Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you? (139)
HotrodLarrysSt. Joseph, Missouri USA160 Threads 28 Polls 14,470 PostsSPS0913: I can't see myself ever wanting to act like him but our give and take this week has definitely reminded of my "LOVE FOR HIM" with him 4 long years ago.,
Speechless!
SPS0913: I can't see myself ever wanting to act like him but our give and take this week ahs definitely reminded of my "battles" with him 4 long years ago.,
4 years? thats a long time on CS :)))
search2014: 4 years? thats a long time on CS :)))
Yea, we are Newcomers... Go Find a girl Down the Street!
HotrodLarrys: Speechless!
I'm glad you had a love for him.
search2014: 4 years? thats a long time on CS :)))
I've had an account here for about 4 years that doesn't mean I'm on here every night. I rarely am on here anymore unlike some people.
HotrodLarrys: Yea, we are Newcomers... Go Find a girl Down the Street!
HotrodLarrys: Yea, we are Newcomers... Go Find a girl Down the Street!
unfortunatly Italy is frozen in winter, you wont see girl on street unless they are
SPS0913: I've had an account here for about 4 years that doesn't mean I'm on here every night. I rarely am on here anymore unlike some people.
What I meant is, thats kinda cool that you both know eachother for this long! but well !! ok!
search2014: What I meant is, thats kinda cool that you both know eachother for this long! but well !! ok!
Good I'm glad you clarified that. Although it's kind of disturbing I've "known" Larry for that long.
search2014: I think it's the other way around for me
I can forget with time, as everyone heal and move on! but forgive...hmm that tough for the person who make plans for marriage, promises for life time and suddenly jump out of the window without telling you the reason, and reminding you from time to time that she has feelings for you but don't want you anymore I don't see there is much to forgive ))
Sounds to me that she's holding you on a string that she can fall back on, if whatever she's doing (the "no reason" why she left you) doesn't work out for her.I can forget with time, as everyone heal and move on! but forgive...hmm that tough for the person who make plans for marriage, promises for life time and suddenly jump out of the window without telling you the reason, and reminding you from time to time that she has feelings for you but don't want you anymore I don't see there is much to forgive ))
You are the one who knows if she's worth holding on to, or unworthy enough to let go. Listen to your heart, you'll find your answer.
YouMeUs: Sounds to me that she's holding you on a string that she can fall back on, if whatever she's doing (the "no reason" why she left you) doesn't work out for her.
You are the one who knows if she's worth holding on to, or unworthy enough to let go. Listen to your heart, you'll find your answer.
You are the one who knows if she's worth holding on to, or unworthy enough to let go. Listen to your heart, you'll find your answer.
Well written! thanks !
SPS0913: Good I'm glad you clarified that. Although it's kind of disturbing I've "known" Larry for that long.
And still tolerate each other!
YouMeUs: Sounds to me that she's holding you on a string that she can fall back on, if whatever she's doing (the "no reason" why she left you) doesn't work out for her.
You are the one who knows if she's worth holding on to, or unworthy enough to let go. Listen to your heart, you'll find your answer.
You are the one who knows if she's worth holding on to, or unworthy enough to let go. Listen to your heart, you'll find your answer.
Good Post!
search2014: This is totally understandable as nothing happen without reason. but I wish people were simple and straight forward
True Lovers NEVER leave one another. Not even in death.
We hurt the ones we love most don't we. You should expect to get hurt. I often think that if love was a drug and someone came over to you and said "here, take this and you'll feel fantastic for a bit, but then it'll feel like a heroin come down, and it'll feel that way for the next 4 years" then nobody would ever take it...
I don't really mean that. You have to give love a chance. To be hurt can mean a hell of a lot of things, and what's telling about the people's replies is what they must be assuming that word to mean.
I don't really mean that. You have to give love a chance. To be hurt can mean a hell of a lot of things, and what's telling about the people's replies is what they must be assuming that word to mean.
