I think I give up.. ( Archived) (63)

Apr 20, 2009 10:59 PM CST I think I give up..
RicoWest
RicoWestRicoWestlos angeles, California USA52 Threads 1 Polls 612 Posts
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?


Hint: Realdolls do not need to drop hints.
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Apr 21, 2009 1:53 PM CST I think I give up..
kurt32
kurt32kurt32Wauwatosa, Wisconsin USA11 Posts
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?
Men and women are completely different animals for the most part. What you think are clues may be his perception of how you are. I've missed clues that in retrospect were obvious, saw clues that weren't there, picked up on subtlties, picked up on the obvious. If the clues don't work, try a more direct approach...don't just let it go and leave yourself with the what if. Come straight out with it if you have to, the worst thing that can happen is "I don't feel the same". Heck, he may have a preconceived notion that you wouldn't go for him making the clues simply NOT register with him. We only live once, play hard or go home.
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Apr 21, 2009 2:01 PM CST I think I give up..
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?



He must be real slow......daydream idea
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Aug 9, 2009 1:54 PM CST I think I give up..
zdeathangelz
zdeathangelzzdeathangelzjacksonville, Florida USA22 Threads 3,743 Posts
confused my thing with a woman,i do not look past friendship,nor look to have a relationship with her.sometimes all a woman needs is a friend,someone to be there for her,someone who will listen to her when she talks,yes sometimes to give her a shoulder to cry on,someone who can make her laugh,but never make her cry,someone who will be by her side no matter what tomorrow may bring.


when it comes to a woman i am slow,nor do i play beating around the bush or someone droping hints.i am use to them saying what they want,not waiting for me to say something.yes i can admit when it comes to talking to a woman i suck,but some how some way,what i wanted to tell her comes out and she understands it.but sometimes you have to come straight out and tell someone how you feel,don't beat around the bush or drop hints,but tell them how you feel.

with me they wil hold my head in their hands,make sure i am looking into their eyes.oh yes making sure i am paying attention to them.than they will tell me what they want to tell me,sometimes you have to come right out and say what you want to say to someone,sometimes when you beat around the bush it is too late,but in life the only time it is too late,is when they are no more tomorrows,than you are left wondering what could have been.regreting that you beat around the bush and not tell them how you feel about them confused help
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Aug 9, 2009 2:13 PM CST I think I give up..
princessadele: in my experience with men it usually takes them a while to catch on when u drop clues why cause they are clueless .
Tell it like it is. Men have got to have everything spelled out for them....hug
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Aug 9, 2009 2:24 PM CST I think I give up..
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
princessadele: in my experience with men it usally takes them a while to catch on when u drop clues why cause they are clueless .



......I really do beg to differ here.....Did you stop to think,that a lot of Good and Decent,Caring Men in today's Society are extremely 'wary' and 'cautious'....I can admit this,especailly here in New Zealand I am extremely wary,cautious and very guarded...

J.D

grin devil
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Aug 9, 2009 2:25 PM CST I think I give up..
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
virgiomonkey: ......I really do beg to differ here.....Did you stop to think,that a lot of Good and Decent,Caring Men in today's Society are extremely 'wary' and 'cautious'....I can admit this,especailly here in New Zealand I am extremely wary,cautious and very guarded...

J.D


makes sense considering how cruel the world can be sigh
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Aug 9, 2009 2:35 PM CST I think I give up..
WhovianGeneva
WhovianGenevaWhovianGenevaGeneva, Switzerland28 Threads 1 Polls 466 Posts
Never give up.

Look far away to find what you're looking for and it will find you

at your door...
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Aug 9, 2009 2:35 PM CST I think I give up..
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?


Yes.... GIVE UP!! thumbs up

It may seem that it would be best to say... "no, never give up" but, in fact, when I gave up...... that's when it happened for me. I was no longer looking and...

BAM!!

Its true, it happens when you least expect it, so stop trying so hard..... it WILL happen.

bouquet
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Aug 9, 2009 2:36 PM CST I think I give up..
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
only give up bad habits, never give up on your life
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Aug 9, 2009 2:37 PM CST I think I give up..
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?


It's funny. The women on this site keep rejecting men, but then the one or two men we WANT to talk to won't cooperate. I think I will just take a bat out to the park and just club one on the head.
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Aug 9, 2009 2:40 PM CST I think I give up..
francie81
francie81francie81Dunleer, Louth Ireland3 Threads 558 Posts
Witchaywoman: It's funny. The women on this site keep rejecting men, but then the one or two men we WANT to talk to won't cooperate. I think I will just take a bat out to the park and just club one on the head.


'What goes around, comes around'tongue
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Aug 9, 2009 2:40 PM CST I think I give up..
strings
stringsstringsdublin, Dublin Ireland59 Posts
well dont give up, I am sure who ever it is will fiannly get the message,
slan,
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Aug 20, 2009 4:29 AM CST I think I give up..
boyshchrm6
boyshchrm6boyshchrm6barrie, Ontario Canada17 Posts
In response to: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?



Seems to me the logical and practical thing to do would be to slowly make the clues more direct until finally you are direct
or blunt if needed. Men have to deal with lots of conflicts such
as women that just want to flirt for attention, but really don't
care for the person,women always say they are honest and want
honesty but then engage in mindgames,etc. etc. Experiences show
men that what they see is not always what it is-it is like slight
of hand. I just beleve in being honest and increase the clarity as needed be it slowly rejecting someone or telling someone that
you care. Inconsistency, which I have seen is very,very confusing. Marg can you tell me where the butter is??
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Aug 20, 2009 11:25 PM CST I think I give up..
Seems to me from first hand experience, that YOU need to make up your mind, and Shedman wald pasyt you like you werent there, but you cannot have just whoever you make eyes at, it will Bite You Back Har, You are not looking for love, You are wishing to fulfill a Fantasy, but still not pick the right one, and you cant just have anyone, thats the problem..... first figiure out what you wand! Then go find it..... Happy Tidings, im done playing that guy, that is used as your bait, Good luckmumbling mumbling uh oh blues
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Aug 21, 2009 7:29 AM CST I think I give up..
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Larry, I have to honestly say that your above post just made you look as bad as you made her look. thumbs down
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Aug 21, 2009 7:45 AM CST I think I give up..
Da10th
Da10thDa10thThree Springs, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,744 Posts
hopefloats: Larry, I have to honestly say that your above post just made you look as bad as you made her look.




Although I agree he made himself look the fool, I don't think he did her.
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Aug 21, 2009 7:51 AM CST I think I give up..
leonjs48
leonjs48leonjs48michigan, Michigan USA1 Threads 299 Posts
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?


he may highly respect you, and if he missreads the clues, could turn you away, communicate what you want.
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Aug 21, 2009 7:52 AM CST I think I give up..
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
im sorry....yall mention hints?????


did i miss them again?????



damn !!!!!!!


doh doh
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Aug 21, 2009 7:56 AM CST I think I give up..
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
leonjs48: he may highly respect you, and if he missreads the clues, could turn you away, communicate what you want.



Exactly!thumbs up
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