The fact we question it's existence gives it a reality. With so many variables in our lives it's understandable some will doubt it through bad experiences. We are all connected to everything and everyone in one form or another, so when one person finds a connection stronger in someone they automatically bond on a physical and mental level, which creates the illusion of what we call 'Love'...(just my 2c)
Daffodils123: Is there such a thing as love or do people just settle out of fear of being alone?
What is love? How do you know if your in love or if someone is in love with you?
What is love to you guys? and do men and women view love differently or show it differently?
Love does exist, but admittedly, it is becoming rarer on the surface of the earth. Selfishness is predominating, even masquerading as love, but it is more common to find the love of self, rather than true love as it was created where two people sacrifice for each other.
Love is a decision more than a feeling. Infactuation, lust are feelings, but love is a decision that we make. We choose to love somebody. We might be attracted to someone, even desire someone, but this is not love. Love is a choice we make, not an involuntary action.
Love is easy to see. Just look for an act of selflessness, and often you will find love at its core.
Love to me, as a guy, is amazing. I thought I was loved in my first marriage, but that was false. She was false.
Now I have experienced love and I am experiencing love from my fiance. Wow, I have never really been treated so well. She actually loves me.
I have not experienced this kind of real love before. But this is only one form of love. Love has many forms, and nearly always it is self-sacrificing.
This is true love. And I am so glad that I have actually experienced it in my lifetime.
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