The answer to this question for me today is "Living life". I went through several hard years and after I came out of that period I told myself that I was going to enjoy life. So I embarked on figuring out what life should be for me and I have been living it.
Big_John: The answer to this question for me today is "Living life". I went through several hard years and after I came out of that period I told myself that I was going to enjoy life. So I embarked on figuring out what life should be for me and I have been living it.
I´m with you there John... none of us know if we have a tomorrow, so I believe in living my life each day. So many people plan and save for their future... and some don´t have one. I never want to be one of those people who are dying and saying " I wish I would have...."
SuzyJThe Hague, South Holland Netherlands214 posts
Sooooooo many things....where to begin?
My daughter, health, the means to do the things I enjoy - money dont buy happiness but it sure does facilitate it , interesting conversation, stimulating work, good friends, enough food to eat, challenges that can be overcome, seeing new places, meeting new people, variety....I could go on and on...and I dont need all of these at the same time even...many of them are fairly small simple things but as long as they hold the majority against the less positive then Im generally happy - which means I usually am actually happy
jbibiza: I´m with you there John... none of us know if we have a tomorrow, so I believe in living my life each day. So many people plan and save for their future... and some don´t have one. I never want to be one of those people who are dying and saying " I wish I would have...."
This is the motto I live by! Many people ask me "Who do you travel with?" and when I answer no one, I get the look! I decided a little while back that I was going to see this beautiful country and the world. I also figured I couldn't wait for 'her' to show up before I start. I don't want to be on my death bed and say "I wish I would be done that."
I was scared at first. I didn't know if I would enjoy and like travelling alone. I found out I do. I am alone, but not lonely when I am travelling.
Big_John: This is the motto I live by! Many people ask me "Who do you travel with?" and when I answer no one, I get the look! I decided a little while back that I was going to see this beautiful country and the world. I also figured I couldn't wait for 'her' to show up before I start. I don't want to be on my death bed and say "I wish I would be done that."
I was scared at first. I didn't know if I would enjoy and like travelling alone. I found out I do. I am alone, but not lonely when I am travelling.
I was 40 when I did the same thing... and it was terrifying to start with... selling everything I owned and venturing into the world. It was the best 3 1/2 years I ever spent and it drastically changed the way I live my life. I also got a lot of strange looks... a 40 something woman backpacking around the world on her own... but I met some amazing people and had some incredible experiences and never felt lonely.
jbibiza: I was 40 when I did the same thing... and it was terrifying to start with... selling everything I owned and venturing into the world. It was the best 3 1/2 years I ever spent and it drastically changed the way I live my life. I also got a lot of strange looks... a 40 something woman backpacking around the world on her own... but I met some amazing people and had some incredible experiences and never felt lonely.
The only big drawback I find is associated with the amount of time I am travelling makes it hard to meet ladies. I travel about 4 to 6 months a year. Because I am alway on the move, I normally don't meet many women and have 'second' dates.
Definitely living life! I intend to live my life to it's fullest, enjoying family & friends each day. Being thankful for what I've got & not dwelling on the things I haven't got.
Big_John: The only big drawback I find is associated with the amount of time I am travelling makes it hard to meet ladies. I travel about 4 to 6 months a year. Because I am alway on the move, I normally don't meet many women and have 'second' dates.
When it's meant to happen, it will, John. Besides, you haven't met these PA women... yet!
sweetowen: When it's meant to happen, it will, John. Besides, you haven't met these PA women... yet!
Soon, soon it will happen. Even sooner since I cut out my west coast swing. I eliminated 2,000 miles when I decided not to go to Coos Bay Oregon and Vancouver Canada. I did this so I could possibly make the New York CS Camping trip that Jesse is organizing.
There are many;my children (teens) are what makes me happy,my sweetheart of a granddaughter Skye. Each morning I sit at my kitchen window with a cup of coffee and reflect on what was yesterday but, look forward to today.Being at one with nature also makes me happy;to see the beauty of the land around me. And,having the priviledge of finding and making new friends.
norwayboy1967: What makes you happy? Do you know or do you guess?
Big_John: Soon, soon it will happen. Even sooner since I cut out my west coast swing. I eliminated 2,000 miles when I decided not to go to Coos Bay Oregon and Vancouver Canada. I did this so I could possibly make the New York CS Camping trip that Jesse is organizing.
That would be cool! I'm trying to see if I can attend that.
Big_John: The only big drawback I find is associated with the amount of time I am travelling makes it hard to meet ladies. I travel about 4 to 6 months a year. Because I am alway on the move, I normally don't meet many women and have 'second' dates.
Hence the importance of having a flexible travel plan... so that if you decide to stay somewhere for a while, you can. I dated a man in Italy for about a year... I´d leave and travel around Europe for a bit and come back, and on a few occasions he went with me on trips... flexibility is key!
1.life long partner be it a long life or a short life, some one to be and share with 2. health to have the time to share with #1 3. materialistic things are nice but not needed, i have seen dirt poor families with a passle of kids, that had more love than you could imagine, and they were happy give me the love of my life and health the rest will take care of itself
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