dazzling_dave: You can fall in love before meeting. The question is who are you falling in love with?
The problem with falling in love before meeting is that you end up falling in love with the person you think they are or want them to be, not with the person that they really are.
prussiafox: Job 31:15 -- Did not He who made me in the womb make them? Did not the same One fashion us in the womb?
Job 33:4 -- The Spirit of God has made me, And the breath of the Almighty gives me life.
Psalms 139:13 -- For You formed my inward parts; You covered me in my mother's womb.
Psalms 139:16 -- Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed. And in Your book they all were written, The days fashioned for me, When as yet there were none of them.And that's just a few.
BUT NOT ONE said you saw God, This is NOT A RELIGIOUS THREAD i will not continue to deliberate the Bible, This Is about Love before meeting someone, But Thank you for your input
USThumper: I think you can fall in love before meeting someone. But the deep, lasting , forever love comes with time together.
I totally agree,
Would you tell someone you love them with months of Email and some phone conversations, tho maybe you havnt met them yet, tho feel a magnetic connection,,
Or say someone that you had long term chat and email with!!!!! said they love you, tho never met you!!!! How would that strike you, as love or as infatuation?
HotrodLarrys: And what an interesting answer, of very depth, So yes we would refer to it as a Surface Love, that has not yet been totally activated, Tho Inspired, Very Good Answer Thank you very much!
Let's hope it activates into all planes and dimensions! Good luck!
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
HotrodLarrys: I totally agree, Would you tell someone you love them with months of Email and some phone conversations, tho maybe you havnt met them yet, tho feel a magnetic connection,, Or say someone that you had long term chat and email with!!!!! said they love you, tho never met you!!!! How would that strike you, as love or as infatuation?
Of course anything can be said or felt at a distance , let the meeting confirm this MAGNETIC CONNECTION.
I fell in love with the guy on the other side of the internet. Emailing, chatting, then later on with webcam, and along the way we fell in love. But of course we were still stressed and insecure until we meet each other for real, because in the virtual world it might be different than in the real world. So we meet and we really fell deeply in love with each other.
hediye: I fell in love with the guy on the other side of the internet. Emailing, chatting, then later on with webcam, and along the way we fell in love. But of course we were still stressed and insecure until we meet each other for real, because in the virtual world it might be different than in the real world. So we meet and we really fell deeply in love with each other.
hediye: I fell in love with the guy on the other side of the internet. Emailing, chatting, then later on with webcam, and along the way we fell in love. But of course we were still stressed and insecure until we meet each other for real, because in the virtual world it might be different than in the real world. So we meet and we really fell deeply in love with each other.
That is an Eceptional answer, or Example of what my question Reverts To, Thanks
HotrodLarrys: If the answer is No, then How Could you Love God, without seeing Him?
Just thought this was a Good discussion, As it is an unanswered Question at the moment, Just wanted to hear others who may have experienced this! OR NOT? Please have respect! And maybe we can all learn something
haven't experienced that, but think its possible, depends on how u communicate, being open and keeping your word.
Yes, I fall in love by heart in the sites and he loves me too but the truth is his already married. They can hide lots of things about them, so we end up nothing.
BlueStar4U: Yes, I fall in love by heart in the sites and he loves me too but the truth is his already married. They can hide lots of things about them, so we end up nothing.
Hey..iv got 7 wifes on this site ... whats the big deal about it???
dazzling_dave: You can fall in love before meeting. The question is who are you falling in love with?
The problem with falling in love before meeting is that you end up falling in love with the person you think they are or want them to be, not with the person that they really are.
whaaat: haven't experienced that, but think its possible, depends on how u communicate, being open and keeping your word.
Keeping Thy Word is Crucial, and should be honored, and That is who i am, I will tell it like it is , and i have no reason to Waivor.... But OTHERS,do as they do?????? Hmmm? some for right, some for wrong.
HotrodLarrys: Keeping Thy Word is Crucial, and should be honored, and That is who i am, I will tell it like it is , and i have no reason to Waivor.... But OTHERS,do as they do?????? Hmmm? some for right, some for wrong.
and that is the issue these days, no trust, people need time to get there i guess
HotrodLarrys: If the answer is No, then How Could you Love God, without seeing Him?
Just thought this was a Good discussion, As it is an unanswered Question at the moment, Just wanted to hear others who may have experienced this! OR NOT? Please have respect! And maybe we can all learn something
I googled it.. they didn't know either.. j/k..I think you can luv someone you've never met.. but until you actually meet and spend time together, it's not Love..
