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Jan 14, 2009 9:52 AM CST Todays thought (for all)...
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
If someone dislikes me, or resents something I have done, I ought first consider whether it was I who generated the dislike or resentment. Was it something I did? Is it something I should make amends for? If so, am I inclined to justify what I did when it wasn't really right? Answering these questions wil give me good practice with being honest with myself.

If I was hurtful, and I make excuses to myself for what I did, I am building a second wall between me and the person I injured. Let me tear the first wall down by being honest and honestly acknowledging my fault.

What a relief it is to acknowledge that I am only human, that I do make mistakes, and that I am willing to correct them. I can't help liking myself better after the air has been cleared. In solidifying a friendship, I become a better friend to myself.
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Jan 14, 2009 10:06 AM CST Todays thought (for all)...
HJFinAZ: If someone dislikes me, or resents something I have done, I ought first consider whether it was I who generated the dislike or resentment. Was it something I did? Is it something I should make amends for? If so, am I inclined to justify what I did when it wasn't really right? Answering these questions wil give me good practice with being honest with myself.

If I was hurtful, and I make excuses to myself for what I did, I am building a second wall between me and the person I injured. Let me tear the first wall down by being honest and honestly acknowledging my fault.

What a relief it is to acknowledge that I am only human, that I do make mistakes, and that I am willing to correct them. I can't help liking myself better after the air has been cleared. In solidifying a friendship, I become a better friend to myself.



This is so very true Pat. I know I've done some stupid things on and off this site that have probably ticked some people off.And I take responsiblity for my own actions cause their of my own doing and I'm sorry I did those things.I'm not afraid to admit in public that I was wrong for doing them. I'm only human and I make mistakes just like anyone else.

Not having a woe is me piry party I just needed to get this off my chest.
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Jan 14, 2009 10:07 AM CST Todays thought (for all)...
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Sometimes ppl dislike for no reason at all other then what they make up in their own minds.
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Jan 14, 2009 10:11 AM CST Todays thought (for all)...
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
somechick: This is so very true Pat. I know I've done some stupid things on and off this site that have probably ticked some people off.And I take responsiblity for my own actions cause their of my own doing and I'm sorry I did those things.I'm not afraid to admit in public that I was wrong for doing them. I'm only human and I make mistakes just like anyone else.

Not having a woe is me piry party I just needed to get this off my chest.



Sorry this line just sent my mind to another place wink rolling on the floor laughing bouquet
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Jan 14, 2009 10:13 AM CST Todays thought (for all)...
Dknew: Sorry this line just sent my mind to another place


Typical male. LOL!!!!

My minds always in another place and has been for some time now.rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 14, 2009 10:47 AM CST Todays thought (for all)...
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
somechick: Typical male. LOL!!!!

My minds always in another place and has been for some time now.


DO we dare ask where??grin

None of our business though..sigh
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