Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you? (139)

Dec 17, 2013 4:59 AM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
Purplenails
PurplenailsPurplenailsSingapore, Central Singapore Singapore3 Threads 44 Posts
laugh rolling on the floor laughing
Dec 22, 2013 8:40 AM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
Stedan
StedanStedanLiverpool, Merseyside, England UK2 Threads 1,780 Posts
search2014: Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..(( and trust me it hurts like hell on earth..lol

Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?


Lot of hurt one way it seems but given a chance would be prepared for the next , but in answer yes as in my case I cared maybe a little too much.
Dec 22, 2013 8:45 AM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
search2014: Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..



People don't do things for no reason.
Dec 22, 2013 8:45 AM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
santi83
santi83santi83Bekasi, West Java Indonesia1 Threads 512 Posts
No, Thanks

I don't want to get hurt. I'm sure he will do it again in the future
Wouldn't risk my life to fall in love with him again. wine
Dec 25, 2013 2:14 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
LeonStrong
LeonStrongLeonStrongBangalore, Karnataka India2 Posts
search2014: Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..(( and trust me it hurts like hell on earth..lol

Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?


i honestly feel that everyone in Life deserves a second chance..and if he/she has hurt me in any way and if that person realizes what he/she has done is wrong and takes responsibility for his/her actions and seeks forgiveness truly,, then i feel that he/she definitely deserves a second chance..bcos in Life ,,nones perfect and everyone hurts sometime..but just ONE chance..well,, thats my opinion..i dont say its RIGHT..
Dec 25, 2013 2:20 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
mitsos
mitsosmitsoslarnaca,famagusta, Nicosia Cyprus17 Threads 801 Posts
search2014: Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..(( and trust me it hurts like hell on earth..lol

Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?

"We shall meet again
but you wont find me
where you left me"
Dec 25, 2013 2:26 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
LeonStrong: i honestly feel that everyone in Life deserves a second chance..and if he/she has hurt me in any way and if that person realizes what he/she has done is wrong and takes responsibility for his/her actions and seeks forgiveness truly,, then i feel that he/she definitely deserves a second chance..bcos in Life ,,nones perfect and everyone hurts sometime..but just ONE chance..well,, thats my opinion..i dont say its RIGHT..

Dude, seriously
aside the sites rule about profile pictures,who is it that you`re hoping to impress with such pictures
Dec 25, 2013 3:55 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
chatonlyman2: Have you no heart left man really Forgive and forget
You mean live and learnwink
Dec 25, 2013 3:56 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
chatonlyman2: You mean live and learn
Ya that's it Nite my friendhug peace teddybear
Dec 25, 2013 3:57 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
chatonlyman2: Ya that's it Nite my friend
Nite Luvteddybear rolling on the floor laughing
Dec 25, 2013 5:05 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
It would all depend on how they hurt me.
Dec 26, 2013 9:28 AM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
search2014: Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..(( and trust me it hurts like hell on earth..lol

Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?


There's always a reason. Abdicating any responsibility for leaving or being left, is self defeating.

Having said that, "I make me happy, I make me sad". Meaning others can't hurt me, unless I authorize it.

However they can hurt themselves and I would leave someone like that, because it's so sad seeing them constantly sabotage themselves, blaming and manipulating others. At some point the energy required to keep them buoyed up and safe from themselves is exhaustingly wasted in their neurotic need to sabotage themselves pretending that someone else is to blame.

Go back to that? I have a lot of patience and empathy but it's not endless. Risk is irelavant, wisdom is priceless.
Dec 26, 2013 5:20 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
Squeezie1958
Squeezie1958Squeezie1958inglis, Florida USA4 Threads 484 Posts
I never go backwards.... that may cause you to lose your balance and if you fall back it will be in a big pile of s--t always... Move forward... don't look back.. They hurt you once they will do it again..
Dec 26, 2013 5:49 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
Ana13
Ana13Ana13Winchester, Hampshire, England UK3 Threads 147 Posts
Perhaps, and you know why? Hurt is often so easily forgotten. Women who have given birth then go on to have more can identify. The pain is forgotten the moment that baby is placed in your arms.
Dec 27, 2013 3:16 AM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
ivajlov
ivajlovivajlovSofia, Sofia City Bulgaria25 Threads 12 Polls 387 Posts
It's good sometimes to open an old read-up book. And read some good pages again. And close it again. And go on looking for the book of your life. cheers
Dec 27, 2013 4:08 AM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
ivajlov
ivajlovivajlovSofia, Sofia City Bulgaria25 Threads 12 Polls 387 Posts
One great Russian poet and singer once sang: 'Luchih gor mogut byit tolko goryi na kotoryuh eschoe ne byival!'

I totally agree with him.wine
Jan 4, 2014 5:46 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
no I would not
Jan 4, 2014 5:51 PM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
search2014: Hello CS, I just wonder if your girlfriend/boyfriend leave you for no reason ..(( and trust me it hurts like hell on earth..lol

Just suppose one day he/she want to be back? can you risk it again?


Nah, doubt it.

I doubt very much that there's 'no reason' either.

BTW.... why are you hiding?! roll eyes
Jan 5, 2014 3:20 AM CST Would you consider going back to someone who hurt you?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
And give them the power to hurt you all over again? No..Let them do it to someone else
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