I Cannot Speak It's Name
I let others grieve for me
And then in turn, I blamed myself
I couldn't open up
Nobody would help me, at least, those that should be
I should've been afraid
Rigid in the fear to not be willing to change
Comfortable in the denial
We're all like that
We freeze as if time has stopped around us
But we still feel the unasked for hands
The force we're too afraid to deny
And then we beat ourselves up in various ways
To cope with the weight of it all on our shoulders
The telltale heart beating so loudly,
it drowns out the other sounds we want to forget
Some survive, without moving forward
Others disappear internally,
not to be found again
While I...
I heal, repair the damage, open up, and when I'm ready...
I finally speak it's name.
And am reborn, not as a victim, but as a survivor.
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Posted: Jun 2012
About this poem:
For a long time, I blamed myself...and wouldn't say the word because if I did, I beat myself down emotionally... time heals wounds, and time healed mine. I'm finally admitting I am not to blame for being a rape victim, but am to be respected, and treated with kindness. I'm Ready to move on, and "survive" And yes, I'm aware this is a touchy subject, but one I'm not afraid of anymore. Just a little jumpy sometimes.