My mom is dead as well ,but if you have a mom still living and are not speaking to her ,trust me on this,MAKE AMENDS, life is short don't get caught by being to late ....Dave...
I have´nt spoeken to my Mum on the phone, just a mail. To say I am still avive..... She doesent care anyway....So why Bother...I only get into a fight with her....so I save myself the griff.
When she remarried, she made her choice, her Children or her new man...She choose the man.... End of Story.
I speak to my mother by phone every few days and visit her every 2 weeks, she lives a state away, and when i visit her we go out to dinner each time... I love my mother very much. I'm 26yrs old and my mother is 69yrs old and a diabetic, so i like to see her as much as i can....
moonlightstar: I have´nt spoeken to my Mum on the phone, just a mail. To say I am still avive..... She doesent care anyway....So why Bother...I only get into a fight with her....so I save myself the griff.
When she remarried, she made her choice, her Children or her new man...She choose the man.... End of Story.
Sorry to hear that......but even without that mother/daughter relationships can e difficult! After two weeks with mine I need to leave to save my sanity!
jessejess47: My mom is dead as well ,but if you have a mom still living and are not speaking to her ,trust me on this,MAKE AMENDS, life is short don't get caught by being to late ....Dave...
I say this too D! Mine died when I was just 4 and many times Ive wondered what it would have been like to have a relationship with her. I guess though, personality clashes do happen even between parent and child......
trish123: I say this too D! Mine died when I was just 4 and many times Ive wondered what it would have been like to have a relationship with her. I guess though, personality clashes do happen even between parent and child......
yup I suppose ,but they should be put aside just the same ....JMHO.
heidi2765: Sorry to hear that......but even without that mother/daughter relationships can e difficult! After two weeks with mine I need to leave to save my sanity!
well that´s why I dont contact her....I have got this far with out her...so I dont need her. And she does´nt need me....so each our own lives...Its better this way.
jessejess47: yup I suppose ,but they should be put aside just the same ....JMHO.
well, I suppose even if its just the occasional call its better than nothing - very personal really, Im sure these things must be hurtful to both people concerned
trish123: well, I suppose even if its just the occasional call its better than nothing - very personal really, Im sure these things must be hurtful to both people concerned
ApostopheBoksburg, Gauteng South Africa1,937 posts
moonlightstar: well that´s why I dont contact her....I have got this far with out her...so I dont need her. And she does´nt need me....so each our own lives...Its better this way.
I have good friends that help when I´m down....
Obviously a story behind that post...
My mother was my best friend for many years - ( after i got married!)
We could sit outside under the stars and talk like girlfiends.
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How are you, gilly? Nice to see you,lol.
hi venere !..i'm going to telephone mine in america today ..her memory is not that great these days