if were not attracted when we meet ???? ( Archived) (47)

tell me somit why do men and maybe women might do it i dont know that side but i supose they do.....why do they always assume that you want them if you dont even attract and click to them when you meet off of here , it dont always happen like that you get to know someone and then you see them and meet and sometimes the buble goes not anyones fault but why do men get a snot on cos you might not fancy them and not want to take things further ........i dont get it ?????
i thought being on a date site u have to have fun nut remain open minded and know what u want theres no point lying and saying yes id love to meet ya then not turn up or call xxx whats the point
anm i right to be honest and tell them or not but in a nice way of course xxxxxx

allybabexx, I have been rejected by some of the most beautiful women here, and everywhere else for that matter, and I'm still ok. Never been rude to a woman coming into my life, or leaving it. No point whatsoever. You are pricisely right in telling them the truth, cause sooner or later, thier gonna know anyway. Better to cut it off before it becomes a huge issue and someone really gets hurt. Just my opinion, Joe.

Most times if I'm unsure about someone I just met .... I might have another date because sometimes people are nervous, etc. on a first date. If there is still no chemistry happening then I'll tell them because you don't want to lead them on.

If they choose to react as a "snot" that is their choice and aren't you glad you made the decision that you did?

Ditto. Paws

hey man? was it a double date?

You're right to be honest.

If a woman told me things won't work, I'm history. They'll never hear from me again

when you argue with your date is it out loud? or do you keep it all in your head?

ally - I have to admit that the first guy I met from online for a date was a disaster, I choked my way through the meal and because I was to chicken, waited until I got home to email him and tell him that I was not interested.

Pictures and profiles can be deceiving, I learned to be honest when we actually met from then on.

Honesty is more appreciated to me than wasting time on both sides.