what do women look for in a guy these days then?? (20)

Jul 22, 2008 9:58 AM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
boarduser
boarduserboardusercork, Cork Ireland34 Threads 91 Posts
Because whatever it is i must be missing it!! I've been single for four years now.....although i did hook up with a girl in the past two years like twice and and that was it since then confused blues
Jul 22, 2008 11:00 AM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
SillyGirl
SillyGirlSillyGirlDublin 15, Dublin Ireland26 Threads 1,529 Posts
I don't knw, different people seek different things.
For me honesty & sincerity are a big must have, but very hard to come by these days.
A sense of humour & a bit of chemistry wouldn't go amiss either ...

God this list could get longer so I'll stop now rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Jul 22, 2008 11:40 AM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
ThomasPatrick
ThomasPatrickThomasPatrickTallinn, Estonia, Longford Ireland22 Posts
They just need a man to be a man
None of this fluffy politically correct stuff.
Good old fashioned mutual respect
Jul 22, 2008 11:50 AM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
AutumR
AutumRAutumRover looking a meadow, Louth Ireland14 Threads 883 Posts
~~~He needs to be honesty , attentive, loyal, helpful...she's right this list could go on for a whilewave
Jul 22, 2008 11:51 AM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
dunno dunno dunno dunno and vise versa dunno uh oh
Jul 22, 2008 11:52 AM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
jaw drop scold
Jul 22, 2008 11:59 AM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
emigre
emigreemigre40 minutes from the beach, Kilkenny Ireland6 Threads 173 Posts
you an me both dodge, not sure if we had it removed at birth or we've just been careless and lost it somewhere along the way.

not sure about these lists that are coming out though - honesty is number one for me and i'd claim to be considerate and attentive but men like me don't seem to do as well as those that are macho, domineering and selfish...
Jul 22, 2008 12:04 PM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
mrwright1
mrwright1mrwright1downtown ballybollock, Sligo Ireland7 Threads 1,069 Posts
i love the may most of the women look for honesty laugh
and when you give it to them, thats it your out the door.
the question ''does my bum look big it this?'' springs to mindrolling on the floor laughing
Jul 22, 2008 12:16 PM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
Sevenotwo
SevenotwoSevenotwoDublin, Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,381 Posts
wright by name, right by sentiment
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Jul 22, 2008 12:30 PM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
blues u dont have to be that honest tongue
Jul 22, 2008 12:35 PM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
AutumR
AutumRAutumRover looking a meadow, Louth Ireland14 Threads 883 Posts
mrwright1: i love the may most of the women look for honesty
and when you give it to them, thats it your out the door.
the question ''does my bum look big it this?'' springs to mind



~~~rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing You've got a poit there.
Jul 22, 2008 12:46 PM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
emigre
emigreemigre40 minutes from the beach, Kilkenny Ireland6 Threads 173 Posts
personally i like a big bum. not the size of cork (county) but a good handful certainly
Jul 22, 2008 12:50 PM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
mrwright1
mrwright1mrwright1downtown ballybollock, Sligo Ireland7 Threads 1,069 Posts
markizamkd25: u dont have to be that honest


too right i'm not.
i've learned from some painful experiences doh laugh
Jul 22, 2008 1:25 PM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
Sevenotwo
SevenotwoSevenotwoDublin, Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,381 Posts
Mind-reading is a skill, that I find I am often assumed to have? Anybody else get this?
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Jul 22, 2008 1:39 PM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
mrwright1
mrwright1mrwright1downtown ballybollock, Sligo Ireland7 Threads 1,069 Posts
Sevenotwo: Mind-reading is a skill, that I find I am often assumed to have? Anybody else get this?
7


yeap,
all the time laugh
Jul 22, 2008 2:10 PM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
In response to: personally i like a big bum. not the size of cork (county) but a good handful certainly
blushing blushing nice for addmiting that
Jul 22, 2008 5:43 PM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
missdundalk
missdundalkmissdundalkDundalk, Louth Ireland8 Threads 161 Posts
You know what...

certain qualities do appeal of course,
for me kindness, charisma, honesty and warmth are a plus...

But they must have that je ne sais quoi which is only a spark between two people...that is very very important...they have to get me...
i know one or two people and sometimes they say what i am thinking...now that is chemistry...on the same wavelength, that you get each other you are both going "oh yeah!" and at the same time you can both hold your own and have a difference of opinion...a guy appeals when he is strong also and i mean he is not a walkover or too nicey nice, he has character and substance...jmopurple heart
Jul 22, 2008 8:09 PM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
missdundalk: You know what...

certain qualities do appeal of course,
for me kindness, charisma, honesty and warmth are a plus...

But they must have that je ne sais quoi which is only a spark between two people...that is very very important...they have to get me...
i know one or two people and sometimes they say what i am thinking...now that is chemistry...on the same wavelength, that you get each other you are both going "oh yeah!" and at the same time you can both hold your own and have a difference of opinion...a guy appeals when he is strong also and i mean he is not a walkover or too nicey nice, he has character and substance...jmo


Good post thumbs up

Oh and Mr Wright, its always handy to know the time to be honest and the time to be diplomatic i.e. the time when you want to die and the time when you want to live rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Jul 22, 2008 8:29 PM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
silver44
silver44silver44bangor, Gwynedd, Wales UK2 Threads 145 Posts
me rolling on the floor laughing
Jul 23, 2008 8:40 AM CST what do women look for in a guy these days then??
skimpydoo
skimpydooskimpydooDublin, Ireland170 Threads 3 Polls 4,805 Posts
Well I am about too say the obvious but a pulse is the answerrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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