not interested in.

Every single time I've responded to say I wasn't interested, they guy trys to argue his case and tell my why I'm wrong about him.

so tip for the guys:

If she reads your email and doesn't respond: leave her alone and move on.

if she does respond to say 'no thank you' or what ever: leave her alone and move on.
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Jan 1, 2009 5:03 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
BarrenPneuma
BarrenPneumaBarrenPneumaGolden Staircase, Ontario Canada87 Threads 3 Polls 1,561 Posts
princess49503: Yep, thats why I don't bother responding to emails from men I'm not interested in.

Every single time I've responded to say I wasn't interested, they guy trys to argue his case and tell my why I'm wrong about him.

so tip for the guys:

If she reads your email and doesn't respond: leave her alone and move on.

if she does respond to say 'no thank you' or what ever: leave her alone and move on.


Yeah but who cares... Detroit beat Chicago and that is all that matters on this glorious day!!!hug
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Jan 1, 2009 5:05 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
BarrenPneuma: Yeah but who cares... Detroit beat Chicago and that is all that matters on this glorious day!!!


Datsyuk rocks!!head banger
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Jan 1, 2009 5:09 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
princess49503: Yep, thats why I don't bother responding to emails from men I'm not interested in.

Every single time I've responded to say I wasn't interested, they guy trys to argue his case and tell my why I'm wrong about him.

so tip for the guys:

If she reads your email and doesn't respond: leave her alone and move on.

if she does respond to say 'no thank you' or what ever: leave her alone and move on.


doh I was wonderin what I was doin wrong grin

We were raised to walk up to woman, beat our chests, scream at the top of our voice and drag women into the cave by the hair.

Oh I long for the good ole days
Life was so much simpler rolling on the floor laughing



IMO - they are plonkers.........
wine
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Jan 1, 2009 5:19 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
vinny1967: I was wonderin what I was doin wrong

We were raised to walk up to woman, beat our chests, scream at the top of our voice and drag women into the cave by the hair.

Oh I long for the good ole days
Life was so much simpler
IMO - they are plonkers.........



The guys who try to 'argue' their way into my heart make themselves look like crybabiescrying


laugh the chest beating and display of dominance would have a better response wink
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Jan 1, 2009 5:23 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
princess49503: The guys who try to 'argue' their way into my heart make themselves look like crybabies the chest beating and display of dominance would have a better response


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

God I wish we had you Ladies problems mumbling

Turning them away and discussin how ? OMG such a problem.......

Yeah I can imagine some people not takin no for an answer




bouquet
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Jan 1, 2009 5:28 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Yvonne66: A couple fo times now i have in a very polite way said no thank you and have refered to my profile when it comes to what i'm looking for! i have also asked the guy if he had read it, oh yes he has and he thinks we're a great match! So i say no thanks and ask him once again to read it, he probably does because he writes me back with words i don't even want to write down here. Not nice once if you wonder.. manners please!


Just tell them you sell Ikea...tongue laugh
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Jan 1, 2009 5:53 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Hence the reason I don't even bother to respond anymore...my silence should say it all...it shouldn't have to be written...
professor ....silence IS golden....uh oh
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Jan 1, 2009 5:58 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
Yvonne66: A couple fo times now i have in a very polite way said no thank you and have refered to my profile when it comes to what i'm looking for! i have also asked the guy if he had read it, oh yes he has and he thinks we're a great match! So i say no thanks and ask him once again to read it, he probably does because he writes me back with words i don't even want to write down here. Not nice once if you wonder.. manners please!
nice profile....straight to the point...

some guys are just gooberslaugh
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Jan 1, 2009 6:09 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
seamushan
seamushanseamushangalway, Galway Ireland24 Posts
It all a test their just playing hard to get keep at it no matter how many no s you get no means she wants you bigtimehead banger
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Jan 1, 2009 7:30 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
babymilo
babymilobabymiloWollongong, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 1 Polls 64 Posts
seamushan: It all a test their just playing hard to get keep at it no matter how many no s you get no means she wants you bigtime


Seamushan,

I'm shattered..

Are you now suggesting that there are women users at CS who are totally being deceptive and manipulative?. Cannot believe that people would do that. oh..That is so dishonest.

OR

Could it be however that some folk actually do not understand what the word NO means?.
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Jan 1, 2009 7:38 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
babymilo
babymilobabymiloWollongong, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 1 Polls 64 Posts
seamushan: It all a test their just playing hard to get keep at it no matter how many no s you get no means she wants you bigtime


Then again... those who do not respond?. are they being dishonest too?.

Or is the golden silence, or non response OK or just an excuse?
Silence = NO...??

Hmmm probably just some folk are destined to be rude, whether it is the abusive idiot who does'nt understand NO or the person who just thinks it is ok to ignore. Maybe they are both one in the same, but opposite ends.
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Jan 1, 2009 8:41 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
gypsykisses
gypsykissesgypsykissesPort Huron, Michigan USA7 Threads 1 Polls 2,405 Posts
babymilo: Then again... those who do not respond?. are they being dishonest too?.

Or is the golden silence, or non response OK or just an excuse?
Silence = NO...??

Hmmm probably just some folk are destined to be rude, whether it is the abusive idiot who does'nt understand NO or the person who just thinks it is ok to ignore. Maybe they are both one in the same, but opposite ends.




drinking I see no rule stating that someone has to answer a strangers email if they don't want to. I used to, but as the op has found out, it leads to some getting extremely ignorant and out of order. This is just like real life. Rejection occurs to everyone. It's all in the way that you deal with it. If you don't get an answer and you notice that they read it, get over it and move on. Period. bouquet
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Jan 1, 2009 8:43 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
gypsykisses: I see no rule stating that someone has to answer a strangers email if they don't want to. I used to, but as the op has found out, it leads to some getting extremely ignorant and out of order. This is just like real life. Rejection occurs to everyone. It's all in the way that you deal with it. If you don't get an answer and you notice that they read it, get over it and move on. Period.



Yep....wink thumbs up hug kiss
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Jan 1, 2009 11:11 PM CST man who can't take no for an answere!
babymilo
babymilobabymiloWollongong, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 1 Polls 64 Posts
gypsykisses: I see no rule stating that someone has to answer a strangers email if they don't want to. I used to, but as the op has found out, it leads to some getting extremely ignorant and out of order. This is just like real life. Rejection occurs to everyone. It's all in the way that you deal with it. If you don't get an answer and you notice that they read it, get over it and move on. Period.


gypsykisses

For the majority of users it is called being polite
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