One more thing. Be careful of scammers. There a bunch on here. They will ask you to write to them off site to their yahoo email. Use the site's email to get to know someone, and then maybe the phone.
I don't really feel like giving up, I just haven't really been out looking in like 2 - 3 years. I feel ready to meet someone just been awhile since I've actually had to. I'll try out the flowers thing, I know I shouldn't have to meet someone in my state, but Im attached to home and would like to find someone that would like to move here if I were to look out of state.
I'm wondering the same about myself. I should post the same poll...anyway I would date you but am to old. Would hook you up with either of my daughters but they are hooked up. The right girl will come along, a girl met only for you. Don't rush things, be patient so you don't get into the wrong relationship.
Hmm, being a (straight) male I cannot really comment, but not exactly what I would have approved of if one of my daughters brought you home.
Mind you, it does not particularly bother me if nobody wants to date you – it just leaves a few extra lassies for me!
Anyway, jokes aside, maybe before looking at more drastic measures like plastic surgery, you should revise your profile ; the problem is probably there.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
27KentuckyGuy: I'm just wondering cause I cant seem to find no one decent that wants to date.
Ok, first use one of your other profile pictures, this one looks as if you ' ve been on the piss for a week (booze). Second emphasize your positive activities, you sound a bit to laid back, and not ready to take positive commitment. Try sending flowers with non scammer comments.
Having said that, I wish you the best of luck and hope you will take my comments in a positive manner
tomcatwarne: Ok, first use one of your other profile pictures, this one looks as if you ' ve been on the piss for a week (booze). Second emphasize your positive activities, you sound a bit to laid back, and not ready to take positive commitment. Try sending flowers with non scammer comments.
Having said that, I wish you the best of luck and hope you will take my comments in a positive manner
I take your comment in a better manner than the guy above you, pretty much just ignored him. But to be honest I am kinda laid back and no I don't drink. My other pics aren't much better, I look like I'm high or something in those, I was mostly just tired, I took them about an hour ago and its almost 4 am now.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
27KentuckyGuy: I take your comment in a better manner than the guy above you, pretty much just ignored him. But to be honest I am kinda laid back and no I don't drink. My other pics aren't much better, I look like I'm high or something in those, I was mostly just tired, I took them about an hour ago and its almost 4 am now.
I hear you and believe you, but it's the impression the gals get that is important, the main thing is, keep trying, good luck.
just had a quick look at your profile.. I would change profile pics.. try something where you look less serious.. but not to silly either. In your description.. maybe try to be more precise, try to focus on what you consider your really good points... Same in what you are looking for.. try to focus on the real important things.
And most of all.. don't wait for the ladies to contact you.. try making contact yourself.. talk to people on blogs/forums or even the chatrooms. Cs has allot of options.. use them. Good luck to you
ok got a new pic up that looks alot better, maybe that will help some. Added some more onto my profile about my interests and such. Im just not really sure what to put on there about describing me.
27KentuckyGuy: ok got a new pic up that looks alot better, maybe that will help some. Added some more onto my profile about my interests and such. Im just not really sure what to put on there about describing me.
Why don't you submit your profile on the profile review?
27KentuckyGuy: I agree with you, that pic I was in a bad mood, had no reason to smile at the time, a girl that I had a crush on had done me pretty wrong that day. I will leave it at that, but I will get rid of it. =D There's a whole world of stuff I like to do for my special someone, you will just have to check my profile in a bit and criticize for me again, lol.
KD, I'm not criticizing you. I'm surprised you think that. I won't say anymore about your profile. I'm just trying to help from a woman's point of you. Sorry that you think I'm finding fault. I wish you happiness and good luck in finding a wonderful woman who will appreciate you for the man you are
montemonte: KD, I'm not criticizing you. I'm surprised you think that. I won't say anymore about your profile. I'm just trying to help from a woman's point of you. Sorry that you think I'm finding fault. I wish you happiness and good luck in finding a wonderful woman who will appreciate you for the man you are
I appreciate it though, if it wasnt for another persons point of view nothing could be done to fix anything. I also wrote more if you wanna take a look for me.
27KentuckyGuy: I appreciate it though, if it wasnt for another persons point of view nothing could be done to fix anything. I also wrote more if you wanna take a look for me.
EXCELLENT I'm going back on my word of not saying anymore...One suggestion. Take the word "massage" out. Say something like rub her aching feet after a hard days work. Don't say rub her back cause that will make her think other things.
Hey 27KentuckyGuy, First never ever feel that way about yourself, because your own lack of confidence can be smelled by the girls on the Internet I think sometimes. Get up in the morning and say I am a great guy for the right girl in the mirror and believe what you say. Second, quit trying to date girls, but make friends with girls who will introduce you to their female type friends and just go out to have all the fun you can. A fun guy attract women. A sad guy gets nothing. Take a look at my profile with name of CptMickey. I get innundated with messages from young girls in their 20's and early 30's because they say young men today give them no respect. Also talk less and listen more with young women. And don't jump at a chance to jump their bones. Never be to eager, but be a little standoffish - they go after what they think they can't have. If you can use anything in that profile of mine, then use it. Maybe it will get some young chics writing you instead of a 66 year old Admiral & retired Marine Corp General. Good Luck. Vice Admiral Mick
Well I tried to add more to my profile but suddenly got a bad case of writers block, I will try to do it later. I enjoyed reading your profile to capt, seems like you led an interesting life. Oh Monte, I changed the thing you mentioned, but I do like to give back massages.
27KentuckyGuy: Well I tried to add more to my profile but suddenly got a bad case of writers block, I will try to do it later. I enjoyed reading your profile to capt, seems like you led an interesting life. Oh Monte, I changed the thing you mentioned, but I do like to give back massages.
That's great that you like to give back massages and a the girl you meet will be lucky to have you as a boyfriend but it could be interpreted wrongly in your profile when read by a stranger.
Its because, they not looking for a date. they looking for what they say they dont want. nobody wants commitment these days. so dont show your heart or desperation. just have the mentality that your going to use and s... the lady you meet. then your get her, and she will fall for you later. but, just hold back your true feelings. We all want what we cant have in life, and if your easily available, forget it.
You cant be part of the boring norm. so be bad or something. girls like bad guys sometimes. even though they say, they want god fearing and all this.
whtwhb: Its because, they not looking for a date. they looking for what they say they dont want. nobody wants commitment these days. so dont show your heart or desperation. just have the mentality that your going to use and s... the lady you meet. then your get her, and she will fall for you later. but, just hold back your true feelings. We all want what we cant have in life, and if your easily available, forget it.
You cant be part of the boring norm. so be bad or something. girls like bad guys sometimes. even though they say, they want god fearing and all this.
Oh yea, I can see from your profile that you're the perfect guy to be giving advice
Have they all men, in the middle of nowhere (Upington),the same attitude,or sharing the same way of thinking,like you?????
whtwhb: Its because, they not looking for a date. they looking for what they say they dont want. nobody wants commitment these days. so dont show your heart or desperation. just have the mentality that your going to use and s... the lady you meet. then your get her, and she will fall for you later. but, just hold back your true feelings. We all want what we cant have in life, and if your easily available, forget it.
You cant be part of the boring norm. so be bad or something. girls like bad guys sometimes. even though they say, they want god fearing and all this.
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