Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone (228)

Aug 16, 2009 1:45 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
love74
love74love74liepzig, Saxony-Anhalt Germany9 Threads 6 Polls 110 Posts
dazzling_dave: You can fall in love before meeting. The question is who are you falling in love with?

The problem with falling in love before meeting is that you end up falling in love with the person you think they are or want them to be, not with the person that they really are.
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Aug 16, 2009 1:45 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
prussiafox: Job 31:15 -- Did not He who made me in the womb make them? Did not the same One fashion us in the womb?

Job 33:4 -- The Spirit of God has made me, And the breath of the Almighty gives me life.

Psalms 139:13 -- For You formed my inward parts; You covered me in my mother's womb.

Psalms 139:16 -- Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed. And in Your book they all were written, The days fashioned for me, When as yet there were none of them.And that's just a few.



BUT NOT ONE said you saw God, This is NOT A RELIGIOUS THREAD i will not continue to deliberate the Bible, This Is about Love before meeting someone, But Thank you for your inputhandshake teddybear
Aug 16, 2009 1:53 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
USThumper: I think you can fall in love before meeting someone. But the deep, lasting , forever love comes with time together.





I totally agree,thumbs up


Would you tell someone you love them with months of Email and some phone conversations, tho maybe you havnt met them yet, tho feel a magnetic connection,,


Or say someone that you had long term chat and email with!!!!! said they love you, tho never met you!!!! How would that strike you, as love or as infatuation?
Aug 16, 2009 2:05 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
Rhiannon3
Rhiannon3Rhiannon3Wien, Vienna Austria2 Threads 66 Posts
HotrodLarrys: And what an interesting answer, of very depth, So yes we would refer to it as a Surface Love, that has not yet been totally activated, Tho Inspired, Very Good Answer Thank you very much!


Let's hope it activates into all planes and dimensions! Good luck! cheers
Aug 16, 2009 2:07 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
HotrodLarrys: I totally agree, Would you tell someone you love them with months of Email and some phone conversations, tho maybe you havnt met them yet, tho feel a magnetic connection,, Or say someone that you had long term chat and email with!!!!! said they love you, tho never met you!!!! How would that strike you, as love or as infatuation?


Of course anything can be said or felt at a distance , let the meeting confirm this MAGNETIC CONNECTION.
Aug 16, 2009 2:13 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
Ziva1
Ziva1Ziva1In the middel of nowhere.., Lapland Finland60 Threads 3,813 Posts
tainogirl: Of course anything can be said or felt at a distance , let the meeting confirm this MAGNETIC CONNECTION.



Well said.....thumbs up
Aug 16, 2009 2:17 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
tainogirl: Of course anything can be said or felt at a distance , let the meeting confirm this MAGNETIC CONNECTION.



Oh Absolutely Tanio, Ha I did come from under a Rock, but not yesterday,


You Go Girlpeace heart wings wave
Aug 16, 2009 2:35 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
hediye
hediyehediyeBeveren, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium1 Threads 10 Posts
I fell in love with the guy on the other side of the internet.
Emailing, chatting, then later on with webcam, and along the way we fell in love. But of course we were still stressed and insecure until we meet each other for real, because in the virtual world it might be different than in the real world.
So we meet and we really fell deeply in love with each other.
Aug 16, 2009 2:40 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
wildprotector
wildprotectorwildprotectorHobart, Tasmania Australia24 Threads 7 Polls 352 Posts
hediye: I fell in love with the guy on the other side of the internet.
Emailing, chatting, then later on with webcam, and along the way we fell in love. But of course we were still stressed and insecure until we meet each other for real, because in the virtual world it might be different than in the real world.
So we meet and we really fell deeply in love with each other.



then what happenedwink
Aug 16, 2009 2:57 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
hediye: I fell in love with the guy on the other side of the internet.
Emailing, chatting, then later on with webcam, and along the way we fell in love. But of course we were still stressed and insecure until we meet each other for real, because in the virtual world it might be different than in the real world.
So we meet and we really fell deeply in love with each other.



That is an Eceptional answer, or Example of what my question Reverts To, Thankscool
Aug 16, 2009 2:59 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Ziva1: Sure you can......


You mean you love mev already? confused

Poor, sad, lonely woman! tongue
Aug 16, 2009 3:03 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
HotrodLarrys: If the answer is No, then How Could you Love God, without seeing Him?

