QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?
Men and women are completely different animals for the most part. What you think are clues may be his perception of how you are. I've missed clues that in retrospect were obvious, saw clues that weren't there, picked up on subtlties, picked up on the obvious. If the clues don't work, try a more direct approach...don't just let it go and leave yourself with the what if. Come straight out with it if you have to, the worst thing that can happen is "I don't feel the same". Heck, he may have a preconceived notion that you wouldn't go for him making the clues simply NOT register with him. We only live once, play hard or go home.
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?
my thing with a woman,i do not look past friendship,nor look to have a relationship with her.sometimes all a woman needs is a friend,someone to be there for her,someone who will listen to her when she talks,yes sometimes to give her a shoulder to cry on,someone who can make her laugh,but never make her cry,someone who will be by her side no matter what tomorrow may bring.
when it comes to a woman i am slow,nor do i play beating around the bush or someone droping hints.i am use to them saying what they want,not waiting for me to say something.yes i can admit when it comes to talking to a woman i suck,but some how some way,what i wanted to tell her comes out and she understands it.but sometimes you have to come straight out and tell someone how you feel,don't beat around the bush or drop hints,but tell them how you feel.
with me they wil hold my head in their hands,make sure i am looking into their eyes.oh yes making sure i am paying attention to them.than they will tell me what they want to tell me,sometimes you have to come right out and say what you want to say to someone,sometimes when you beat around the bush it is too late,but in life the only time it is too late,is when they are no more tomorrows,than you are left wondering what could have been.regreting that you beat around the bush and not tell them how you feel about them
princessadele: in my experience with men it usally takes them a while to catch on when u drop clues why cause they are clueless .
......I really do beg to differ here.....Did you stop to think,that a lot of Good and Decent,Caring Men in today's Society are extremely 'wary' and 'cautious'....I can admit this,especailly here in New Zealand I am extremely wary,cautious and very guarded...
virgiomonkey: ......I really do beg to differ here.....Did you stop to think,that a lot of Good and Decent,Caring Men in today's Society are extremely 'wary' and 'cautious'....I can admit this,especailly here in New Zealand I am extremely wary,cautious and very guarded...
J.D
makes sense considering how cruel the world can be
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?
Yes.... GIVE UP!!
It may seem that it would be best to say... "no, never give up" but, in fact, when I gave up...... that's when it happened for me. I was no longer looking and...
BAM!!
Its true, it happens when you least expect it, so stop trying so hard..... it WILL happen.
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?
It's funny. The women on this site keep rejecting men, but then the one or two men we WANT to talk to won't cooperate. I think I will just take a bat out to the park and just club one on the head.
Witchaywoman: It's funny. The women on this site keep rejecting men, but then the one or two men we WANT to talk to won't cooperate. I think I will just take a bat out to the park and just club one on the head.
In response to: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?
Seems to me the logical and practical thing to do would be to slowly make the clues more direct until finally you are direct or blunt if needed. Men have to deal with lots of conflicts such as women that just want to flirt for attention, but really don't care for the person,women always say they are honest and want honesty but then engage in mindgames,etc. etc. Experiences show men that what they see is not always what it is-it is like slight of hand. I just beleve in being honest and increase the clarity as needed be it slowly rejecting someone or telling someone that you care. Inconsistency, which I have seen is very,very confusing. Marg can you tell me where the butter is??
Seems to me from first hand experience, that YOU need to make up your mind, and Shedman wald pasyt you like you werent there, but you cannot have just whoever you make eyes at, it will Bite You Back Har, You are not looking for love, You are wishing to fulfill a Fantasy, but still not pick the right one, and you cant just have anyone, thats the problem..... first figiure out what you wand! Then go find it..... Happy Tidings, im done playing that guy, that is used as your bait, Good luck
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?
he may highly respect you, and if he missreads the clues, could turn you away, communicate what you want.
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Hint: Realdolls do not need to drop hints.