I think I give up.. (63)
princessadele: in my experience with men it usally takes them a while to catch on when u drop clues why cause they are clueless .
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well who knows, but maybe they are catching your hints, but are not interested in you...???
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Nikitaa: Forget the clues, just tell him.
"hey Bob, I want to F your brains out, that works."
Men like that
"hey Bob, I want to F your brains out, that works."
Men like that
Use mean Tater right???
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druidess6308: This is why I've never been good at the dating "game"...if I say no, I mean it. Ask twice and get no, I'm mildly irritated. Ask a third time, you've just managed to annoy me greatly. I'm straight forward in my communication, and problems arise with me when men sit there and figure I didn't mean it because "when women say one thing, we really mean another". No, most of us don't. Those are the players, not the real women. Real women mean what they say, and say what they mean.
As Tater said so well yesterday, "the moment you say, 'I wonder what s/he really meant by that', back up, you've gone too far." (The "s" is my addition to his quote. He only said "he".)
As Tater said so well yesterday, "the moment you say, 'I wonder what s/he really meant by that', back up, you've gone too far." (The "s" is my addition to his quote. He only said "he".)
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Tater: Use mean Tater right???
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In this day and age, why can't you just ask him out?
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Be direct. Be direct. Be direct.
I have always found that it gets results. Now, the result MAY not be the one you wish for, but clarity and certainty is a result in itself. If you let him know, he will respond one way or the other. Then YOU will know and can either move forward with developing something with him or else you can move on. Either way, you will have moved beyond the stagnancy and wonder.
I have always found that it gets results. Now, the result MAY not be the one you wish for, but clarity and certainty is a result in itself. If you let him know, he will respond one way or the other. Then YOU will know and can either move forward with developing something with him or else you can move on. Either way, you will have moved beyond the stagnancy and wonder.
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jlb684: Be direct. Be direct. Be direct.
I have always found that it gets results. Now, the result MAY not be the one you wish for, but clarity and certainty is a result in itself. If you let him know, he will respond one way or the other. Then YOU will know and can either move forward with developing something with him or else you can move on. Either way, you will have moved beyond the stagnancy and wonder.
I have always found that it gets results. Now, the result MAY not be the one you wish for, but clarity and certainty is a result in itself. If you let him know, he will respond one way or the other. Then YOU will know and can either move forward with developing something with him or else you can move on. Either way, you will have moved beyond the stagnancy and wonder.
That's what us men have been telling you ladies for centuries...
Don't make us play some sort of guessing game, by giving us hints, or clues... Just say want you have to say, tell us how you really feel and ofcourse if you want something... ask for it...
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HJFinAZ: "Ask" for what you want,...
quote Sommer "These are people who cannot find the butter in the fridge, so expecting them to unravel riddles, may be expecting a little too much."
...and if they still don't see the butter
HJFinAZ: ... celebrate the no....
go out and celebrate 'no' with someone else!
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laura225: quote Sommer "These are people who cannot find the butter in the fridge, so expecting them to unravel riddles, may be expecting a little too much."
...and if they still don't see the butter
go out and celebrate 'no'
with someone else!
...and if they still don't see the butter
go out and celebrate 'no'
with someone else!
Laura, honey, where's the butter?
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Nikitaa: Yes, always, I was just saying if the guy doesn't get your hints then you have to smack him over the head with a bigger hint.
about time some of you wimmen figured things out,, i mean realy, men arnt equiped to pick up gentle inocous hints 
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QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?
OOPS...My Bad.. musta been the late hour I wrote that.. it was supposed to read NOT interested in you..
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QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?
Ahhhhhhhhh ......... Go Ahead ......... Give it Up !
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So, nobody found out then?...................not unusual on a site like this!
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Hello All, I am fairly new to the site. After reading all the post. I wanted to say, that I too have trouble with clues, hints, cues, prompts etc. I never get them. I'm pretty blunt myself. But on the other hand I know I too probably give hints. Probably due to fear of rejection. Don't want to put too much out there. Especially online, due to not being able to see someones reaction face to face. I suppose it would just be much easier if we just say, "hey, I'm interested in you, are you available?" Or something like that. Just adding my two cents worth. Good luck though!
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Being a positive and wishful thinker, I do! 
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yubba: Be nice to know that you were not speaking for me Sweetie!!
HI U SEEM LIKE A SWEET GENTALMEN AND AND YOU ARE SO RITE. I AGREE WITH U ON THE WAY SOME OF THESE SO CALLED LADIES TALK. ANYWAY UR SWEET AND HANDSOME. NOW I WILL CHECH OUT UR PROFILE. G-- NITE... MELLO------ This thread is Archived ------
just maybe the hints were thrown at him before and he responded only to be discarded further down the line, so he is being extra cautious so it don't happen again
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QuietStormF: How many times can you try to tell someone that you are interteted in them. and they either do not care.. or just do not get it? .. Ok.......I have given you clues.. the rest is up to you.. Let's see if you catch on?
I avoid this scenario by either making him tell me he's interested, and leaving and forgetting about him if he doesn't, or just bluntly telling him I'm interested (but it has to be a very, very strong attraction).
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Strange...I do not see any specification as to gender...it could be that she is referring to another woman...and so what, no big deal is there........