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How do you divorce a mindset..?
Say for example you seperate from your partener and there is kids involved but for the welfare of the kids you decide to remain friends with your ex..but your ex wants all the fringe benifits.
Now you want to move on and construct a new life with someone, take time out or what ever but like I said your other half wants to play happy families ( during birthdays, easter, Chrimbo)..You know it's wrong..Would you still put up with act, for your kids to have 'memories of a normal family' or would you draw a line under the sand and say 'sorry, but we are a couple any more'...
It could (divorcing mindsets) be changing your politcal views.
How do you divorce your mind from a situ????