Is there somethin wrong with me to why no girl wants to date me? (72)

Feb 26, 2013 3:35 PM CST Is there somethin wrong with me to why no girl wants to date me?
mcradloff
mcradloffmcradloffPlatteville, Wisconsin USA36 Threads 36 Polls 36 Posts
I have only dated women who ask me out. Lucky for me a few did, or I would be in your situation. You can also do the trick which is ask out women till one says yes. Of course that takes guts which I don't have, hopefully you do.
Feb 26, 2013 3:39 PM CST Is there somethin wrong with me to why no girl wants to date me?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Its because, they not looking for a date. they looking for what they say they dont want. nobody wants commitment these days.
so dont show your heart or desperation. just have the mentality that your going to use and s... the lady you meet.
then your get her, and she will fall for you later. but, just hold back your true feelings.
We all want what we cant have in life, and if your easily available, forget it.

You cant be part of the boring norm. so be bad or something. girls like bad guys sometimes. even though they say, they want god fearing and all this.[/quote





Oh lordy you must have them beating down your door.
Feb 27, 2013 3:18 AM CST Is there somethin wrong with me to why no girl wants to date me?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
27KentuckyGuy: I'm just wondering cause I cant seem to find no one decent that wants to date.



I guess you are not on the secret insider list, hard luckdevil devil devil devil hug
Feb 27, 2013 4:31 AM CST Is there somethin wrong with me to why no girl wants to date me?
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
27KentuckyGuy: thats all good advice, but what happens when you try to leave them and they physically come put theirself in front of you to make you talk to them knowing you dont wanna be with them unless they change, they refuse to change but still try to keep you around, I told the last one that I didn't want to be friends but she doesnt take a hint


Mate, you obviously don't say things plainly. How hard can it be when a chick rocks up and you don't want her around to say "Rack off". Or "What part of 'get lost' don't you understand?"

Women have the distinctly female thing that they can be just friends with blokes. And some blokes can do this. But if you are not one of them then say that plainly. I can't be you friend. Either I'm your boyfriend, or I'm not..... Take it or leave it....

Or, I don't want you hanging around me any more. Go find some other bloke.

These things are not hard to say. But I don't know if you have tried actually saying anything like this.

Are you sure that you are not fooling yourself? Because women can usually pick up things like that much easier than us guys can...
Mar 2, 2013 10:14 AM CST Is there somethin wrong with me to why no girl wants to date me?
PrincessFiona13
PrincessFiona13PrincessFiona13Somewhere near, Kent, Kent, England UK8 Posts
Hi 27KentuckyGuy, you seem a really great and I would certainly have gone out with you back in the day. I like computer geeks.

Some girls your age will still be looking for, what's the term? "douchebags" to date. It's biological for them (the whole alpha male as good provider/protector thing).

Hang in there, the girls will be getting over being treated disrespectfully soon, and will want a steady guy like you instead. Don't give up cheering
Mar 2, 2013 10:23 AM CST Is there somethin wrong with me to why no girl wants to date me?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
What are you doing about it? Are you being pro-active or sitting there like a bump on a log waiting for it to float over to you? Stop feeling sorry for yourself ...self pity is extremely unattractive.

Take responsibility for your own life, get out there, contact ladies and put some effort in. Carpe Diem! A lady was never won by faint of heart, fortune favours the bold...good luck! wine
Mar 2, 2013 10:37 AM CST Is there somethin wrong with me to why no girl wants to date me?
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
venusenvy: What are you doing about it? Are you being pro-active or sitting there like a bump on a log waiting for it to float over to you? Stop feeling sorry for yourself ...self pity is extremely unattractive.

Take responsibility for your own life, get out there, contact ladies and put some effort in. Carpe Diem! A lady was never won by faint of heart, fortune favours the bold...good luck!


Who are you, Ben Franklin?

wine
Mar 2, 2013 10:40 AM CST Is there somethin wrong with me to why no girl wants to date me?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Dagosto: Who are you, Ben Franklin?


Awwww...I think ole Ben and I have different parts Dag well at least last time I checked

peace
Mar 2, 2013 10:53 AM CST Is there somethin wrong with me to why no girl wants to date me?
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
venusenvy: Awwww...I think ole Ben and I have different parts Dag well at least last time I checked


I meant, advice-wise. Ben Franklin was fond of what he called "air baths," which meant sitting around in the evening air naked. I'm sure you would surpass his skill at that.

wine
Mar 2, 2013 11:02 AM CST Is there somethin wrong with me to why no girl wants to date me?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Dagosto: I meant, advice-wise. Ben Franklin was fond of what he called "air baths," which meant sitting around in the evening air naked. I'm sure you would surpass his skill at that.


Well he has a point some of my best inspiration comes to me when Im naked hmmm daydream
Mar 2, 2013 1:20 PM CST Is there somethin wrong with me to why no girl wants to date me?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing grin wink
Mar 6, 2013 10:12 PM CST Is there somethin wrong with me to why no girl wants to date me?
Dee4929
Dee4929Dee4929Rodriguez, Calabarzon Philippines2 Threads 2 Polls 52 Posts
i think that you have the qualities that a woman would love to...just wait...she will come to you on the right time and place...goodluck...
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