Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you? (139)
From my experiences, going back to someone who hurt me cost more scare in my heart and it was not easy to cure it. So better not. Protect your heart!!!
HotrodLarrys: In My Experience, I have went back, only to see it go right back where it left off!
you are so rightsearch2014: I think it's the other way around for me
I can forget with time, as everyone heal and move on! but forgive...hmm that tough for the person who make plans for marriage, promises for life time and suddenly jump out of the window without telling you the reason, and reminding you from time to time that she has feelings for you but don't want you anymore I don't see there is much to forgive ))
forgive and move on with your life some day you will realised that she did you a favour. You are bless not to start something that may not last.I can forget with time, as everyone heal and move on! but forgive...hmm that tough for the person who make plans for marriage, promises for life time and suddenly jump out of the window without telling you the reason, and reminding you from time to time that she has feelings for you but don't want you anymore I don't see there is much to forgive ))
search2014: Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..(( and trust me it hurts like hell on earth..lol
Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?
gee that's a hard call Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?
stuborn43: forgive and move on with your life some day you will realised that she did you a favour. You are bless not to start something that may not last.
Well said
How many can say they've never hurt anyone in their lives? How many can say they've never lied? No one can say that. I guess I would have to understand their reasons for why they hurt me. I would have to understand the situation leading up to it.
montemonte: If I were going to leave someone, I would tell him why I was leaving.
Even when I met someone for the first time, just for a coffee date, I told him that we weren't a good match or something to that effect.
When you leave someone, you hurt them. I think if they know why you are leaving it's easier for them to accept it.
You see, even in the breakup stage, I wouldn't try to hurt him.
My conscience would need to know I left him with consideration of his feelings.
Even when I met someone for the first time, just for a coffee date, I told him that we weren't a good match or something to that effect.
When you leave someone, you hurt them. I think if they know why you are leaving it's easier for them to accept it.
You see, even in the breakup stage, I wouldn't try to hurt him.
My conscience would need to know I left him with consideration of his feelings.
Even when you explain why you are leaving you are still hurting them.
+1 
You probably wouldn't be able to understand the reasons if they kept lying to you while they tried to explain the reasons though. 
HelenaRaber: How many can say they've never hurt anyone in their lives? How many can say they've never lied? No one can say that. I guess I would have to understand their reasons for why they hurt me. I would have to understand the situation leading up to it.
You probably wouldn't be able to understand the reasons if they kept lying to you while they tried to explain the reasons though. rolling on the floor laughing cheers dunno
HelenaRaber: How many can say they've never hurt anyone in their lives? How many can say they've never lied? No one can say that. I guess I would have to understand their reasons for why they hurt me. I would have to understand the situation leading up to it.
I would have agreed but if someone never give you the reason, after breakup still keep calling you her love, and prefer to live miserable alone..its a kind of sick. isn't it?
and yes everyone might have lied and may have hurt someone directly or indirectly! life isn't always in favor!
search2014: I would have agreed but if someone never give you the reason, after breakup still keep calling you her love, and prefer to live miserable alone..its a kind of sick. isn't it?
and yes everyone might have lied and may have hurt someone directly or indirectly! life isn't always in favor!
and yes everyone might have lied and may have hurt someone directly or indirectly! life isn't always in favor!
She's probably lying about something. Or married. Move on.
search2014: I would have agreed but if someone never give you the reason, after breakup still keep calling you her love, and prefer to live miserable alone..its a kind of sick. isn't it?
and yes everyone might have lied and may have hurt someone directly or indirectly! life isn't always in favor!
and yes everyone might have lied and may have hurt someone directly or indirectly! life isn't always in favor!
She breaks up with you and keeps calling? Sounds pretty twisted to me.
stuborn43: forgive and move on with your life some day you will realised that she did you a favour. You are bless not to start something that may not last.
