Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you? ( Archived) (139)

Dec 14, 2013 6:28 PM CSTWould you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
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Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?(Vote Below)

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Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..(( and trust me it hurts like hell on earth..lol

Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?
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Dec 14, 2013 6:35 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
Spiritual wounds are the only wounds that will never be healed.
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Dec 14, 2013 6:38 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Spiritual wounds are the only wounds that will never be healed.


hmm not helping.. lol ! laugh
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Dec 14, 2013 6:39 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Spiritual wounds are the only wounds that will never be healed.


But yes, you are right !)
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Dec 14, 2013 6:39 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
In My Experience, I have went back, only to see it go right back where it left off!roll eyes dunno
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Dec 14, 2013 6:43 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
search2014: Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..(( and trust me it hurts like hell on earth..lol

Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?


I don't think you'd ever fully relax or trust them again.
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Dec 14, 2013 6:44 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
HotrodLarrys: In My Experience, I have went back, only to see it go right back where it left off!


confused there was this girl we had relationship for more than 2 years..and she left saying 'I love you so much,trust me but I want to be single for sometime'. Its sounds lame but yeah! I am just hurt thiking, as she has never told me the reason !( and I can't explain it to girls I might be interested in. They won't believe the story, may be :D
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Dec 14, 2013 6:48 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Nope
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Dec 14, 2013 6:53 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
search2014: there was this girl we had relationship for more than 2 years..and she left saying 'I love you so much,trust me but I want to be single for sometime'. Its sounds lame but yeah! I am just hurt thiking, as she has never told me the reason !( and I can't explain it to girls I might be interested in. They won't believe the story, may be :D


Not Quite sure how to respond to this... Give her a call...

But, She had something going on in Her Head...

and maybe didn't know what she wanted...crazy

A saying I have heard, If a Woman Don't know what she wants, She Never will!
I think I have met a few like this!laugh
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Dec 14, 2013 7:05 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
twazzle70
twazzle70twazzle70THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK1 Threads 689 Posts
search2014: there was this girl we had relationship for more than 2 years..and she left saying 'I love you so much,trust me but I want to be single for sometime'. Its sounds lame but yeah! I am just hurt thiking, as she has never told me the reason !( and I can't explain it to girls I might be interested in. They won't believe the story, may be :D
if she loved you so much then why did she want to be single,forget about the reasons why,they dont matter now do they ?? as for explaining to ladies you may be interested in,,,do you really have to explain it at all...only my opinion my friend but forget about it and try to move forwards,,going back to someone who hurt you i dont think would be the best idea...beer
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Dec 14, 2013 7:10 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
"Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?"

Chances are....nope!

Sometimes people make mistakes and are completely inept or take something/someone for granted.

Most of the time though, hurting someone else is a CHOICE.... they have chosen to do exactly that.

There is a reason why someone is in your past, not your present, and doesn't make it into your future.....

bouquet
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Dec 14, 2013 7:16 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Not Quite sure how to respond to this... Give her a call...
But, She had something going on in Her Head...
and maybe didn't know what she wanted...
A saying I have heard, If a Woman Don't know what she wants, She Never will!
I think I have met a few like this!


I agree on that, she might had something going on. But what I don't understand is she keep saying she loves me and then cry! and then no relation.
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Dec 14, 2013 7:18 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
twazzle70: if she loved you so much then why did she want to be single,forget about the reasons why,they dont matter now do they ?? as for explaining to ladies you may be interested in,,,do you really have to explain it at all...only my opinion my friend but forget about it and try to move forwards,,going back to someone who hurt you i dont think would be the best idea...


ahh some girls are curious to ask the reason of breaking with ex ..lol! even if it doesnt matter! yeah I am trying to move on! and I will. but dont understand women anymore ..LOL
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Dec 14, 2013 7:22 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
search2014: Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..(( and trust me it hurts like hell on earth..lol

Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?


Nope. Why would you want someone back whose chosen to hurt you? Respect yourself and move on.
peace
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Dec 14, 2013 7:23 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
galrads: Nope. Why would you want someone back whose chosen to hurt you? Respect yourself and move on.


thumbs up
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Dec 14, 2013 7:23 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
search2014: Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..(( and trust me it hurts like hell on earth..lol

Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?
I put maybe. It would depend on the foundation of the relationship. Age and life. Sometimes people grow up and change on their own. You see them and it is like oh wow wow they grew up into mister or misses right for you. This answer is for a girlfriend/ boyfriend relationship not a living together one. I don't think I would if it was someone I lived with dunno

I myself have never known someone to leave for no reason. Even if they did not share the reason they were leaving. bouquet
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Dec 14, 2013 7:26 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
Happygolucky4u: I put maybe. It would depend on the foundation of the relationship. Age and life. Sometimes people grow up and change on their own. You see them and it is like oh wow they grew up into mister or misses right for you. This answer is for a girlfriend/ boyfriend relationship not a living together one. I don't think I would if it was someone I lived with

I myself have never known someone to leave for no reason. Even if they did not share the reason they were leaving.


