How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date! (45)

Nov 12, 2012 5:49 PM CST How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date!
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
I would rather have those things on a later date if things went well on the first date. For me the first date is just to see if there will be a second date and I think some men think if they buy you gifts and spend money on dinner they expect favors in return. Of course this does not apply to most of the great guys on the forums.
Nov 12, 2012 6:01 PM CST How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date!
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
My guy has given me music cds and artifical flowers cause I perfer them.Not too much on candy.
Nov 12, 2012 6:16 PM CST How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date!
damshoppin
damshoppindamshoppinmansfield, Nottinghamshire, England UK30 Threads 693 Posts
cataluna: Yeah, sure, and 90-60-90 wins a man's heart.


Not in the UK..It would put the fear of god in him.
Nov 12, 2012 9:19 PM CST How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date!
Flowers and candies have sadden many hearts
Women receiving them from men that are foxy smart

Flowers and candies do make thighs part
And as soon as the men get kittykat those deliveries start ending up short

Potarick professor

aarjon172: curious too see if the norm is still standard!
Nov 12, 2012 9:24 PM CST How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date!
fishitfun
fishitfunfishitfunMiddle East, Al Asimah Kuwait31 Threads 646 Posts
cataluna: I don't know how to understand your request.
The ideal Miss (Universe) wins a man's heart.
If you say that women are only interested in money, then I say that men are only interested in the looks of a woman.
You're so rightthumbs up
Nov 13, 2012 5:59 AM CST How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date!
Jack68
Jack68Jack68faisalabad, Punjab Pakistan72 Threads 30 Polls 2,605 Posts
If i forget to brought any flower or candy on first date than i like to to drawing it on paper and give it to hergrin laugh rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 19, 2012 3:12 PM CST How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date!
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
It isnt so much what the gift is...flowers, candy, whatever...Its that you guys were thinking about us. It truly is the thought that counts. bouquet
Nov 19, 2012 3:18 PM CST How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date!
aarjon172: curious too see if the norm is still standard!
Both are Cheap ,Give them something a Bit expansive and Unique cheers
Nov 19, 2012 3:20 PM CST How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date!
Jillll: I would rather have those things on a later date if things went well on the first date. For me the first date is just to see if there will be a second date and I think some men think if they buy you gifts and spend money on dinner they expect favors in return. Of course this does not apply to most of the great guys on the forums.
so what will u Bring for him ? laugh
Nov 19, 2012 3:22 PM CST How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date!
Rumple4skin
Rumple4skinRumple4skinStoke-on-Trent, Staffordshire, England UK4 Threads 1 Polls 980 Posts
She won't sleep with you as quickly if you do.
Nov 19, 2012 4:27 PM CST How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date!
modermen
modermenmodermencork, Cork Ireland66 Threads 1,108 Posts
aarjon172: curious too see if the norm is still standard!


He might give but he wont be receiving.
Nov 19, 2012 5:28 PM CST How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date!
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
The first time I meet him I consider to be a meeting, not a date. Therefore, I would feel uncomfortable if he brought flowers or candy. I'd rather he send flowers to my workplace after I've known him awhile.
Nov 20, 2012 10:23 AM CST How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date!
Nuwanda7
Nuwanda7Nuwanda7Madrid, Spain4 Threads 1 Polls 53 Posts
I akways gie her a lolly, on my first dateheart wings it works wonders
Nov 20, 2012 10:24 AM CST How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date!
Nuwanda7
Nuwanda7Nuwanda7Madrid, Spain4 Threads 1 Polls 53 Posts
modermen: He might give but he wont be receiving.


are you the thing in the picture?confused
Nov 20, 2012 4:02 PM CST How do you ladies like to have flowers and or candy brought too you on the first date!
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
aarjon172: Dear Susanne in the USofA since when ever it began, this has been the tradition that the prospective boyfriend brings flowers and or candy too the perspective girlfriend too win her over i am just trying to see how modern love may have changed here!.

(psst and let you know just trying too save a few bucks too) oh that was brillant!


The thing is that 'when ever it began' the boy and girl probably new each other in person. Now, it is different. When you meet for the first time in person, it is not really a date, just an introduction, so I would not like any flowers or candy or whatever. And I would probably want the meeting rather short, coffee or glass of beer and good bye. Then make up my mind if I want to see the guy again. If I want and he wants, this is a date then. But, if you are a guy who will always buy flowers to your girlfriend or wife, buy them. Otherwise don't or she will later be disappointed when you stop buying them.
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