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May 27, 2006 6:10 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I read so many posts about the profiles that women write..how we are "wordy" and have an ever soooo long list of requirements etc etc...i would think its obvious that we are trying to be very specific about what we are looking for (give or take)...but men are still not catching on to this...there's may be the "standard" (with a few exceptions)...I mean i like the outdoors too...i need the air to breathe!...My fish comes in a little blue and white box that says Captain Highliner, and eggs come in a gray carton...how it got there is of no concern to me...My idea of "roughing it" is NO ROOM SERVICE!!
So then if you know this about me...why are all the "mountain men" trying to convince me i'll be happy living in LaLa Land with them...I'm being honest...
And then i have to feel bad when i send them a message trying to explain why i'm not the best match for them...for the hundreth time!!

I think i just needed to vent...but any comments??frustrated
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May 27, 2006 6:13 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
you are just a woman that knows what you want hun kiss
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May 27, 2006 6:13 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
johndivr
johndivrjohndivrMiddle East, Florida USA15 Threads 491 Posts
whats with these cyber divorce papers??????
PETA= people eat tasty animals
Be Good Wikked! LOL jr
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May 27, 2006 6:14 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
wikked.....ill tell you what youre not looking for......and thats vinny.....i mean stevey......i mean coolguyred.......cooldude21......christian1968......well one of his profiles......the last thing you want....... is a fake........professor
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May 27, 2006 6:16 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
yep just another example of peeps not reading the profiles.as for the outdoors if there aint a bathroom with running water and toilet paper forget it laugh
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May 27, 2006 6:18 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Thanks love....you're right what i want is the real thing!!...
As for the "fakes" well if they don't know who they are...then they can't really expect me to now can they?...(Where is April when you need her!)....tongue laugh


By the way...good morning Wave!!:bye:
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May 27, 2006 6:19 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
You are obviously what they want and they hope you will relent and give them a chance.
I understand what you are saying, but it is a complement each time a guy bothers to get in touch.
Your right for sticking to what you are looking for, only you know youself well enough to know what you can and can't accept in a partner.
You are just too irresistably wink

devil
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May 27, 2006 6:20 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Do they understand if i want "leaves" and a hole in the ground for a toilet...i'll audition for Survivor...at least there is a million dollars at stake there...and believe me when i tell you i ain't squatting over no hole where there isn't payoff in the endwink rolling on the floor laughing
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May 27, 2006 6:23 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Thanks Lydia...but where i saw it as perhaps a compliment at the start...now i feel...is there something wrong with ME...I know they will not be happy with me..nothing i do will make up for the fact that i can't fit into that atmosphere they are suggesting...and then i'm just left feeling that i'm just not what ANYONE is looking for...crying
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May 27, 2006 6:29 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
Hey I feel the same way as you hun, no way leaves or holes in the ground would work for me either! And I couldn't do it even if there was a payoff at the end!
I went through too much for my ex, only to end up with nothing, never going through anything for anyone again, end of story.
I don't mean my children in the nothing, they are everything to me.
I keep telling myself there is nothing wrong with me, but for the fact that second best won't wash.
You are so much younger, someone will be right. hug

devil
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May 27, 2006 6:45 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
I think all of us have said okay o people we knew wern't right but we thought we could try and compromise..we ended up alone and hurt.
So stick to your guns,i have been here 2 yrs ,still single and will remain so till someone I feel I can fit in with comes along..handshake
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May 27, 2006 6:49 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
Takes time, hon...I know we say it alot, but it's true...

being divorced and completely out of a relationship comes first, yes?

you have your lists of wants, expectations...

I find reality is hard for most to accept, too.

oh, well! pavs the way for someone, maybe? =o/

heheheh

Stop feeling bad about you. Get out of that mode of thought. On your feet and free..then, go for it! =oD
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May 27, 2006 6:50 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Do men even realize that we tried to tell them from the start...and then their departing words when they're leaving is that "you're not the woman i thought you were"...laugh
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May 27, 2006 6:52 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
so true.i got the words "you've changed"..laugh
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May 27, 2006 6:54 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I always replied...I changed Dink because you wanted me too!!laugh
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May 27, 2006 6:59 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
oh I got the "you've changed" words....hell and why did I change....because I woke up eventually! Not soon enough, kept thinking all would work out, but no.

So 13 years on and not sorry I divorced him.

yay

devil
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May 27, 2006 7:01 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Lydia i'm not sorry at all that i cut their sorry asses loose...just wish the men on here would stop considering all that "baggage"...lolcheers
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May 27, 2006 7:08 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
They are kidding themselves that they have no "baggage"!
even some who have not married and not had children have some sort of issues, they just won't admit it!
Unless you are totally shallow and devoid of any emotion (and who would want someone like that) we all have a past history of some kind.

hug cheers

devil
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May 27, 2006 7:17 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Lydia do you think i should rephrase my profile to read "have baggage...i call it life..." Dinks and Fakes (aka multiple profile people...i consider THAT baggage...) need not apply....

I really like the word Dink todayapplause
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May 27, 2006 7:18 AM CST NOT what you're looking for....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
YES!!! you used your outdoor voicelaugh
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