This is totally understandable as nothing happen without reason. but I wish people were simple and straight forward dunno
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Dec 14, 2013 7:29 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
can't go back............dunno
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Dec 14, 2013 7:32 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
search2014: This is totally understandable as nothing happen without reason. but I wish people were simple and straight forward
It would be the fair thing to do. Some for some reason just are afraid to tell people what they are thinking or feeling. I think it is the fear of hurting another human. It is easy to just walk away if you do not have to look at the hurt while you are doing it. They are not doing it for the person they are hurting they are doing it for themselves, to make it easy for them.
hug Sadly life is not fair.
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Dec 14, 2013 7:34 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
twazzle70
twazzle70twazzle70THE GORGOYNES......, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK1 Threads 689 Posts
mmmm its kinda tough trying to tell a potential new partner you dont know the reasons why you broke with youre ex,,give them youre ex,s number,see if she,ll spill the beans to them,,,only jokin mate...i suppose if you really dont know then all you can do is say that......best to be truthful from the start....
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Dec 14, 2013 7:41 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
Happygolucky4u: It would be the fair thing to do. Some for some reason just are afraid to tell people what they are thinking or feeling. I think it is the fear of hurting another human. It is easy to just walk away if you do not have to look at the hurt while you are doing it. They are not doing it for the person they are hurting they are doing it for themselves, to make it easy for them.
Sadly life is not fair.


hmmm I have never been hurt before so let it be an experience and a history soon or later !:) but this is frustrating when you accept that she is gone, and wake up with a new text about love! and it hurt even more!!
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Dec 14, 2013 7:42 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Sometimes you can never make the old relationship what it used to be.
Could be for the wrong reasons that you went back to them.
You could get hurt again.

Also if you were to take them back they may figure that they could get away with hurting you all over again.
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Dec 14, 2013 7:45 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
search2014: Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..(( and trust me it hurts like hell on earth..lol

Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?



There's no such a thing as "no reason".

If he left me, there is a reason but he might not want to tell me why he's leaving. More then likely he's bored with me, tired of me, can't stand the site of me or not ready to settle down.

That being said, I wouldn't go back to him because he would probably do it again.

Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.
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Dec 14, 2013 7:46 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
twazzle70: mmmm its kinda tough trying to tell a potential new partner you dont know the reasons why you broke with youre ex,,give them youre ex,s number,see if she,ll spill the beans to them,,,only jokin mate...i suppose if you really dont know then all you can do is say that......best to be truthful from the start....


haha if someone can hurt me, she can scare the future gf as well sad flower

Where are the ladies in CS? it would be better if they responded, telling us why would a woman do it.. innocent
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Dec 14, 2013 7:47 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
montemonte: There's no such a thing as "no reason".

If he left me, there is a reason but he might not want to tell me why he's leaving. More then likely he's bored with me, tired of me, can't stand the site of me or not ready to settle down.

That being said, I wouldn't go back to him because he would probably do it again.

Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.


life is tricky, isnt it :)))
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Dec 14, 2013 8:05 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
search2014: haha if someone can hurt me, she can scare the future gf as well

Where are the ladies in CS? it would be better if they responded, telling us why would a woman do it..



If I were going to leave someone, I would tell him why I was leaving.

Even when I met someone for the first time, just for a coffee date, I told him that we weren't a good match or something to that effect.

When you leave someone, you hurt them. I think if they know why you are leaving it's easier for them to accept it.

You see, even in the breakup stage, I wouldn't try to hurt him.

My conscience would need to know I left him with consideration of his feelings.

dancingsanta
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Dec 14, 2013 8:07 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
Mei82686
Mei82686Mei82686Cimahi, Bandung, West Java Indonesia2 Threads 22 Posts
search2014: Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..(( and trust me it hurts like hell on earth..

Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?


If you try to be back with her again, the atmosphere and the feeling in between will be not the same. One or another way, you will remember on what she had ever done to you.
You are looking for a happiness in love and relationship, right? I believe you don't want to put your self in a hell for the second time.

Love is there for a happiness...

Have a nice weekend, friend. cheers comfort
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Dec 14, 2013 8:13 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
SPS0913
SPS0913SPS0913Cherry Hill, New Jersey USA10 Threads 2 Polls 704 Posts
search2014: Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..(( and trust me it hurts like hell on earth..lol

Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?


No, no, no. A thousand times no...

cheers
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Dec 14, 2013 8:18 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
montemonte: If I were going to leave someone, I would tell him why I was leaving.

Even when I met someone for the first time, just for a coffee date, I told him that we weren't a good match or something to that effect.

When you leave someone, you hurt them. I think if they know why you are leaving it's easier for them to accept it.

You see, even in the breakup stage, I wouldn't try to hurt him.

My conscience would need to know I left him with consideration of his feelings.


thumbs up this would be painless and fair.



Mei82686: If you try to be back with her again, the atmosphere and the feeling in between will be not the same. One or another way, you will remember on what she had ever done to you.
You are looking for a happiness in love and relationship, right? I believe you don't want to put your self in a hell for the second time.

Love is there for a happiness...

Have a nice weekend, friend.


Thanks for the time sharing your words. I believe the same ''love should be for happiness and to feel safe'
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Dec 14, 2013 8:21 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
emerald888
emerald888emerald888wicklow, Wicklow Ireland2 Threads 1,054 Posts
search2014: this would be painless and fair. Thanks for the time sharing your words. I believe the same ''love should be for happiness and to feel safe'


I can forgive. But I can never forget.

wave Nextlaugh
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Dec 14, 2013 8:24 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
CapNemo
CapNemoCapNemoLongview, Texas USA6 Threads 599 Posts
No. It's a one way door. You leave, keep going.
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