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We all have our reasons for being on this site, some for seeking, and some for social, perhaps a mixture of both.
The forums have been enjoyable, and colored with positive and negative opinions. What stands out is the contact as if you leave a message; you have a good idea it will be responded too.

With that out of the way in all fairness the last four days have been murder concerning the flu. Constant temperature running over normal, fever 24 hours a day even when surrounding temp is 22c, and lost about 3 Kilo’s. Advice of Huisarts is staying warm & drink fluids.

Oddly enough the flu can be accepted, but in actual fact the reinforcement of being alone in this case, becomes the illness. Simply put understanding more aboutthe value of sickness and in health.

For about 15 years lack of illness has been kind to me, and the idea of somebody not sitting by my side, is worse than the illness it’s self. No voice, no presence, nothing to look too for real comfort.Illness is not the prerequisite for having loneliness filled; but it just drives the message home more deeply.

That may sound too sentimental for some, but we are equal to our own some, and we are who we are. Sorry for the posting as it may seem like a person licking wounds, and is genuinely not meant to be – just an honest expression, try to sleep now, take care all.

"Huisarts"

Loneliness is something all of us have to deal with...some more than others...
Sometimes it helps if you realise that all things are relative...your burden of loneliness may be hard to bear for you, but the same thing would be paradise for someone else...
I often walk past someone crippled in a wheelchair, or a handicapped person, and it humbles me to realise that a day in my life would be a liberation for them...so in their eyes, I am incredibly lucky, just to be alive, walking and healthy....happiness and gratitude is all relative, depending on whose eyes you are looking thru...
All of us, everyone of us, are carrying a burden of some sort...of that I am certain...how you deal with your personal challenge will be the thing that defines you as a person...

Bloody hell, where have you been for six months?

Hello, how are you Lion?

HJFinAZ posted this on the Intershreds....this explains what I wanted to about a million times better...

Powerful Message in this video:

i miss you cuddling up to me smoky when will we be together ever/never