When I met the one I thought I loved, although we had been communicating for months.. my first inclination was to run.. he was outwardly not the type I would have given a second look, he was the biker and I was according to him Ms Priss..But I already knew him, on the inside and that made all the difference.. It all came together, despite my immediate misgivings.. Now it didn't happen overnight,but we had agreed to a trip together, so I kept to that.. and spending that time together.. I came to see that he was exactly the person I knew him to be.. even if we looked sort of like the odd couple.. he won my heart and I his.. so we were right.. I guess the bottom line is, you have to meet.. but you have to be willing to give it some time too.. and let it grow..
QuietStormF: I googled it.. they didn't know either.. j/k..I think you can luv someone you've never met.. but until you actually meet and spend time together, it's not Love..
When I met the one I thought I loved, although we had been communicating for months.. my first inclination was to run.. he was outwardly not the type I would have given a second look, he was the biker and I was according to him Ms Priss..But I already knew him, on the inside and that made all the difference.. It all came together, despite my immediate misgivings.. Now it didn't happen overnight,but we had agreed to a trip together, so I kept to that.. and spending that time together.. I came to see that he was exactly the person I knew him to be.. even if we looked sort of like the odd couple.. he won my heart and I his.. so we were right.. I guess the bottom line is, you have to meet.. but you have to be willing to give it some time too.. and let it grow..
nope..... love requires a heart....me not have one of those
as for God.... well even if i had a heart, how can anyone love anything that doest exist and has been used throughout history as an excuse to wage wars and kill people?????
Yes!!! You can absolutely fall in love before meeting. This happened to me but after I met her in NY, about four months later she stopped writing to me and I never heard from here again..She was a very aggressive, in love with herself, know it all and that probably had more to do with it ending than anything... Anyway, yes, you can fall in love without meeting...
HotrodLarrys: If the answer is No, then How Could you Love God, without seeing Him?
Just thought this was a Good discussion, As it is an unanswered Question at the moment, Just wanted to hear others who may have experienced this! OR NOT? Please have respect! And maybe we can all learn something
Good topic, Hotrod. To me the answer to both questions is spiritual. I can fall in love with someone I've never met but have corresponded with by snail or email or the telephone or by seeing their responses to these forums. Because this is a visual medium, many people may judge each other only by what they see in pictures, but many of us are also gut level honest in what we say. If I have developed the insight and maturity to know what I want in a partner, then I should recognize it by his words. It's the same with my Creator. I have never seen God, but I have seen the Creator's works all around me; and live in the middle of his trees and mountains. I can love him/her and never see him/her.
QuietStormF: I googled it.. they didn't know either.. j/k..I think you can luv someone you've never met.. but until you actually meet and spend time together, it's not Love..
When I met the one I thought I loved, although we had been communicating for months.. my first inclination was to run.. he was outwardly not the type I would have given a second look, he was the biker and I was according to him Ms Priss..But I already knew him, on the inside and that made all the difference.. It all came together, despite my immediate misgivings.. Now it didn't happen overnight,but we had agreed to a trip together, so I kept to that.. and spending that time together.. I came to see that he was exactly the person I knew him to be.. even if we looked sort of like the odd couple.. he won my heart and I his.. so we were right.. I guess the bottom line is, you have to meet.. but you have to be willing to give it some time too.. and let it grow..
Well thanks for looking, Absolutely it takes time to grow, tho as One stated, About it being Spiritual, and Maybe so very true.
I think it can be Spiritual. and that Surpasses ALL UNDERSTANDING, hu A God Thing
And do agree 2 have to Meet to Clarify, and Connect, And then let it grow..... but an Emotional Bond, can be spiritual too!
sultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados3,203 posts
gingerb: All things are most likely possible, so there would be things about everyone to love. There are aspects of their character to love, such as their humour, or stoicism, honesty, earnestness, tenacity etc.
Meeting someone can happen in many way too. When people talk, or use webcams, theya re communicating just as they would in RL, just at a distance of miles/kilometers.
When people type, it is no idfferent to when people wrote letters years ago and grew to love things about each other.
I am going to leave God out of this because most people relationship with their God is one of subservience and pleading rather than the two way street of love. To explain it better I will ask the question, "what do you do for God?" (that is not motivated by self interest).
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The problem with falling in love before meeting is that you end up falling in love with the person you think they are or want them to be, not with the person that they really are.