I think I give up.. ( Archived) (63)

Jan 25, 2009 2:06 AM CST I think I give up..
QuietStormF
QuietStormFQuietStormFSouthern Ontario, Ontario Canada25 Threads 610 Posts
How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on? heart wings
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Jan 25, 2009 2:07 AM CST I think I give up..
QuietStormF
QuietStormFQuietStormFSouthern Ontario, Ontario Canada25 Threads 610 Posts
toss an "s" in there interested.teddybear
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Jan 25, 2009 2:44 AM CST I think I give up..
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
well, thank you!! But I'm already taken!!hug
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Jan 25, 2009 2:55 AM CST I think I give up..
princessadele
princessadeleprincessadelemurray bridge, South Australia Australia11 Threads 9 Polls 127 Posts
in my experience with men it usally takes them a while to catch on when u drop clues why cause they are clueless .
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Jan 25, 2009 2:57 AM CST I think I give up..
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
if we are so clueless....why do you pursue us so??confused confused confused
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Jan 25, 2009 3:09 AM CST I think I give up..
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
pretzelman: well, thank you!! But I'm already taken!!




Awwww shucks Pretzie. The good ones are always takenwink
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Jan 25, 2009 3:15 AM CST I think I give up..
pretzelman
pretzelmanpretzelmanLas Vegas, Nevada USA43 Threads 1 Polls 2,956 Posts
sassy49senior: Awwww shucks Pretzie. The good ones are always taken
grin grin
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Jan 25, 2009 3:29 AM CST I think I give up..
Nikitaa
NikitaaNikitaaChicago, Illinois USA1 Threads 29 Posts
Forget the clues, just tell him.

"hey Bob, I want to F your brains out, that works."

Men like that
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Jan 25, 2009 3:30 AM CST I think I give up..
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
Nikitaa: Forget the clues, just tell him.

"hey Bob, I want to F your brains out, that works."

Men like that






Be nice to know that you were not speaking for me Sweetie!!
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Jan 25, 2009 3:48 AM CST I think I give up..
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?



I can understand how embarrassed one may be if it were a 'face to face' thing and it was a complete surprise to the other person. Here on CS it is a little anon and l am sure all members that write in the forums would not be too bothered if someone came out with a truth or two.

In fact from reading things here in the past couple of days all are very supportive, in which case l feel that even the 'receiver' would not be 'absolutely surprised', more, they would be flattered that someone felt so deeply for them.

I am actually on another site and was speaking with another about deleting someone on first sight and they told me that l possibly have already 'erased' the love of my life without knowing it....................a very strange thought!
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Jan 25, 2009 5:03 AM CST I think I give up..
nita1
nita1nita1Dublin, Ireland1 Threads 87 Posts
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the
rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?


Hi There QuietstormF
Well I'm afraid I tend to agree with you on that one. I suppose people like that you just have to tell them out striaght "to push off I'm NOT interested" unfortunately you have to be blunt with people like that. confused yay
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Jan 25, 2009 5:46 AM CST I think I give up..
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Interesting one.

Men do not catch on, fear, insecurity, thinking they are not your type.

if they do not care for you in the same way, then there is not much to say on that one, there is nothing you can do and whilst that is hurtful for you, then it is something that you must deal with, especially if they have not misled you in any way.

And if they do not get it, try again, with a straight message, rather than clues. These are people who cannot find the butter in the fridge, so expecting them to unravel riddles, may be expecting a little too much.

grin
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Jan 25, 2009 5:54 AM CST I think I give up..
mickeyscouse
mickeyscousemickeyscouseLondon, Greater London, England UK27 Threads 1 Polls 2,065 Posts
sounds like he is not interested in you

next
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Jan 25, 2009 5:57 AM CST I think I give up..
artemes
artemesartemesKL, Kuala Lumpur Malaysia1 Posts
have to agree with that.

i am so poor in reading clues i might have missed a lot of changes for a good time in my life.

say what you want and do it after is indeed an easy way and takes away a lot off guess work.

besides it clears the air upfront and might even work way more stimulating

have fun
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Jan 25, 2009 5:58 AM CST I think I give up..
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
Nikitaa: Yes, always, I was just saying if the guy doesn't get your hints then you have to smack him over the head with a bigger hint.






I agree with you, l just thought you were too nice a lady to be speaking in that fashion. After you are in a relationship maybe it's different, but as an opening 'one-liner' a bit on the strong side!
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Jan 25, 2009 7:05 AM CST I think I give up..
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
Nikitaa: Forget the clues, just tell him.

"hey Bob, I want to F your brains out, that works."

Men like that



Bingo!!!!!!!!!!! Just say what you want. Quit playing 'can you figure it out' game. We love it when you attack us!devil banana heart beating
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Jan 25, 2009 7:17 AM CST I think I give up..
maybesoon
maybesoonmaybesoonthe moon, Queensland Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 951 Posts
princessadele: in my experience with men it usally takes them a while to catch on when u drop clues why cause they are clueless .


yea right!!!! clueless, ah!!! I wont lower myself down to your level of thinking....good luck on the dating site...tongue
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Jan 25, 2009 7:19 AM CST I think I give up..
maybesoon
maybesoonmaybesoonthe moon, Queensland Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 951 Posts
QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?



Im sorry mate, but your just have to wait in line, Im only up to the letter T at the moment, your a Q.... ill get there!!!hug
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Jan 25, 2009 7:24 AM CST I think I give up..
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
"Ask" for what you want, celebrate the no....
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Jan 25, 2009 8:48 AM CST I think I give up..
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Sommerauer71: Interesting one.

Men do not catch on, fear, insecurity, thinking they are not your type.

if they do not care for you in the same way, then there is not much to say on that one, there is nothing you can do and whilst that is hurtful for you, then it is something that you must deal with, especially if they have not misled you in any way.

And if they do not get it, try again, with a straight message, rather than clues. These are people who cannot find the butter in the fridge, so expecting them to unravel riddles, may be expecting a little too much.


rolling on the floor laughing I just realized women are going to have to hit my older son over the head with a baseball bat if they want him to know they're interested. rolling on the floor laughing
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