Should a woman make the first move? ( Archived) (54)

Nov 27, 2012 2:59 PM CSTShould a woman make the first move?

Should a woman make the first move?(Vote Below)

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Need to know people's opinion
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Nov 27, 2012 4:53 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
emz19: Need to know people's opinion



Well if hadn't made the first move I may not be with the guy I'm with now.

He was pretty gun shy when I first met him but you wouldn't know it now.
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Nov 27, 2012 5:16 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
Thank you. :)
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Nov 27, 2012 5:17 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
teddybeerke88
teddybeerke88teddybeerke88assenede, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium1 Threads 305 Posts
I wouldn't say she has to make the first move, but I think she should at least give a clear signal that she is interested as well. And No we don't take subtle hints.. we don't usually notice those rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 27, 2012 5:31 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
22W00
22W0022W00Antibes, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France1 Threads 313 Posts
teddybeerke88: I wouldn't say she has to make the first move, but I think she should at least give a clear signal that she is interested as well. And No we don't take subtle hints.. we don't usually notice those


Whack him round the head with your handbag and drag him by the hair back to your lair - works for me!!yay
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Nov 27, 2012 5:33 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
teddybeerke88
teddybeerke88teddybeerke88assenede, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium1 Threads 305 Posts
i think that would make it Obvious for most guys
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Nov 27, 2012 5:38 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada116 Threads 8 Polls 4,340 Posts
emz19: Need to know people's opinion


A difficult question.

What is implied by "first move"?

Is not a smile, a glance, a subtle touch,.....the "first move"? The first to say hello? The first to suggest more,....a coffee, a dinner, a mud-wrestling match at 3:00 A.M.,...to go fishing at the break of dawn? To settle down and get married?

Once again, I must ask,...what do you mean by "first move"?
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Nov 27, 2012 5:43 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
DaytonaDude
DaytonaDudeDaytonaDudeSouth Daytona, Florida USA33 Threads 3 Polls 2,403 Posts
A_Non_A_Moose: A difficult question.

What is implied by "first move"?

Is not a smile, a glance, a subtle touch,.....the "first move"? The first to say hello? The first to suggest more,....a coffee, a dinner, a mud-wrestling match at 3:00 A.M.,...to go fishing at the break of dawn? To settle down and get married?

Once again, I must ask,...what do you mean by "first move"?
I think she was talking about chess professor

cheers
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Nov 27, 2012 6:03 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
DaytonaDude: I think she was talking about chess
was'nt it ?
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Nov 27, 2012 7:19 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
Well, if she is not planning on getting old, single, lonely and miserable, then she should!

Potarick professor
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Nov 27, 2012 7:23 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada116 Threads 8 Polls 4,340 Posts
DaytonaDude: I think she was talking about chess


laugh Now the question basically "black or white". And here I over-complicated the whole situation,....WHAT? How dare you break a knight forward on your first move! lol
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Nov 27, 2012 7:28 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
emz19: Need to know people's opinion

If she's on top... yep head banger
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Nov 27, 2012 7:36 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I was going to do a thread about this but I'll post my question here instead.

Say if the woman does/did makes the first move and asks the guy that she's interested in for a first date would said woman be obligated to pay for the date?
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Nov 27, 2012 7:42 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Ccincy: I was going to do a thread about this but I'll post my question here instead.

Say if the woman does/did makes the first move and asks the guy that she's interested in for a first date would said woman be obligated to pay for the date?


Cc.. why would anyone ask someone else out (for drink, dinner, submarine races, whatever) and expect the other person to buy? That sounds so democrat!
confused
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Nov 27, 2012 7:43 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada116 Threads 8 Polls 4,340 Posts
Ccincy: I was going to do a thread about this but I'll post my question here instead.

Say if the woman does/did makes the first move and asks the guy that she's interested in for a first date would said woman be obligated to pay for the date?


Great question cin! She should not feel obligated,...but should be prepared to, for it was indeed her move. But hey, a gentleman would probably beat you to the moment!wink
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Nov 27, 2012 7:47 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
A_Non_A_Moose: Great question cin! She should not feel obligated,...but should be prepared to, for it was indeed her move. But hey, a gentleman would probably beat you to the moment!

That's crazy imo! ...... unless she's asking someone like her dad, brother, finance, husband... someone you barely know... not
uh oh
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Nov 27, 2012 7:57 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
galrads: Cc.. why would anyone ask someone else out (for drink, dinner, submarine races, whatever) and expect the other person to buy? That sounds so democrat!



