search2014: Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..(( and trust me it hurts like hell on earth..lol
Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?
i honestly feel that everyone in Life deserves a second chance..and if he/she has hurt me in any way and if that person realizes what he/she has done is wrong and takes responsibility for his/her actions and seeks forgiveness truly,, then i feel that he/she definitely deserves a second chance..bcos in Life ,,nones perfect and everyone hurts sometime..but just ONE chance..well,, thats my opinion..i dont say its RIGHT..
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LeonStrong: i honestly feel that everyone in Life deserves a second chance..and if he/she has hurt me in any way and if that person realizes what he/she has done is wrong and takes responsibility for his/her actions and seeks forgiveness truly,, then i feel that he/she definitely deserves a second chance..bcos in Life ,,nones perfect and everyone hurts sometime..but just ONE chance..well,, thats my opinion..i dont say its RIGHT..
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search2014: Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..(( and trust me it hurts like hell on earth..lol
Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?
There's always a reason. Abdicating any responsibility for leaving or being left, is self defeating.
Having said that, "I make me happy, I make me sad". Meaning others can't hurt me, unless I authorize it.
However they can hurt themselves and I would leave someone like that, because it's so sad seeing them constantly sabotage themselves, blaming and manipulating others. At some point the energy required to keep them buoyed up and safe from themselves is exhaustingly wasted in their neurotic need to sabotage themselves pretending that someone else is to blame.
Go back to that? I have a lot of patience and empathy but it's not endless. Risk is irelavant, wisdom is priceless.
I never go backwards.... that may cause you to lose your balance and if you fall back it will be in a big pile of s--t always... Move forward... don't look back.. They hurt you once they will do it again..
Perhaps, and you know why? Hurt is often so easily forgotten. Women who have given birth then go on to have more can identify. The pain is forgotten the moment that baby is placed in your arms.
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