Should women ask for a guy out?? (102)
thewebdoctorDallas, Texas USA3 PostsMen are scared to death of women because you never know how a woman will respond.
2intrigued: I'm thinking the same way as you on this Felix. Some of us ladies still enjoy being pursued by men.
yes we do! by MEN that is
I think it's OK, but just not a style that works well for me - especially now - I don't really know anyone in this town anyway...
sure, why not?
Good luck
Good luck
I think it has more to do with what one is comfortable with than "rules"
frankly I don't give a fig what anyone thinks about what I do in my personal life....just sayin' 
frankly I don't give a fig what anyone thinks about what I do in my personal life....just sayin'
I wish that women would take the initiative and approach a man whom they fancied. Life woud be simpler. I have always had extreme difficulty perceiving the subtle signals that a woman sends when she is interested. I need a woman to be straight up, as subtle as a brick through the window.
personally I would not be interested in a man who expected me to ask him out - problem solved
felixis99: personally I would not be interested in a man who expected me to ask him out - problem solved
In other words, you are not willing to risk rejection, but you expect a man to take that risk every time he approaches a woman?
felixis99: personally I would not be interested in a man who expected me to ask him out - problem solved
Yew women should ask men on a date,equality.
modermen: Yew women should ask men on a date,equality.
He'll be waiting till the cows come home
modermen: Yew women should ask men on a date,equality.
that may be your opinion but certainly it is not something we HAVE to do just because you & Carl want us too
HELLLOOOooo who dies and left U in chargeI simply would NOT BE INTERESTED in a man who feels as you and Carl feel (and not sure how else to explain that) - I like a man with cajones
......just sayin'
Why not? come on you girls have to live up to equality,its only fair.
Carl96190: In other words, you are not willing to risk rejection, but you expect a man to take that risk every time he approaches a woman?
no I simply would not be interested in a man who has your attitude
felixis99: no I simply would not be interested in a man who has your attitude
You know Felix, men are totally shocked when I hold a door open for them but that's the extent of equality I'll take. Men have been asking women out since Hector was a pup so I figure, why take that away from them too.
modermen: Why not? come on you girls have to live up to equality,its only fair.
you've had your answer and your badgering is unattractive
Well thats the way things are going,unless you only want equality when it suits ,I thought strong independent women ask men out on dates as a sign that they are equal and foot the bill as well,these are the modern times right?
2intrigued: You know Felix, men are totally shocked when I hold a door open for them but that's the extent of equality I'll take. Men have been asking women out since Hector was a pup so I figure, why take that away from them too.
true - I agree - most men who I know really do not like women to chase them....to me it is more than that is how it's always been...really I've never seen that work well when a man asks a woman out. things just go better - in my opinion- when we let men be men
modermen: Well thats the way things are going,unless you only want equality when it suits ,I thought strong independent women ask men out on dates as a sign that they are equal and foot the bill as well,these are the modern times right?
every time is "modern times" I am not changing my mind - you'd have more luck upending stonehenge and another type of man I will not date is one who is argumentative and will accept that I am entitled to my own opinion
I think men who expect women to ask them out are users - would have us do all Their work for thwm- no- it is something I expect as a sign of respect
felixis99: every time is "modern times" I am not changing my mind - you'd have more luck upending stonehenge and another type of man I will not date is one who is argumentative and will accept that I am entitled to my own opinion
I think men who expect women to ask them out are users - would have us do all Their work for thwm- no- it is something I expect as a sign of respect
A man who exspects a woman to ask him out is with the times,unless shes a self entitled princess who demands respect,respect has to earned,I love it when a strong independent woman asks me out pays 50 50,I respect a woman of her word in thats shes strong and independent.I think men who expect women to ask them out are users - would have us do all Their work for thwm- no- it is something I expect as a sign of respect
felixis99: true - I agree - most men who I know really do not like women to chase them....to me it is more than that is how it's always been...really I've never seen that work well when a man asks a woman out. things just go better - in my opinion- when we let men be men
Yep, I'm of the same opinion.
felixis99: every time is "modern times" I am not changing my mind - you'd have more luck upending stonehenge and another type of man I will not date is one who is argumentative and will accept that I am entitled to my own opinion
I think men who expect women to ask them out are users - would have us do all Their work for thwm- no- it is something I expect as a sign of respect
that is supposed to say-I think men who expect women to ask them out are users - would have us do all Their work for thwm- no- it is something I expect as a sign of respect
"and will ^ NOT ^accept that I am entitled to my own opinion"
I do not just want equality when it suits me - no
and your accusation is presumptuous ignorant and rude as you know nothing about me
and men need not opt out of all responsibility for their roles in relationships as a cop out in the name of "equality" Equality refers to things like equal pay for equal work - that WE STILL DO NOT HAVE - it is not a 'REQUIREMENT" in a personal relationship
my suggestion is that instead of arguing with me - which is very unattractive bullying- you find someone who feels as you do
modermen: A man who exspects a woman to ask him out is with the times,unless shes a self entitled princess who demands respect,respect has to earned,I love it when a strong independent woman asks me out pays 50 50,I respect a woman of her word in thats shes strong and independent.
and I am supposed to care WHY?modermen: A man who exspects a woman to ask him out is with the times,unless shes a self entitled princess who demands respect,respect has to earned,I love it when a strong independent woman asks me out pays 50 50,I respect a woman of her word in thats shes strong and independent.
a man wh o"expects" a woman to ask him out is lazy and a user
Well you obviously do care,I,m amazed what a touchy subject it is when faced with equality women don't like.
well have fun dating men then!
I think if you and mr bully read back you will see that I actually said that I see nothing wrong with it - but it is something I am not going to do
personal preferences - you have yours & I have mine
there is not a "right" and "wrong" here - but yes, I admit that I do not have a lot of respect for men who expect women to so their work
I think if you and mr bully read back you will see that I actually said that I see nothing wrong with it - but it is something I am not going to do
personal preferences - you have yours & I have mine
there is not a "right" and "wrong" here - but yes, I admit that I do not have a lot of respect for men who expect women to so their work
Yes it amazing how odd they get when the realise that all equality is not all good ie the entitlements,I was chating with a woman recently and she said that the younger women can't adopt to these modern times of gender equality,theres no more need for special entitlements for women to day ,were all equal now and rightly so.
modermen: Well you obviously do care,I,m amazed what a touchy subject it is when faced with equality women don't like.
no sweetie I don't care what you think because it doesn't matter - what I do care is that you see nothing wrong with trying to bully me. that is weak and cowardly
actually I broke things off with a man who was waiting around for me to ask him out - he'd stop by & suggest that I take him out & where did it get him???? Well I never took him out
modermen: Yes it amazing how odd they get when the realise that all equality is not all good ie the entitlements,I was chating with a woman recently and she said that the younger women can't adopt to these modern times of gender equality,theres no more need for special entitlements for women to day ,were all equal now and rightly so.
the equality you assume does not exist and once again it is a matter of personal preferences
a man with my job and education & expereince makes twice the income I make....come back and talk to me after I am being PAID equally...
Ahhh the classic thing to throw at men ,playing the victim,you will have to move with the times cupcakes,men have been asking women out for history,your equal now,move with the modern times ,you can't be exspecting men to do all the dating work,your all independent right?
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