Why bring politics into it?laugh
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Nov 27, 2012 7:57 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada116 Threads 8 Polls 4,340 Posts
galrads: That's crazy imo! ...... unless she's asking someone like her dad, brother, finance, husband... someone you barely know... not


Far from it in my world! I always offer if I feel financially capable, to pick up the tab. If they smile and say that they asked and it is their obligation, then I smile and garner a great deal of respect for them but I will always offer. Someone you barely know? Hell,...aren't you on a date? I have been known to buy a cup of coffee for a complete stranger in a bus station waiting to catch a ride.
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Nov 27, 2012 8:03 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
I always wait for the man to make the first move that way I get a free meal out of the deal and if he's especially nice, he will get his just dessert...win, win situation. grin giggle rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 27, 2012 8:06 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
2intrigued: I always wait for the man to make the first move that way I get a free meal out of the deal and if he's especially nice, he will get his just dessert...win, win situation.
burp.. flirty laugh
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Nov 27, 2012 8:08 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
A_Non_A_Moose: Far from it in my world! I always offer if I feel financially capable, to pick up the tab. If they smile and say that they asked and it is their obligation, then I smile and garner a great deal of respect for them but I will always offer. Someone you barely know? Hell,...aren't you on a date? I have been known to buy a cup of coffee for a complete stranger in a bus station waiting to catch a ride.

hahaha man, there are women out there who thrive by feeding on lonely and not so lonely heart types...
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Nov 27, 2012 8:09 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
galrads: burp..


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 27, 2012 8:15 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada116 Threads 8 Polls 4,340 Posts
galrads: hahaha man, there are women out there who thrive by feeding on lonely and not so lonely heart types...


lol! Yup,...but I don't date those. Its a "date" that is in question,..be it romantic, corporate, work-related, amongst friends,....hey,...I am always willing to pick up the tab, simply because in my crowd we end up in a bench-clearing brawl as to who is going to pay! LOL! Bottom line,...I never expect to have anyone pick up my tab and am always pleasantly surprised when it happens!
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Nov 27, 2012 8:17 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada116 Threads 8 Polls 4,340 Posts
2intrigued: I always wait for the man to make the first move that way I get a free meal out of the deal and if he's especially nice, he will get his just dessert...win, win situation.


Ahhh, why I so love Canadian women,...grin hug
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Nov 27, 2012 8:18 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
A_Non_A_Moose: lol! Yup,...but I don't date those. Its a "date" that is in question,..be it romantic, corporate, work-related, amongst friends,....hey,...I am always willing to pick up the tab, simply because in my crowd we end up in a bench-clearing brawl as to who is going to pay! LOL! Bottom line,...I never expect to have anyone pick up my tab and am always pleasantly surprised when it happens!


You're a good man thumbs up hug
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Nov 27, 2012 8:20 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
A_Non_A_Moose: Ahhh, why I so love Canadian women,...


Canadian women know how to keep men warm on those cold nights...we have no choice cuz it's bloody cold over half the year. mumbling laugh hug
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Nov 27, 2012 8:41 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
A_Non_A_Moose: lol! Yup,...but I don't date those. Its a "date" that is in question,..be it romantic, corporate, work-related, amongst friends,....hey,...I am always willing to pick up the tab, simply because in my crowd we end up in a bench-clearing brawl as to who is going to pay! LOL! Bottom line,...I never expect to have anyone pick up my tab and am always pleasantly surprised when it happens!


love it... agh, hahaha, ok. your style reminds me of the late Master's debut of "why does it hurt when I pee!" '78

laugh

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Nov 27, 2012 8:53 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada116 Threads 8 Polls 4,340 Posts
galrads: love it... agh, hahaha, ok. your style reminds me of the late Master's debut of "why does it hurt when I pee!" '78


LOL! How can I quarrel with someone who pays me such compliment as to even mention my name with Frank?grin cheers I'll even buy the round!
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Nov 27, 2012 8:55 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada116 Threads 8 Polls 4,340 Posts
2intrigued: Canadian women know how to keep men warm on those cold nights...we have no choice cuz it's bloody cold over half the year.


SSShhhh woman! If word ever got out about Canadian women we Canadian men wouldn't be able to keep back with all the sticks in northern Saskatchewan! (And yeah,...gotta love the cold!)hug
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Nov 27, 2012 9:00 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
A_Non_A_Moose: LOL! How can I quarrel with someone who pays me such compliment as to even mention my name with Frank? I'll even buy the round!

thumbs up laugh cheers
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Nov 27, 2012 9:01 PM CST Should a woman make the first move?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
A_Non_A_Moose: SSShhhh woman! If word ever got out about Canadian women we Canadian men wouldn't be able to keep back with all the sticks in northern Saskatchewan! (And yeah,...gotta love the cold!)


No worries hun, they wouldn't want to live up here in cold country anyway...save the sticks for the fireplace...nobody's coming. laugh hug
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