trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
I find....by wearing ..u.s.a. football gear......when...and at most times i am too nice....or too too nice......it helps to sofen the blows i get from some people who attack me..... ..........so..... up the wall......
she made me feel bad for being human with human failings...
one night at a party I dropped the magic 4 letter word..and with a butter wouldnt melt in her mouth voice told me it wasnt nice for a lady to swear. A male friend of mine popped up and said ..."oh so its ok to do it but not say it?"...turns out she was a bit of a hoe and had slept with most of the guys in the room. It was a long fall down of her pedestal.....
she made me feel bad for being human with human failings...
one night at a party I dropped the magic 4 letter word..and with a butter wouldnt melt in her mouth voice told me it wasnt nice for a lady to swear. A male friend of mine popped up and said ..."oh so its ok to do it but not say it?"...turns out she was a bit of a hoe and had slept with most of the guys in the room. It was a long fall down of her pedestal.....
Since that day Im very wary of "too nice"
Great incident! Thanks for sharing!
But I wanted to mean… granted in a relationship!
Again my experience is telling the return value of a ‘too nice’ person is negative rather than zero in life. Since I justified it taking my own example so now I am also worried about ‘too nice’ but in somewhat different sense... !!!
No! How you can get such a signal? I meant a really really good person (suppose him/her as granted in the qtn of relationship) hardly can get positive return value, rather people suspect him/her… which ultimately leads that person towards frustration, in some case that person changes to ‘too ugly’ … in the sense of mentality.
Once an artist at his youth wanted to paint the face of the world’s most beautiful and innocent baby. He got such a baby and painted his face! That same artist at his old age wanted to paint the ugliest and cruel criminal’s face. He got such a criminal from a jail and painted his face! Later it was found that the nicest baby turned to the ugliest criminal. So who is responsible? Society? Or Who? I meant this… ‘too nice’… or the moral: excess of anything is bad?
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