I'd support her in what ever she wanted especially because when i got pregnant the first time i was barely 18. I'm sure she'd know about the consequences of her own actions and she'd be upset enough w/ herself that i wouldn't need to add any more pressure to the situation.
I agree, I second guess some of the stuff i post about the miscarriages and such but i'm sure its sad still to those who experienced it Yes, but i'm sure they are still able to talk about for those who want advise or opinions about certain things. And threads have a subject line on purpose you enter at your own risk
I have two daughters. both very young now. I try to talk with them about the costs of sex without marriage.
But if they ever came to me with such a tragic confession... i would love them unconditionaly first and it would not change just due to this.
I would help them during school hours to raise thier child... but after school they will have homework lessons that will teach so much more than they bargained for when the gave in...
then i would be hunting a certain young man down and having some serious words with him, because he chose to start problem he will choose to to be part of the resolution
A child born or unborn is always a life to me... so killing innocent lives is not acceptable. the only time i would make a choice of that nature is if i knew i would lose both my daughter and her child. Then i would choose life of the one who would survive.
i love my children and could not see myself turning away from them for any reason... even if they murdered someone... i would still love them ,but would not stand in the way of justice. I would visit them regularly and make sure they knew i loved them.
~~~Well....none of the above. I mean I would be there for her, help her with a decision, not judge her (we all make mistakes) and help her become the best she can be, whether that meant Mom or not. The support her & (whatever she wanted) bothers me a little because it sounded a little like.....not letting her be accountable and spoiling (I don't think most parents would choose that JMO)
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