Obstinance_Works: We hurt the ones we love most don't we...
of course we do
because who ever could get that hurt by our doing? whatever it is
as long as you wont feel affected by what anyone is doing, you just don't care really about
Sometimes going back to someone that has caused you hurt is like choosing to be unhappy. As human beings the most difficult thing to do is to let go without resentment. If we can learn to really let go of those that have hurt us without disliking them we will find out that we can be much happier persons and can move on with our lives without living in the past or wondering if going back to a "wrong relationship" is worth the while.
If he left? No.. Wouldn't go back
LoriJames20: Sometimes going back to someone that has caused you hurt is like choosing to be unhappy. As human beings the most difficult thing to do is to let go without resentment. If we can learn to really let go of those that have hurt us without disliking them we will find out that we can be much happier persons and can move on with our lives without living in the past or wondering if going back to a "wrong relationship" is worth the while.
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search2014: there was this girl we had relationship for more than 2 years..and she left saying 'I love you so much,trust me but I want to be single for sometime'. Its sounds lame but yeah! I am just hurt thiking, as she has never told me the reason !( and I can't explain it to girls I might be interested in. They won't believe the story, may be :D
I was in a relationship for 8 months with this guy, totally feel in love for the first time in my life. Then he comes up to my house one day and without any warning he tells me that I am the most beautiful girl he has ever seen and that I am way out of his league and also very clever one, but he doesn't want to be in any relationship because is is afraid of the commitment.
Four weeks after this I find his profile on a dating site, looking for serious relationship, and to top it off, his profile picture is a picture I took on our date.
If he told me that he doesn't want to be with me, or that he doesn't think that I am the one, that would be fine, I would get over it. But telling me all that stuff and how it's killing him to break up with me and then looking for a girlfriend four weeks later... well, I certainly made an impact.
I feel like the biggest idiot in the world. I honestly hope that there is some intelligent life in the Universe because if not, I am officially the biggest moron in the Universe for trusting him.
Until I've seen the new profile, I knew that if he asked me to come back, I would, but after this I honestly don't know. He went all the way down on my charts for lying to me.
lastgirlscout: I was in a relationship for 8 months with this guy, totally feel in love for the first time in my life. Then he comes up to my house one day and without any warning he tells me that I am the most beautiful girl he has ever seen and that I am way out of his league and also very clever one, but he doesn't want to be in any relationship because is is afraid of the commitment.
Four weeks after this I find his profile on a dating site, looking for serious relationship, and to top it off, his profile picture is a picture I took on our date.
If he told me that he doesn't want to be with me, or that he doesn't think that I am the one, that would be fine, I would get over it. But telling me all that stuff and how it's killing him to break up with me and then looking for a girlfriend four weeks later... well, I certainly made an impact.
I feel like the biggest idiot in the world. I honestly hope that there is some intelligent life in the Universe because if not, I am officially the biggest moron in the Universe for trusting him.
Until I've seen the new profile, I knew that if he asked me to come back, I would, but after this I honestly don't know. He went all the way down on my charts for lying to me.
Four weeks after this I find his profile on a dating site, looking for serious relationship, and to top it off, his profile picture is a picture I took on our date.
If he told me that he doesn't want to be with me, or that he doesn't think that I am the one, that would be fine, I would get over it. But telling me all that stuff and how it's killing him to break up with me and then looking for a girlfriend four weeks later... well, I certainly made an impact.
I feel like the biggest idiot in the world. I honestly hope that there is some intelligent life in the Universe because if not, I am officially the biggest moron in the Universe for trusting him.
Until I've seen the new profile, I knew that if he asked me to come back, I would, but after this I honestly don't know. He went all the way down on my charts for lying to me.
"I'd rather you hurt me with the truth, than mislead me with a lie ...". Once someone has lied, trust is very difficult to build again. Would I go back? I have done in the past and would like to think that I've learnt by now...no I would not.
lastgirlscout: I was in a relationship for 8 months with this guy, totally feel in love for the first time in my life. Then he comes up to my house one day and without any warning he tells me that I am the most beautiful girl he has ever seen and that I am way out of his league and also very clever one, but he doesn't want to be in any relationship because is is afraid of the commitment.
