Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone (228)
QuietStormF: Are you both in the same country?
Yes he lives here in Canada with me now
QuietStormF: Oh good I'm glad you went and tried at least to help.. You're a peach Larry..
Thank you, I even look like a Happy Peach
Thank You Dear, i allways did my part, and just went to see them Thru, Even tho She is My X, and despises me, Really she probably still Loves Me, but cannot face who she Lost, But There is a time to Be there, Just when they figured Maybe I wouldnt~!
kissmedeeply: Yes he lives here in Canada with me now
Oh well that's great then..glad it has worked out so well for you.. the one I met couldn't get into Canada..and I wasn't ready to make the move there..
QuietStormF: Oh well that's great then..glad it has worked out so well for you.. the one I met couldn't get into Canada..and I wasn't ready to make the move there..
Yes i know some have that problem
I did go to where he lived for 6 months in North Carolina..
and now he is working here and he has only been here for about 2 months..
I dont get some immagration becos some say there papers are still not done and is 5 years into it..
and some told me they couldnt even get a work permit
HotrodLarrys: Thank you, I even look like a Happy Peach Thank You Dear, i allways did my part, and just went to see them Thru, Even tho She is My X, and despises me, Really she probably still Loves Me, but cannot face who she Lost, But There is a time to Be there, Just when they figured Maybe I wouldnt~!
Ah.. ok.. well I guess we all have a certain place in our hearts for the one we were once that close to..
kissmedeeply: Yes i know some have that problem
I did go to where he lived for 6 months in North Carolina..
and now he is working here and he has only been here for about 2 months..
I dont get some immagration becos some say there papers are still not done and is 5 years into it..
and some told me they couldnt even get a work permit
I did go to where he lived for 6 months in North Carolina..
and now he is working here and he has only been here for about 2 months..
I dont get some immagration becos some say there papers are still not done and is 5 years into it..
and some told me they couldnt even get a work permit
Well I was in the US.. in Tn.. and was told once the papers were applied for I could not even go back to Canada for two years.. which is true because I have a friend in Florida going through this now, she married over there.. but can't leave.. For me, that just wasn't an option...
QuietStormF: Well I was in the US.. in Tn.. and was told once the papers were applied for I could not even go back to Canada for two years.. which is true because I have a friend in Florida going through this now, she married over there.. but can't leave.. For me, that just wasn't an option...
Wow i got married over there and we called the immigrations and they told me i could leave anytime i wanted
kissmedeeply: Wow i got married over there and we called the immigrations and they told me i could leave anytime i wanted
hmm... but she is going to stay and work there.. she can't leave and I was told once I applied I couldn't either.. thought it was the same for everyone.. hmm..
QuietStormF: hmm... but she is going to stay and work there.. she can't leave and I was told once I applied I couldn't either.. thought it was the same for everyone.. hmm..
Yeh well people were saying things also about my husband wouldnt be able to work for 3 years until his papers got done..
but the border(immigration) helped him and now is working..
i think alot just sit and wait for something to happen..
he went to many government people and now help him out..
he went to many government people and now help him out..
kissmedeeply: Yeh well people were saying things also about my husband wouldnt be able to work for 3 years until his papers got done..
but the border(immigration) helped him and now is working..
but the border(immigration) helped him and now is working..
Well thats great.. I know it takes alot longer for some though.. seems you both got lucky..
QuietStormF: Well thats great.. I know it takes alot longer for some though.. seems you both got lucky..
So far So good..and thank you
Looking at the Poll
42% voted Yes, -------with an additional
16% that sayd it happened to them
So 58% say Yes, Love can happen befor you meet
14% Unsure,
16% say No
8% say must meet first,
3% No , But I Love God
Quit amazing results so far, and been some VERY good input , and Insite On this subject so far, and even learned a little here, so
DONT STOP with the pole as it is in full swing....
And thank all, for there answers
42% voted Yes, -------with an additional
16% that sayd it happened to them
So 58% say Yes, Love can happen befor you meet
14% Unsure,
16% say No
8% say must meet first,
3% No , But I Love God
Quit amazing results so far, and been some VERY good input , and Insite On this subject so far, and even learned a little here, so
DONT STOP with the pole as it is in full swing....
And thank all, for there answers
yep I think you can.
funny thing though I get no emails without a pic
well this is all I will give them 
I want a relationship built from friendship and up
funny thing though I get no emails without a pic
well this is all I will give them I want a relationship built from friendship and up
warmhearted1: yep I think you can.
funny thing though I get no emails without a pic well this is all I will give them
I want a relationship built from friendship and up
funny thing though I get no emails without a pic well this is all I will give them
I want a relationship built from friendship and up
AND YES, It NEEDS to start as Friends, and time and Consistancy all play certain Factors
dazzling_dave: You can fall in love before meeting. The question is who are you falling in love with?