I agree, I Like Your Thinking!SPS0913: You probably wouldn't be able to understand the reasons if they kept lying to you while they tried to explain the reasons though.
haha We shouldnt forget about 'The Secret Language of Women' but come on, some women make it more complicated
2intrigued: She breaks up with you and keeps calling? Sounds pretty twisted to me.
She's married. duh!
When Us Men Can figure out a Woman, and a Woman figures out us Sensitive Men....Then You will be the Famous Genius!
Till then?
SPS0913: She's probably lying about something. Or married. Move on.
Till then?
Well everyone, thank you very much for your time and sharing your experience and thoughts ! I am gonna get off but just the summary looks like I should care less about painful moments and move on; be ready for the happy time again! and yeah..spring is coming ;) might bloosom my life again! 
HotrodLarrys: Are you Accusing Me Of HI-Jacking a thread? Ok Then
GUILTY!
But I am usually not that Easy!
GUILTY!
But I am usually not that Easy!
no relax.
SPS0913: no relax.
I Knew I wasn't all that bad!
HotrodLarrys: I Knew I wasn't all that bad!
go back and read my posts this week about you. I've given you a lot of compliments.
search2014: I would have agreed but if someone never give you the reason, after breakup still keep calling you her love, and prefer to live miserable alone..its a kind of sick. isn't it?
and yes everyone might have lied and may have hurt someone directly or indirectly! life isn't always in favor!
and yes everyone might have lied and may have hurt someone directly or indirectly! life isn't always in favor!
You never asked for feedback on a specific situation in your opening post. You just asked if we could take someone back who hurt us.
I have no idea what is going on with this woman you speak of,and I don't know her side of the story so all I can say is either go back to her or don't go back to her. It's your life and your choice.
SPS0913: go back and read my posts this week about you. I've given you a lot of compliments.
I Did see a couple of them...
But No Telling what is in the ones I Haven't seen!
HotrodLarrys: I Did see a couple of them... But No Telling what is in the ones I Haven't seen!
I've never said anything bad about you Larry let it go although I did say you were acting like Bobby C a lot this week.
HelenaRaber: You never asked for feedback on a specific situation in your opening post. You just asked if we could take someone back who hurt us.
I have no idea what is going on with this woman you speak of,and I don't know her side of the story so all I can say is either go back to her or don't go back to her. It's your life and your choice.
I have no idea what is going on with this woman you speak of,and I don't know her side of the story so all I can say is either go back to her or don't go back to her. It's your life and your choice.
True, We all have to make our own Choices... And Nice Pic!
SPS0913: I've never said anything bad about you Larry let it go although I did say you were acting like Bobby C a lot this week.
So were You!
It Must Be Winter?
Yea, Thats it!
Winter!
HotrodLarrys: So were You!
It Must Be Winter?
Yea, Thats it!
Winter!
It Must Be Winter?
Yea, Thats it!
Winter!
I can't see myself ever wanting to act like him but our give and take this week ahs definitely reminded of my "battles" with him 4 long years ago.,
HelenaRaber: You never asked for feedback on a specific situation in your opening post. You just asked if we could take someone back who hurt us.
I have no idea what is going on with this woman you speak of,and I don't know her side of the story so all I can say is either go back to her or don't go back to her. It's your life and your choice.
I have no idea what is going on with this woman you speak of,and I don't know her side of the story so all I can say is either go back to her or don't go back to her. It's your life and your choice.
That true everyone has to make their own choice. In this post I was asking your general opinions/thougts, not to make it personal. I wouldn't make my life decisions on a post
but you know, its always good to compare our thoughts with people, we don't know personally :)) Still thanks for coming by and keep us posted. Peace!More Threads
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I think it's the other way around for me
I can forget with time, as everyone heal and move on! but forgive...hmm that tough for the person who make plans for marriage, promises for life time and suddenly jump out of the window without telling you the reason, and reminding you from time to time that she has feelings for you but don't want you anymore