How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?
I can understand how embarrassed one may be if it were a 'face to face' thing and it was a complete surprise to the other person. Here on CS it is a little anon and l am sure all members that write in the forums would not be too bothered if someone came out with a truth or two.
In fact from reading things here in the past couple of days all are very supportive, in which case l feel that even the 'receiver' would not be 'absolutely surprised', more, they would be flattered that someone felt so deeply for them.
I am actually on another site and was speaking with another about deleting someone on first sight and they told me that l possibly have already 'erased' the love of my life without knowing it....................a very strange thought!
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?
Hi There QuietstormF Well I'm afraid I tend to agree with you on that one. I suppose people like that you just have to tell them out striaght "to push off I'm NOT interested" unfortunately you have to be blunt with people like that.
Men do not catch on, fear, insecurity, thinking they are not your type.
if they do not care for you in the same way, then there is not much to say on that one, there is nothing you can do and whilst that is hurtful for you, then it is something that you must deal with, especially if they have not misled you in any way.
And if they do not get it, try again, with a straight message, rather than clues. These are people who cannot find the butter in the fridge, so expecting them to unravel riddles, may be expecting a little too much.
Nikitaa: Yes, always, I was just saying if the guy doesn't get your hints then you have to smack him over the head with a bigger hint.
I agree with you, l just thought you were too nice a lady to be speaking in that fashion. After you are in a relationship maybe it's different, but as an opening 'one-liner' a bit on the strong side!
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?
Im sorry mate, but your just have to wait in line, Im only up to the letter T at the moment, your a Q.... ill get there!!!
Men do not catch on, fear, insecurity, thinking they are not your type.
if they do not care for you in the same way, then there is not much to say on that one, there is nothing you can do and whilst that is hurtful for you, then it is something that you must deal with, especially if they have not misled you in any way.
And if they do not get it, try again, with a straight message, rather than clues. These are people who cannot find the butter in the fridge, so expecting them to unravel riddles, may be expecting a little too much.
I just realized women are going to have to hit my older son over the head with a baseball bat if they want him to know they're interested.
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