why women fall, for the players (146)

Jun 28, 2009 9:19 AM CST why women fall, for the players
bradlee1
bradlee1bradlee1sliema, Majjistral Malta29 Threads 2 Polls 690 Posts
Polarbutterfly: Money or a fancy car isn't important
to me.I know what I want and,what I
want is love.But,love that's unconditional.


wow i wished you lived in our town ???? not many like you over here
Jun 28, 2009 9:20 AM CST why women fall, for the players
bradlee1: it always seems that women like the nice cars and the poser with all the cash. only at the end they end up with nothing simply because he was just a player and nothing else. all the honest guys get dumped only women wont the both of world only thats almost impposible ??
We all like care and cash not only women
Jun 28, 2009 9:20 AM CST why women fall, for the players
Polarbutterfly: Is this post meant for me?


No dude! It for the OP.
Jun 28, 2009 9:21 AM CST why women fall, for the players
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
bradlee1: wow i wished you lived in our town ???? not many like you over here


Just being me,thank you. hug
Jun 28, 2009 9:22 AM CST why women fall, for the players
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
azucarmorena: No dude! It for the OP.


Dude? confused

cool
Jun 28, 2009 9:23 AM CST why women fall, for the players
Polarbutterfly: Dude?


Okay dudette!

laugh
Jun 28, 2009 9:28 AM CST why women fall, for the players
bradlee1
bradlee1bradlee1sliema, Majjistral Malta29 Threads 2 Polls 690 Posts
Polarbutterfly: Just being me,thank you.

me just being my self. most women who email me the first thing they ask is what is my job ??? i say i dont work ?? well just taking a three month break! why well i need it and can aford it. but i dont tell them that i just say i am a bum ??? i wounder how many men on this site are just like me ???
Jun 28, 2009 9:30 AM CST why women fall, for the players
WombleMaster
WombleMasterWombleMasterTimaru, Canterbury New Zealand41 Posts
bestat45: You know, these are nice people here, and maybe instead of sitting there thinking up nasty things to say, you should just take your toys, and go play somewhere else.
Come back when you have learned some manners. Bet ya anything, people would even be nicer to you as well.

Um how about.....Nope.
Your not exactly demonstrating good manners buy intruding my conversation,besides It's too much fun being a heckler to give up.
Jun 28, 2009 9:31 AM CST why women fall, for the players
I have my own very nice car and my own money...in in the greater scope of things I don't need it from someone els.

However, I was once told by a guy I really liked, that's I he couldn't get serious with me because I am basically too successful. Was doing too well for myself. I was devastated! Another guy made a bold statement that I wouldn't be wife material because I have a career that I love. He assumed I wouldn't be willing to to put my career aside to raise kids. I'm like maybe I wouldn't mind being a stay at home mom. Or if my husband is cool with me working and contributing to our unit then hey I might not mind that too. He basically said he does love smart, driven women which completely contradicted his previous rant about having a career.

So now I am just gonna get rid of all my crap and look for the dude with money and the car. Cus apparently for some guys the helpless chick thing is a turn on.

cheers
Jun 28, 2009 9:33 AM CST why women fall, for the players
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
bradlee1: me just being my self. most women who email me the first thing they ask is what is my job ??? i say i dont work ?? well just taking a three month break! why well i need it and can aford it. but i dont tell them that i just say i am a bum ??? i wounder how many men on this site are just like me ???


That's funny;the first thing a guy
asks of me is am I employed and with who.
It works both ways for men and women.
frustrated


hug
Jun 28, 2009 9:34 AM CST why women fall, for the players
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
WombleMaster: Um how about.....Nope.
Your not exactly demonstrating good manners buy intruding my conversation,besides It's too much fun being a heckler to give up.
nothing intruding about it, forums are for everyone, just astounded at the insults that you feel the need to dish out. It is not heckling when you make some of the comments you did. Like i said, if you are nice, nice comes back to you.
Jun 28, 2009 9:34 AM CST why women fall, for the players
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
not all women are like to wear a shining shoes,but i know many women looking for honest man and not a player...
Jun 28, 2009 9:35 AM CST why women fall, for the players
yum_yum
yum_yumyum_yumbirmingham, West Midlands, England UK18 Threads 207 Posts
WombleMaster: Um how about.....Nope.
Your not exactly demonstrating good manners buy intruding my conversation,besides It's too much fun being a heckler to give up.



your really funny

i bet your a softy at heart
Jun 28, 2009 9:36 AM CST why women fall, for the players
liakos
liakosliakossamos, North Aegean Greece22 Threads 393 Posts
azucarmorena: I have my own very nice car and my own money...in in the greater scope of things I don't need it from someone els.

However, I was once told by a guy I really liked, that's I he couldn't get serious with me because I am basically too successful. Was doing too well for myself. I was devastated! Another guy made a bold statement that I wouldn't be wife material because I have a career that I love. He assumed I wouldn't be willing to to put my career aside to raise kids. I'm like maybe I wouldn't mind being a stay at home mom. Or if my husband is cool with me working and contributing to our unit then hey I might not mind that too. He basically said he does love smart, driven women which completely contradicted his previous rant about having a career.

