i agree, something wrong with that threat.... wanting someone with kids, going into detail about how you look after someoens children... alarms bells righ for me too!!!!
pretzelman: and I bet you help old ladies across the street, and put your coat over mud puddles for the ladies. Ohh and rescue ladies that have been tied to the railroad track!!
and im a single dad as well, being like that for 5 yrs now, and so i can see where the femalesa re coming from....!!! dont touch!!!! sounds like a bit of a temper as well, and quick to assume...
HzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA2,779 posts
In response to: I don't have any kids, but I am looking for a single mother I may be able to start a relationship with.
I love kids, I used to babysit at my old Church.
I helped my ex-fiancee raize her three kids. I was changing diapers, feading them, taking care of boo boo's, buying school supplies, toys, and food, etc.
Anyway, she left me for somebody else, I'm so glad we never had a baby together.
She came from a Crimminal Domestic Violence upbringing, and she unfortunatly turnd out the same, looking for that kind of relationship, and she wasn't gonna find it with me. So, she left.
I feel bad for her kids though, because I know unless Child Services takes them, they'll end up the same way.
Anyway, I'm looking to start off fresh. Most people, my mother, and my co-workers included would say that I'd be a good father and role-model, because they have seen the results/impact I've had on the children.
And yes, I'd like to find a Lady who wants to have additional kids(my kids), after marriage of course.
With all due respect...No woman in their right mind would let you close to their greatest gift(s)...that being their children. I am amazed that you would put a message like this on a very public, world wide forum.
Lou29: Why don't you seek out a lovely single girl with no children to start a life with and have your own children together?
No meaning to offend, but as a single mum that I am, this thread actually sends alarm bells but that could be the paranoid person I am at times.
SINGLE GIRLS they don,t understand the meaning of lif e until they are like that which he want so that y for me wether pple have child together or from someone's first relationship it means nothing to me cos pple do adopt babies u know.
HzChld: With all due respect...No woman in their right mind would let you close to their greatest gift(s)...that being their children. I am amazed that you would put a message like this on a very public, world wide forum.
Too right. Serious weirdo alert going off in my mind too, and I am happy to see that all the women sistas in this thread can see it..
This guy should be in therapy..- and stay away from kids as well as any single moms.
7mmRemMag: I don't have any kids, but I am looking for a single mother I may be able to start a relationship with.
I love kids, I used to babysit at my old Church.
I helped my ex-fiancee raize her three kids. I was changing diapers, feading them, taking care of boo boo's, buying school supplies, toys, and food, etc.
Anyway, she left me for somebody else, I'm so glad we never had a baby together.
She came from a Crimminal Domestic Violence upbringing, and she unfortunatly turnd out the same, looking for that kind of relationship, and she wasn't gonna find it with me. So, she left.
I feel bad for her kids though, because I know unless Child Services takes them, they'll end up the same way.
Anyway, I'm looking to start off fresh. Most people, my mother, and my co-workers included would say that I'd be a good father and role-model, because they have seen the results/impact I've had on the children.
And yes, I'd like to find a Lady who wants to have additional kids(my kids), after marriage of course.
I am a single Mom, but i can not have any more children.It sounds to me, like you are picky, just like me. You can never be too careful, when you pick a mate these days.I been single since 1975, since my youngest was born.When i left My home town, in Louisiana, i left behind a lot of good memories, but i am here in Seattle, and for my age, it is hard to find a good mate.I should go home to Louisiana, and get hitched.All i can say son, is chose your mate, with care, and know what you want in life. God Be with you son, and i hope you find that special lady.
hopefloats: Now Ship, leave the guy alone if he's actually being honest about himself! True gents are hard to find!
You got that right!!! Sister!!!, it's like trying to find a silver needle in a HayStack, it is!!! I been trying since the last dog died. Iam going back home to Louisiana.
maybesoon: i agree, something wrong with that threat.... wanting someone with kids, going into detail about how you look after someoens children... alarms bells righ for me too!!!!
Yep.....my Alarm bells are also ringing real loud on this one.......
i am 27 single mom of 3. i have faught threw hell and high water to keep my kids because my ex-husband lied to CPS. i was raised in the cycle of Child Protection Services threw out my entire childhood. and after being in and out of children homes, i refuse to let that happen to my little angel. I am in the military and im raising my kids withthe help of my aunt and uncle. i enlisted to make a better life for my kids. so yeah being away from them to make a better life is hard but what is a single mom to do.
I'm still so upset about this Thread.. and I am so sorry if your a good guy, what where ya thinking posting this..I think ya need to have a second think about what you want, look at the response ya got. I just hope all the single moms are carefull.. I wouldn't ever introduse my little angel to any man until i'd known him a very long time, like forever lol.... and knew his ins and outs. Pleaaaaaase be safe girls!!!
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
lostbabygirl2008: i am 27 single mom of 3. i have faught threw hell and high water to keep my kids because my ex-husband lied to CPS. i was raised in the cycle of Child Protection Services threw out my entire childhood. and after being in and out of children homes, i refuse to let that happen to my little angel. I am in the military and im raising my kids withthe help of my aunt and uncle. i enlisted to make a better life for my kids. so yeah being away from them to make a better life is hard but what is a single mom to do.
Your being honest and your kids will really be proud of you!
To do that takes the utmost courage and you have my respect for doing it.
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