Four weeks after this I find his profile on a dating site, looking for serious relationship, and to top it off, his profile picture is a picture I took on our date.
If he told me that he doesn't want to be with me, or that he doesn't think that I am the one, that would be fine, I would get over it. But telling me all that stuff and how it's killing him to break up with me and then looking for a girlfriend four weeks later... well, I certainly made an impact.
I feel like the biggest idiot in the world. I honestly hope that there is some intelligent life in the Universe
because if not, I am officially the biggest moron in the Universe for trusting him.
Until I've seen the new profile, I knew that if he asked me to come back, I would, but after this I honestly don't know. He went all the way down on my charts for lying to me.
Four weeks after this I find his profile on a dating site, looking for serious relationship, and to top it off, his profile picture is a picture I took on our date.
If he told me that he doesn't want to be with me, or that he doesn't think that I am the one, that would be fine, I would get over it. But telling me all that stuff and how it's killing him to break up with me and then looking for a girlfriend four weeks later... well, I certainly made an impact.
I feel like the biggest idiot in the world. I honestly hope that there is some intelligent life in the Universe
because if not, I am officially the biggest moron in the Universe for trusting him. Until I've seen the new profile, I knew that if he asked me to come back, I would, but after this I honestly don't know. He went all the way down on my charts for lying to me.
This is insane, and it hurts even more! I would be much relax and painless if my ex told me, why are we breaking up. Her last words were 'Thank you for everything and also understanding. I appreciate it Zak, trust me. I love you'.
goshh wtff seriously??
My mind says no, so I'm waiting for my emotions to decide the same..
search2014: HMmm our stories match somehow. She asked me to block her from everyplace so she can't stop loving me and if she see me, she wont be able to stop herself from writing me Now telling me that I should wait for her and she will tell me on 3rd Jan the reason why did we break up ;) so yeah..I should have another 19 restless days
I just wish it was otherway around, so she would have understood what I have felt or feeling inside!!!
I just wish it was otherway around, so she would have understood what I have felt or feeling inside!!!
We, my friend, should get together just to piss them both off. :D I honestly hope that she will come up with a good reason for you.
I understand what you mean by that last line. It seems like they are asking us to understand, but they're not ever trying to understand us. It's seems like they are letting us talk, but they don't listen.
keoma: of course we do
because who ever could get that hurt by our doing? whatever it is
as long as you wont feel affected by what anyone is doing, you just don't care really about
because who ever could get that hurt by our doing? whatever it is
as long as you wont feel affected by what anyone is doing, you just don't care really about
Yes. But more than just that, it is the case that people take the ones they love for granted more than people they merely like. Love gains you so much affection that affection devalues itself, especially when love is lightly gained... How many women grow bored of the man she once loved because he made it too easy for her.
lastgirlscout: We, my friend, should get together just to piss them both off. :D I honestly hope that she will come up with a good reason for you.
I understand what you mean by that last line. It seems like they are asking us to understand, but they're not ever trying to understand us. It's seems like they are letting us talk, but they don't listen.
I understand what you mean by that last line. It seems like they are asking us to understand, but they're not ever trying to understand us. It's seems like they are letting us talk, but they don't listen.
Obstinance_Works: Yes. But more than just that, it is the case that people take the ones they love for granted more than people they merely like. Love gains you so much affection that affection devalues itself, especially when love is lightly gained... How many women grow bored of the man she once loved because he made it too easy for her.
And this seems to plague the least self-aware amongst us. The instinct wants to leap into love for all the warmth and gooeyness it brings, they're attracted to front-loaded incentives(especially the women)and they want their one ice cream today and not the two ice creams tomorrow.
Many people believe that the thrill of the chase ends on the fourth/fifth date and what follows from then is romantic bliss. They are wrong. The thrill of the chase never goes away completely, the sense of challenge must remain throughout the relationship or there will not be one for much longer.
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