The problem with falling in love before meeting is that you end up falling in love with the person you think they are or want them to be, not with the person that they really are.
The problem with falling in love before meeting is that you end up falling in love with the person you think they are or want them to be, not with the person that they really are.
Perfect answer!!!
eastendguy: depends on the attraction i guess but it all eneded in disaster for me
I have walked disasters too, but now we are more Educated, and should do things a little better with time, and finding the right partner this time...... is how I envision it!
eastendguy: depends on the attraction i guess but it all eneded in disaster for me
Could it be, that it's because you focus on physical attraction above everything else? Just curious as I do not know.
HotrodLarrys: I have walked disasters too, but now we are more Educated, and should do things a little better with time, and finding the right partner this time...... is how I envision it!
I feel the same way...more educated and better prepared!!!
rubendario: Could it be, that it's because you focus on physical attraction above everything else? Just curious as I do not know.
Absolutely not, as morals ,and values, religious values, so many things, one must look for just to keep from dating a scammer, and that happens alot, as they are just out to get, and it takes quite a little time, to feel secure,, it must boil down to trust!!!!!! A MAJOR KEY, and cosistantly for a give time period.
HotrodLarrys: Absolutely not, as morals ,and values, religious values, so many things, one must look for just to keep from dating a scammer, and that happens alot, as they are just out to get, and it takes quite a little time, to feel secure,, it must boil down to trust!!!!!! A MAJOR KEY, and cosistantly for a give time period.
I am with you on all that, but, my question was directed toward eastendguy.
HotrodLarrys: Absolutely not, as morals ,and values, religious values, so many things, one must look for just to keep from dating a scammer, and that happens alot, as they are just out to get, and it takes quite a little time, to feel secure,, it must boil down to trust!!!!!! A MAJOR KEY, and cosistantly for a give time period.
Believe me I know, I married one!!!!
Believe me I know, I married one!!!
You should get wiser, and a little more educated, each time, in the end we should get pretty Good at Relationships,
I Hope
Yes that was last time,
You should get wiser, and a little more educated, each time, in the end we should get pretty Good at Relationships,
I Hope
HotrodLarrys: Looking at the Poll
42% voted Yes, -------with an additional
16% that sayd it happened to them
So 58% say Yes, Love can happen befor you meet
14% Unsure,
16% say No
8% say must meet first,
3% No , But I Love God
Quit amazing results so far, and been some VERY good input , and Insite On this subject so far, and even learned a little here, so
DONT STOP with the pole as it is in full swing....And thank all, for there answers
42% voted Yes, -------with an additional
16% that sayd it happened to them
So 58% say Yes, Love can happen befor you meet
14% Unsure,
16% say No
8% say must meet first,
3% No , But I Love God
Quit amazing results so far, and been some VERY good input , and Insite On this subject so far, and even learned a little here, so
DONT STOP with the pole as it is in full swing....And thank all, for there answers
Just showing numbers from earlier!
HotrodLarrys: If the answer is No, then How Could you Love God, without seeing Him?
Just thought this was a Good discussion, As it is an unanswered Question at the moment, Just wanted to hear others who may have experienced this! OR NOT? Please have respect! And maybe we can all learn something
Just thought this was a Good discussion, As it is an unanswered Question at the moment, Just wanted to hear others who may have experienced this! OR NOT? Please have respect! And maybe we can all learn something
I believe that you can. However, I think you run the risk of falling in love with the idea of falling in love. Although a risk in itself, I do believe that it is possible to fall in love with someone befor eyou meet them. It's just a matter of being careful that it is actual love for the person you have and not love for the idea of loving the person.
~JMO~
HotrodLarrys: If the answer is No, then How Could you Love God, without seeing Him?
Just thought this was a Good discussion, As it is an unanswered Question at the moment, Just wanted to hear others who may have experienced this! OR NOT? Please have respect! And maybe we can all learn something
Just thought this was a Good discussion, As it is an unanswered Question at the moment, Just wanted to hear others who may have experienced this! OR NOT? Please have respect! And maybe we can all learn something
The problem is you can and one day you find you have given your heart to a 90 year old gynaecologist
EliteOne: The problem is you can and one day you find you have given your heart to a 90 year old gynaecologist
I think it can be possible to fall in love with the mind of someone whom you have never met....
EliteOne: The problem is you can and one day you find you have given your heart to a 90 year old gynaecologist
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Oh good I'm glad you went and tried at least to help.. You're a peach Larry..