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nebraska11 Threads 4 Postsi need help,my boyfriend of four years slept with a good friend of mine when i went home to visit my family.they were seen together at an after bar kissing and carrying on.both are denying it and he wants me back.any advise on what to do?
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Good friend??? I think not! Boyfriend ? I wish you well and happiness. Don't be afraid to put your foot down. Nebraska
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If there is no trust there than what is the point in continuing a relationship with either of them?
Are the people who saw them credible?
Are the people who saw them credible?
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Make sure that you have proof that they did indeed do what you think...than kick them both to the curb.
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Not that I'd deal well with either one, but uhhhh, big difference between "slept with a good friend of mine" and "they were seen together at a bar kissing".
Sounds like you might have a little investigating to do if you can't decide which it was.
Sounds like you might have a little investigating to do if you can't decide which it was.
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Listen to Windy' any further posts will be redundant. Paws
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Ok, first how many people said that saw them, how reliable are they?
It is a difficult situation. There are two things you can do, the choice is yours.
One is, if you love him, you need to see it happen with your own eyes; four years is quite some time, and probably you do love him. Give him the benefit of a doubt, give him a chance and put him on probation, there are so many signs that can take you to the truth. I have to warn you, it will never be the same, you will always be wondering until you discover the truth.
The second choice, dump him, better now that later, things happen for a reason, it is never clear at the beginning but you will have a better view after sometime time and who knows even be thankful that it happen.
Take care,
Yami
It is a difficult situation. There are two things you can do, the choice is yours.
One is, if you love him, you need to see it happen with your own eyes; four years is quite some time, and probably you do love him. Give him the benefit of a doubt, give him a chance and put him on probation, there are so many signs that can take you to the truth. I have to warn you, it will never be the same, you will always be wondering until you discover the truth.
The second choice, dump him, better now that later, things happen for a reason, it is never clear at the beginning but you will have a better view after sometime time and who knows even be thankful that it happen.
Take care,
Yami
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Think we are pretty much saying the same thing..lol
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RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN NOW.......... and delete your friend, for that is not a friend my darling...
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Two words.....Move on.
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kick him to the curb that way you can find someone who really loves you,someone you will be able to trust.most of all someone who you know their love will never be untrue,but their love will always and forever be true to youif he does it once how you know he would not do it again,if he done it once how you know he has not done it more than once.when you are in a realtionship with someone it means being commited to only that person and no one else
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Windy and Lionheart have good points.
If you are wrong then the title of this thread belongs to your boyfriend.
How many times has a whisper been construed as necking??, and the being seen together..how many times has just conversation been seen as a (discreet) meeting. The person telling these tales.... well, I've expereinced some well intended people who fill in the spaces of stories as if they are helping me ... from one picture they interpet what is or has happened.
But if you are sure andfeelit is true in your gut that these things did indeed happen..........Duh, this is a no brainer.... to the curb with the garbage.
hell even if they did'nt happen and you ahve this feeelings .so quickly to accuse... let him go hes to much for you to accuse everytime you are apart from someone.... Why put yurself thru it dayum why torture another becasue of jealous rages... step up and do the right thing..... hey this guy may enjoy your jealous tiraids.
If you are wrong then the title of this thread belongs to your boyfriend.
How many times has a whisper been construed as necking??, and the being seen together..how many times has just conversation been seen as a (discreet) meeting. The person telling these tales.... well, I've expereinced some well intended people who fill in the spaces of stories as if they are helping me ... from one picture they interpet what is or has happened.
But if you are sure andfeelit is true in your gut that these things did indeed happen..........Duh, this is a no brainer.... to the curb with the garbage.
hell even if they did'nt happen and you ahve this feeelings .so quickly to accuse... let him go hes to much for you to accuse everytime you are apart from someone.... Why put yurself thru it dayum why torture another becasue of jealous rages... step up and do the right thing..... hey this guy may enjoy your jealous tiraids.
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