Must We Shout In Our Anger? ( Archived) (18)

Dec 17, 2012 9:03 AM CSTMust We Shout In Our Anger?
enyonamvi
enyonamvienyonamviGuangzhou, Guangdong, China25 Threads 24 Polls 68 Posts

Must We Shout In Our Anger?(Vote Below)

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yes it makes you feel relieved
14
35%
No,it gives you headach and you loose control
14
35%
Shout can make the other party stop messin U up
2
5%
‘Isn’t it possible to speak to him/her calmly
10
25%
Total Votes
40
Radhanath Swami says that anger is a very dangerous thing. It can deviate even the intelligent to be degraded. A very good person can live the rest of his life in a prison due to his one mistake he made when he lost his temper.
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Dec 17, 2012 10:46 AM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Unfortuntely that's usually all some people know how to do is shout.
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Dec 18, 2012 8:04 PM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
teddybeerke88
teddybeerke88teddybeerke88assenede, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium1 Threads 305 Posts
I find that when you stay calm and take some distance its easier to come up with good arguements to defend your point of view.. And by remaining so calm you actually piss off allot of people much more then you would ever do by yelling at them.
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Dec 19, 2012 7:11 PM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
teddybeerke88: I find that when you stay calm and take some distance its easier to come up with good arguements to defend your point of view.. And by remaining so calm you actually piss off allot of people much more then you would ever do by yelling at them.


truman said - speak softly and carry a big stick..... although that doesn't sound good in this day and age...... moping
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Dec 19, 2012 7:21 PM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,516 Posts
Ccincy: Unfortuntely that's usually all some people know how to do is shout.
It has been studied and proven (by majority of tests) that the person being yelled at doesn't hear what is being said. Also, many people de-sensitize to loudness, and simply make a sub-conscious choice to ignore it.
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Dec 19, 2012 7:27 PM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
enyonamvi: Radhanath Swami says that anger is a very dangerous thing. It can deviate even the intelligent to be degraded. A very good person can live the rest of his life in a prison due to his one mistake he made when he lost his temper.

I lost it a few years ago and the house has been so cluttered I just cant find it. I found an annoying disposition but I put it in the shredder. I guess that is just the way it goes.
innocent
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Dec 19, 2012 7:30 PM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
Nikogas: I lost it a few years ago and the house has been so cluttered I just cant find it. I found an annoying disposition but I put it in the shredder. I guess that is just the way it goes.


I see you found your calling...... rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing thanks for the laugh
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Dec 19, 2012 7:56 PM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
JeanKimberley: truman said - speak softly and carry a big stick..... although that doesn't sound good in this day and age......


Truman was also a crackpot, so I'm not surprised at such a statement from him.
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Dec 19, 2012 7:56 PM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
JeanKimberley: I see you found your calling...... thanks for the laugh

I found my Calling but forgot the Number. I had someone call me but they used a *67. It is just one more thing that I don't really need they say.
wow
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Dec 19, 2012 7:58 PM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
enyonamvi: Radhanath Swami says that anger is a very dangerous thing. It can deviate even the intelligent to be degraded. A very good person can live the rest of his life in a prison due to his one mistake he made when he lost his temper.


I hate it when people scream. It shows a lack of self-discipline and a lack of rational arguments and a whole host of other things.... then again, I know there are situations where I would be hard pressed not to scream - I hope I will never find myself in such a situation.
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Dec 19, 2012 8:01 PM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
risingsnare
risingsnarerisingsnareAberdeen, Washington USA17 Posts
When you are angry, you make mistakes. If the other party shouts, you know you have won.
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Dec 20, 2012 1:44 AM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
I shout.........but that´s cos I´m loud anyway.
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Dec 20, 2012 1:56 AM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
There is healthy anger and there is unhealthy anger. I don't mind if someone shouts when they're angry because I shout when i'm angry. dunno I find it better than silent angry ones. Those types you have to watch out for. hole
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Dec 20, 2012 11:33 AM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
ParamaSathya
ParamaSathyaParamaSathyaColombo, Western Sri Lanka21 Threads 16 Polls 513 Posts
Shout is OK...We have to shouts sometimes. But anger burns you and it is not good for the human spirit at all. But we have to practice to remove the anger and not to allow the anger to take over our mind. Cos it makes us insane.



angel
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Dec 20, 2012 11:46 AM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
ParamaSathya
ParamaSathyaParamaSathyaColombo, Western Sri Lanka21 Threads 16 Polls 513 Posts
plainlyjune: There is healthy anger and there is unhealthy anger. I don't mind if someone shouts when they're angry because I shout when i'm angry. I find it better than silent angry ones. Those types you have to watch out for.



What are those healthy anger and unhealthy anger ?

confused
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Dec 23, 2012 3:09 PM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
Scubadiva: Truman was also a crackpot, so I'm not surprised at such a statement from him.


wave howdy Diva! Did you mean he's a crackshot..... or is that on another thread.grin
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Dec 23, 2012 4:00 PM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
Uncontrolled anger may be dangerous to your health and to the health of those you are angry at. But shouting sometimes can be useful, that is, if you don't shout all the time. If you do shout all the time, you will be ignored and avoided. It must signify to the other that they are doing something really wrong. But you still should not lose your temper and not be really angry when you shout.
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Feb 12, 2013 12:55 PM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
ParamaSathya
ParamaSathyaParamaSathyaColombo, Western Sri Lanka21 Threads 16 Polls 513 Posts
joyaepace: Uncontrolled anger may be dangerous to your health and to the health of those you are angry at. But shouting sometimes can be useful, that is, if you don't shout all the time. If you do shout all the time, you will be ignored and avoided. It must signify to the other that they are doing something really wrong. But you still should not lose your temper and not be really angry when you shout.


thumbs up yesthumbs up
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Feb 12, 2013 1:06 PM CST Must We Shout In Our Anger?
My anger is never uncontrolled......but I can shout to express it.
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