Hey, I was watching judge Judy on tv and she had an episode which casted a 21-year old dude who fathered 10 children without ever being married. He says he loves children. she asked him how many women he was intimate with to do that at such a young age. He answered that he was never married but it involved "about four." About four?
I married when I was 17. Many said it would never last as he was 8 years older than me. We were together 36 years. He passed away suddenly in 2003. At my age it is difficult to find someone who wants to spend the rest of their life with ladies who are over 50. I was in a couple of relationships and this last one had a very painful ending. Not sure I ever want to go through that again.
Hi all, hello to old friends. What a pain in the neck! Twice for me.
1st: to my high school sweetheart - married at 19, divorced before 21. It had a painful ending - cheating.
2nd: married at 25, lasted until I was 50. It ended up for - cheating again. But I gave up hating him, and found peace. We are friends. Not all of the marriage was bad. I have some fond memories. He became a stranger at the end. Now he really regrets what he did. I tell him, it is in the past and you know you did wrong. But you have to stop punishing yourself.
I've met a person that is very different from my first 2 husbands. He is a caring person. He raised 4 kids when his 1st wife decided that she didn't want to be married or a Mother. When it was time, he remarried. Again to someone who did not care as much for him as he did for her. So we are both breaking our patterns. We appreciate, love, and respect each other. We are tired of trying to please others. We'd rather be ourselves and happy. I would marry this man after being together longer, nothing sudden.
The Dobe I had given up, that is when I found this guy.
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