Looking For Good Non-Christian Guy ( Archived) (17)

It's not that I have a problem with Christians being that I was raised that way, its just that I am not anymore and take issue with organized religion and am not interested in involuing myself with anyone who might belittle my beliefs.You see I am at the delemia of being very spiritual, with a strong belief in God and the soul but, not in the whole God is male, Jesus is God thing (I mean no disrespect). Trouble is I find two groups of guys out there when it comes to spirituality and dating...Christians and Atheists. Isn't there anyone out there who is open to my somewhat Neo-pagan leanings (not actually but, it comes closest) and yet has a strong spiritual side themselves...as I am not interested in dating anyone who is going to take issue with my personal relationship with God but, also find unspiritual people depressing.

Hope I didn't offend anyone...I didn't say I wouldn't be interested just, that it is hard for me to find someone who won't try and mess with my core beliefs.

I can't imagine why anyone would be offended simple because you stated how you believe. If anyone is offended by that they need to go see a shrink.

As for me, I fully understand where you are coming from because I feel exactly the same way.

:bye: pick me, pick me:bye:

Ladies and gentleman.... we have a match!

Good luck with your search foxfairy.

Do not apologize for stating your beliefs and what you want in your life. It is your choice to live your life how you wish and with whom you wish. It is up to you to search for the truth because it is your journey and your life. It is the "right" way .... only God will decide for sure.

I myself have a differing view and I have to follow my own truth as well because it is my life. I believe that it is important to share similar spiritual beliefs with a partner because to me this is an extremely important part of who I am.

Do not compromise yourself for others - I believe it is always better to have an open mind to search for the truth and be open to new ideas. Do not be afraid to put your beliefs to the test and challenge them as well because how else do we really learn what is the truth and what are just ideas.

Perfect! You and Your beliefs. You will find someone who shares them. I do so wish I were in Your chronological strata...! I was in my mid forties before I twigged that Spirituality is empowering while Religion is Disempowering,....for me at any rate. There are a number of peoplle experiencing that......You aren't alone.

Don't get me wrong, I'm fine with Christianity, but I can totally understand why some people are put off! I know there are many many good Christians who genuinely care for others and are a force for good in this world, but I've more often come across ones who are cold and unfeeling, with very little patience and compassion for others. Sorry if that offends anyone, it's just been my experience.
I think eastern religions like Buddhism and Taoism have much to teach us in the west, and also the spirituality of different peoples and cultures, such as the wisdom of the Native American people and the Celtic "nature" religions as they are sometimes called.