Divorce life is peaceful and stress free ( Archived) (21)

Dec 12, 2012 11:44 PM CSTDivorce life is peaceful and stress free
enyonamvi
enyonamvienyonamviGuangzhou, Guangdong, China25 Threads 24 Polls 68 Posts

Divorce life is peaceful and stress free(Vote Below)

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True
8
15%
False
9
16%
there is life after divorce
12
22%
divorce disrupts the whole family unit
5
9%
you can stand on your own
2
4%
You can create new routines and build a new life
8
15%
It has advantge. and disavantage.
11
20%
Total Votes
55
The hurt and disruption caused by a divorce can make you question whether there can be life after divorce. How can I pick up the pieces and how good will the quality of life be after a divorce?
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Dec 13, 2012 12:10 AM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
Divorce is probably different for everyone.
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Dec 13, 2012 12:43 AM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Never been divorced so I haven't a clue.
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Dec 13, 2012 3:12 AM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
what????? doh
why people divorce? where is love that make them married?
where is the care each other commitment?
what is the meaning of their togetherness?
the only one word i scare when i think of marriage.
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Dec 13, 2012 7:57 PM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
enyonamvi
enyonamvienyonamviGuangzhou, Guangdong China25 Threads 24 Polls 68 Posts
Divorce can never be possible if you find the right love
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Dec 13, 2012 8:06 PM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada116 Threads 8 Polls 4,340 Posts
enyonamvi: The hurt and disruption caused by a divorce can make you question whether there can be life after divorce. How can I pick up the pieces and how good will the quality of life be after a divorce?


Uh,...yes,...divorce hurts,...but it did not make me question whether or not there would be life afterwards,....

Whether or not you can "pick up the pieces" and how you "define the quality of life afterwards is TOTALLY up to you. How? Take time to heal. Look inwards. Understand, reconcile,...and then move foward.
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Dec 13, 2012 8:28 PM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
enyonamvi: The hurt and disruption caused by a divorce can make you question whether there can be life after divorce. How can I pick up the pieces and how good will the quality of life be after a divorce?


I think you got it backwards. Remember that you divorced because life was not good for both of you. So things can only get better !!
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Dec 13, 2012 8:28 PM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
ncwcountrygirl
ncwcountrygirlncwcountrygirlOmak, Washington USA1 Threads 11 Posts
Sometimes divorce can be a relief...it has nothing to do with loving someone...

An abusive marriage/ relationship for example
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Dec 13, 2012 8:34 PM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada116 Threads 8 Polls 4,340 Posts
ncwcountrygirl: Sometimes divorce can be a relief...it has nothing to do with loving someone...

An abusive marriage/ relationship for example


Uh,...doesn't divorce have EVRYTHING to do with loving someone,...who for whatever the reason injected pain into the relationship?
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Dec 13, 2012 8:41 PM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
enyonamvi
enyonamvienyonamviGuangzhou, Guangdong China25 Threads 24 Polls 68 Posts
This post is by no means meant to encourage divorce: grin:
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Dec 13, 2012 8:49 PM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
ncwcountrygirl
ncwcountrygirlncwcountrygirlOmak, Washington USA1 Threads 11 Posts
A_Non_A_Moose: Uh,...doesn't divorce have EVRYTHING to do with loving someone,...who for whatever the reason injected pain into the relationship?


That's not what I meant...that was in response to someone elses post and I didn't quote...
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Dec 13, 2012 9:16 PM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
A_Non_A_Moose
A_Non_A_MooseA_Non_A_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada116 Threads 8 Polls 4,340 Posts
ncwcountrygirl: That's not what I meant...that was in response to someone elses post and I didn't quote...
hug Sorry,...never accuse me of reading! grin
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Dec 13, 2012 9:20 PM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
From what I've wittnessed with my own eyes sometimes divorce can be peaceful but at the same time very stressful when there's children involved.

Cause somehow some people use their children as pawns which is wrong to do.Why bring children into something that they had absolutely nothing to do with.They also will blame themselves and think that if they would've not misbehaved etc mommmy and daddy would still together.
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Dec 13, 2012 9:54 PM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
ncwcountrygirl
ncwcountrygirlncwcountrygirlOmak, Washington USA1 Threads 11 Posts
bouquet
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Dec 13, 2012 11:14 PM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
midnight_angel_1
midnight_angel_1midnight_angel_1Northwest, Tennessee USA1 Threads 399 Posts
Divorce won't produce over night results, but you will find that you can pick up the pieces and live again. Make your own routines without having to consult with anyone. Never wear your heart out on your sleeve. You will be setting yourself up for a disappointment. I never wonder if or when I will meet anyone else. The longer I am on my own the more comfortable I become in my own skin. comfort
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Dec 14, 2012 12:17 AM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
enyonamvi
enyonamvienyonamviGuangzhou, Guangdong China25 Threads 24 Polls 68 Posts
BETTER TO LIVE ALONE AND BE HAPPY THAN BE WITH SOMEONE AND BE UNHAPPY
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Dec 14, 2012 12:21 AM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
enyonamvi: The hurt and disruption caused by a divorce can make you question whether there can be life after divorce. How can I pick up the pieces and how good will the quality of life be after a divorce?



There is life after divorce just not an easy one but it is up to you to enjoy it or suffer it.





wine
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Dec 16, 2012 10:23 AM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
After I divorced my husband, he moved to another state and then died. All the anger and hurt and betrayal feelings just ended with news of his death.



tmi
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Dec 16, 2012 10:45 AM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
cataluna
catalunacatalunaBruxelles, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium2 Threads 177 Posts
All options are actually true. All I can say is that my life changed totally. You'll change habits, you'll make new friends, you'll make new plans, you'll have different goals, values will change. Learn what you have to learn from this experience and forget the hurt.
It's up to you to have a better life now.
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Dec 17, 2012 7:54 AM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
enyonamvi
enyonamvienyonamviGuangzhou, Guangdong China25 Threads 24 Polls 68 Posts
cataluna: All options are actually true. All I can say is that my life changed totally. You'll change habits, you'll make new friends, you'll make new plans, you'll have different goals, values will change. Learn what you have to learn from this experience and forget the hurt.
It's up to you to have a better life now.


forget the hurt.
It's up to you to have a better life now. I really love that
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Dec 17, 2012 7:55 AM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
Jack68
Jack68Jack68faisalabad, Punjab Pakistan72 Threads 30 Polls 2,605 Posts
It depends which part of the world you are living right here other man dont like to take care of her ex wife husband childs.After divorce woman has same rights like in England to get children and their support money from man through court but who will provide them attention here its terrible here for divorce peoples.professor
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Dec 17, 2012 10:11 AM CST Divorce life is peaceful and stress free
crazyblondeone
crazyblondeonecrazyblondeoneNo Scammers, California USA39 Threads 3,164 Posts
enyonamvi: The hurt and disruption caused by a divorce can make you question whether there can be life after divorce. How can I pick up the pieces and how good will the quality of life be after a divorce?


There is no right or wrong answer here. Every divorce is different, like every marriage, every relationship. There are so many many reason for divorce. So I could not choose any from your list.

teddybear
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