So now I am just gonna get rid of all my crap and look for the dude with money and the car. Cus apparently for some guys the helpless chick thing is a turn on.


i think the question is can you really love and still have these things. Do these things make you not care when your guy has a problem you've already solved. Do you expect them to have tose things sorted to be with you? and if they dont, how do you treat em? it's a complicated issue my friend, and it's all got to do with success, or the social and personal criteria for it.drinking
Jun 28, 2009 9:43 AM CST why women fall, for the players
liakos: i think the question is can you really love and still have these things. Do these things make you not care when your guy has a problem you've already solved. Do you expect them to have tose things sorted to be with you? and if they dont, how do you treat em? it's a complicated issue my friend, and it's all got to do with success, or the social and personal criteria for it.


Okay not sure I understand what you wrote...not sure if you even understood what i wrote. But here is my attempt anyway.

Anyone with brain and common sense can love someone regardless of what have and what they don't have.

Only an insecure man would see a problem and frankly I don't need someone else's insecurities. I am not going to apologize for my success, but at the same time I don't rub it in anyone's face because I was raised right.

Of course it would be nice to meet someone who already had x, y and z. But x, y and z doesn't equate to love, respect, commitment, companionship, faith in each other, hugs, random I love you's, etc. If x, y and z came with these things then hey, both parties are good.
Jun 28, 2009 9:44 AM CST why women fall, for the players
bradlee1
bradlee1bradlee1sliema, Majjistral Malta29 Threads 2 Polls 690 Posts
Polarbutterfly: That's funny;the first thing a guy
asks of me is am I employed and with who.
It works both ways for men and women.


thats quite interesting! if we took the money thing out of this world and all material things away. i would bet you anything that the first question people would ask is !: do you have food at home ??????:
Jun 28, 2009 9:44 AM CST why women fall, for the players
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
bradlee1: thats quite interesting! if we took the money thing out of this world and all material things away. i would bet you anything that the first question people would ask is !: do you have food at home ??????:


So,do you have food at home? grin
Jun 28, 2009 9:45 AM CST why women fall, for the players
pebblesbamban
pebblesbambanpebblesbambanPennsylvania, USA3 Threads 4,038 Posts
krisha: not all women are like to wear a shining shoes,but i know many women looking for honest man and not a player...



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing ... Shining shoes...lol...
Jun 28, 2009 9:46 AM CST why women fall, for the players
bradlee1
bradlee1bradlee1sliema, Majjistral Malta29 Threads 2 Polls 690 Posts
Polarbutterfly: So,do you have food at home?

yep plenty hehe me eat it right now xx and a nice bottle of melot
Jun 28, 2009 9:47 AM CST why women fall, for the players
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
bradlee1: yep plenty hehe me eat it right now xx and a nice bottle of melot



Sounds like an idea. wine
Jun 28, 2009 9:48 AM CST why women fall, for the players
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
popcorn

same ole.....same ole.
Jun 28, 2009 9:50 AM CST why women fall, for the players
pebblesbamban
pebblesbambanpebblesbambanPennsylvania, USA3 Threads 4,038 Posts
thewall2: same ole.....same ole.


Me too...popcorn popcorn
Jun 28, 2009 9:51 AM CST why women fall, for the players
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
westie97: Just two....under consideration and not to be considered.


Can we make this simple....

you have a yes..and ...a ..no no...list

But you do know that most woman mine yes ..when they say no


(you need more lists)


bouquet
Jun 28, 2009 9:54 AM CST why women fall, for the players
bradlee1
bradlee1bradlee1sliema, Majjistral Malta29 Threads 2 Polls 690 Posts
pebblesbamban: Me too...


it just goes to show food and drink will get you some where ???
Jun 28, 2009 9:55 AM CST why women fall, for the players
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
bradlee1: it just goes to show food and drink will get you some where ???
well sure, it is just called hospitalitylaugh
Jun 28, 2009 9:59 AM CST why women fall, for the players
bradlee1
bradlee1bradlee1sliema, Majjistral Malta29 Threads 2 Polls 690 Posts
BOBANBOBAN: Can we make this simple....

you have a yes..and ...a ..no no...list

But you do know that most woman mine yes ..when they say no(you need more lists)


hey a women will say yes just to be pelite, and she will say no just to not sound too eager ??? boy i bet i am going to get hell for this one hehehe
Jun 28, 2009 10:00 AM CST why women fall, for the players
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
bradlee1: hey a women will say yes just to be pelite, and she will say no just to not sound too eager ??? boy i bet i am going to get hell for this one hehehe


roll eyes

Tsk!!!!
Jun 28, 2009 10:00 AM CST why women fall, for the players
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
bradlee1: hey a women will say yes just to be pelite, and she will say no just to not sound too eager ??? boy i bet i am going to get hell for this one hehehe
nah, you have your own viewpoints, as we all do, and have to live with as well.laugh
Jun 28, 2009 10:02 AM CST why women fall, for the players
pebblesbamban
pebblesbambanpebblesbambanPennsylvania, USA3 Threads 4,038 Posts
bradlee1: it just goes to show food and drink will get you some where ???


Can u put in ur profile long term....grin ....bouquet
Jun 28, 2009 10:02 AM CST why women fall, for the players
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
bradlee1: hey a women will say yes just to be pelite, and she will say no just to not sound too eager ??? boy i bet i am going to get hell for this one hehehe


shhhhhhh you know it,,,i know it and 99% of all the men know s it

grin

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