Secrets and Lies (40)

Jul 10, 2012 3:35 PM CST Secrets and Lies
Bluefish22
Bluefish22Bluefish22Chooksville, Bay of Plenty New Zealand16 Threads 1 Polls 909 Posts
rivame: I have a lot of secrets no one knows about....

because no one has ever bothered to ask the questions
Soooo, really they are not secrets, but answers just waiting for the right questions?hug
Jul 10, 2012 7:57 PM CST Secrets and Lies
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Bluefish22: Soooo, really they are not secrets, but answers just waiting for the right questions?


Exactly!

Lord give me the wisdom to ask the right questions and the strength to actually listen to the answers.help
Jul 14, 2012 2:56 AM CST Secrets and Lies
Bluefish22
Bluefish22Bluefish22Chooksville, Bay of Plenty New Zealand16 Threads 1 Polls 909 Posts
Lonely1: Exactly!

Lord give me the wisdom to ask the right questions and the strength to actually listen to the answers.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up rolling on the floor laughing
Jul 14, 2012 5:10 AM CST Secrets and Lies
I have found that secrets are often kept to protect others. If asked a direct question which would necessitate divulging said secret........I may or may not lie, that would be weighed up at that particular time. These are burdens carried and choices made throughout life.
Being an imperfect person, I try to understand the imperfections in others.
Jul 15, 2012 11:14 AM CST Secrets and Lies
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
hoolet: I have found that secrets are often kept to protect others. If asked a direct question which would necessitate divulging said secret........I may or may not lie, that would be weighed up at that particular time. These are burdens carried and choices made throughout life.
Being an imperfect person, I try to understand the imperfections in others.
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I once knew something that I thought the person knew that I knew all along. So naturally when they asked me if I know anything about them, I told them. Yikes!..wrong answer. Now I have been banished to Siberia.help
Jul 15, 2012 11:28 AM CST Secrets and Lies
granuaile
granuailegranuaileDublin, Ireland369 Posts
I think any one who has lived has secrets, nothing wrong with that, we all have a past, if some one tells me their secrets, they will never be divulged, some secrets are to protect others. I hate lies, but I guess we all do it to some extent, some times for the right reasons some times not.
But none of us are perfect.
Jul 15, 2012 11:08 PM CST Secrets and Lies
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
solitare:
The reality lies between Dali and Disney.


wave hiya Solitare

hmmm..hmmm
between Dali and Disney..
weelll... are you talkin' delusion, dimentia, or delaware..?
Jul 15, 2012 11:14 PM CST Secrets and Lies
rivame
rivamerivamemelbourne, Victoria Australia54 Threads 3 Polls 4,601 Posts
solitare: Strange and somewhat funny in an ironic fashion is that all of the 'alphabet agencies' in whatever language and alphabet, is that they really are all the same...yes, very weird indeed. The credo is that all truths are lies and that is the truth is almost the truth...
The reality lies between Dali and Disney.


Ive often found that the lies are in the telling and the truth is hidden in silence..

hug
Jul 15, 2012 11:15 PM CST Secrets and Lies
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
aahhh...'lies' or 'white' lies, or those by omission..

i think sometimes, some folks have to present themselves differently at work, compared to how they behave away from the job; act differently, speak differently, perhaps even dress differently. when does this stop being a different aspect of oneself and become a misrepresentation of one's self, a double life?
Jul 15, 2012 11:20 PM CST Secrets and Lies
rivame
rivamerivamemelbourne, Victoria Australia54 Threads 3 Polls 4,601 Posts
jono7: aahhh...'lies' or 'white' lies, or those by omission..

i think sometimes, some folks have to present themselves differently at work, compared to how they behave away from the job; act differently, speak differently, perhaps even dress differently. when does this stop being a different aspect of oneself and become a misrepresentation of one's self, a double life?



mmmm a white lie..teaching our kids about santa...

I like to think I taught them how to use their imaginations grin

hi Jono hug
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