I have only dated women who ask me out. Lucky for me a few did, or I would be in your situation. You can also do the trick which is ask out women till one says yes. Of course that takes guts which I don't have, hopefully you do.
Its because, they not looking for a date. they looking for what they say they dont want. nobody wants commitment these days. so dont show your heart or desperation. just have the mentality that your going to use and s... the lady you meet. then your get her, and she will fall for you later. but, just hold back your true feelings. We all want what we cant have in life, and if your easily available, forget it.
You cant be part of the boring norm. so be bad or something. girls like bad guys sometimes. even though they say, they want god fearing and all this.[/quote
Oh lordy you must have them beating down your door.
27KentuckyGuy: thats all good advice, but what happens when you try to leave them and they physically come put theirself in front of you to make you talk to them knowing you dont wanna be with them unless they change, they refuse to change but still try to keep you around, I told the last one that I didn't want to be friends but she doesnt take a hint
Mate, you obviously don't say things plainly. How hard can it be when a chick rocks up and you don't want her around to say "Rack off". Or "What part of 'get lost' don't you understand?"
Women have the distinctly female thing that they can be just friends with blokes. And some blokes can do this. But if you are not one of them then say that plainly. I can't be you friend. Either I'm your boyfriend, or I'm not..... Take it or leave it....
Or, I don't want you hanging around me any more. Go find some other bloke.
These things are not hard to say. But I don't know if you have tried actually saying anything like this.
Are you sure that you are not fooling yourself? Because women can usually pick up things like that much easier than us guys can...
Mar 2, 2013 10:14 AM CST Is there somethin wrong with me to why no girl wants to date me?
PrincessFiona13Somewhere near, Kent, Kent, England UK8 Posts
PrincessFiona13Somewhere near, Kent, Kent, England UK8 posts
Hi 27KentuckyGuy, you seem a really great and I would certainly have gone out with you back in the day. I like computer geeks.
Some girls your age will still be looking for, what's the term? "douchebags" to date. It's biological for them (the whole alpha male as good provider/protector thing).
Hang in there, the girls will be getting over being treated disrespectfully soon, and will want a steady guy like you instead. Don't give up
What are you doing about it? Are you being pro-active or sitting there like a bump on a log waiting for it to float over to you? Stop feeling sorry for yourself ...self pity is extremely unattractive.
Take responsibility for your own life, get out there, contact ladies and put some effort in. Carpe Diem! A lady was never won by faint of heart, fortune favours the bold...good luck!
venusenvy: What are you doing about it? Are you being pro-active or sitting there like a bump on a log waiting for it to float over to you? Stop feeling sorry for yourself ...self pity is extremely unattractive.
Take responsibility for your own life, get out there, contact ladies and put some effort in. Carpe Diem! A lady was never won by faint of heart, fortune favours the bold...good luck!
venusenvy: Awwww...I think ole Ben and I have different parts Dag well at least last time I checked
I meant, advice-wise. Ben Franklin was fond of what he called "air baths," which meant sitting around in the evening air naked. I'm sure you would surpass his skill at that.
Dagosto: I meant, advice-wise. Ben Franklin was fond of what he called "air baths," which meant sitting around in the evening air naked. I'm sure you would surpass his skill at that.
Well he has a point some of my best inspiration comes to me when Im naked
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