Just thought this was a Good discussion, As it is an unanswered Question at the moment, Just wanted to hear others who may have experienced this! OR NOT? Please have respect! And maybe we can all learn something


confused haven't experienced that, but think its possible, depends on how u communicate, being open and keeping your word.
Aug 16, 2009 3:04 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
Ziva1
Ziva1Ziva1In the middel of nowhere.., Lapland Finland60 Threads 3,813 Posts
RobertC2: You mean you love mev already?

Poor, sad, lonely woman!


Now where did you get that Idea.....I aint poor, sad,nor lonely...........tongue
Aug 16, 2009 3:08 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
BlueStar4U
BlueStar4UBlueStar4Uchest, Cheshire, England UK1 Posts
Yes, I fall in love by heart in the sites and he loves me too but the truth is his already married. They can hide lots of things about them, so we end up nothing.
Aug 16, 2009 3:11 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
BlueStar4U: Yes, I fall in love by heart in the sites and he loves me too but the truth is his already married. They can hide lots of things about them, so we end up nothing.


Hey..iv got 7 wifes on this site ... whats the big deal about it???grin
Aug 16, 2009 3:15 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
loveubabe95
loveubabe95loveubabe95Sofia, Sofia City Bulgaria2 Threads 43 Posts
dazzling_dave: You can fall in love before meeting. The question is who are you falling in love with?

The problem with falling in love before meeting is that you end up falling in love with the person you think they are or want them to be, not with the person that they really are.


Thank you, Dave! You said it all!peace
Aug 16, 2009 3:16 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
whaaat: haven't experienced that, but think its possible, depends on how u communicate, being open and keeping your word.


Keeping Thy Word is Crucial, and should be honored, and That is who i am, I will tell it like it is , and i have no reason to Waivor.... But OTHERS,do as they do?????? Hmmm? some for right, some for wrong.uh oh
Aug 16, 2009 3:38 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Keeping Thy Word is Crucial, and should be honored, and That is who i am, I will tell it like it is , and i have no reason to Waivor.... But OTHERS,do as they do?????? Hmmm? some for right, some for wrong.


and that is the issue these days, no trust, people need time to get there i guess

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Aug 16, 2009 5:03 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
QuietStormF
QuietStormFQuietStormFSouthern Ontario, Ontario Canada25 Threads 610 Posts
HotrodLarrys: If the answer is No, then How Could you Love God, without seeing Him?

Just thought this was a Good discussion, As it is an unanswered Question at the moment, Just wanted to hear others who may have experienced this! OR NOT? Please have respect! And maybe we can all learn something


I googled it.. they didn't know either.. laugh j/k..I think you can luv someone you've never met.. but until you actually meet and spend time together, it's not Love..

When I met the one I thought I loved, although we had been communicating for months.. my first inclination was to run.. he was outwardly not the type I would have given a second look, he was the biker and I was according to him Ms Priss..But I already knew him, on the inside and that made all the difference.. It all came together, despite my immediate misgivings.. Now it didn't happen overnight,but we had agreed to a trip together, so I kept to that.. and spending that time together.. I came to see that he was exactly the person I knew him to be.. even if we looked sort of like the odd couple.. he won my heart and I his.. so we were right.. I guess the bottom line is, you have to meet.. but you have to be willing to give it some time too.. and let it grow.. teddybear
Aug 16, 2009 5:07 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
QuietStormF: I googled it.. they didn't know either.. j/k..I think you can luv someone you've never met.. but until you actually meet and spend time together, it's not Love..

When I met the one I thought I loved, although we had been communicating for months.. my first inclination was to run.. he was outwardly not the type I would have given a second look, he was the biker and I was according to him Ms Priss..But I already knew him, on the inside and that made all the difference.. It all came together, despite my immediate misgivings.. Now it didn't happen overnight,but we had agreed to a trip together, so I kept to that.. and spending that time together.. I came to see that he was exactly the person I knew him to be.. even if we looked sort of like the odd couple.. he won my heart and I his.. so we were right.. I guess the bottom line is, you have to meet.. but you have to be willing to give it some time too.. and let it grow..


A nice story! thumbs up
Aug 16, 2009 5:07 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Boban1: Hey..iv got 7 wifes on this site ... whats the big deal about it???


No wonder you look exhausted! laugh
Aug 16, 2009 5:10 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
nope..... love requires a heart....me not have one of those

as for God.... well even if i had a heart, how can anyone love anything that doest exist and has been used throughout history as an excuse to wage wars and kill people?????

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Aug 16, 2009 5:11 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
broncos
broncosbroncosToms River, New Jersey USA5 Threads 138 Posts
Yes!!! You can absolutely fall in love before meeting. This happened to me but after I met her in NY, about four months later she stopped writing to me and I never heard from here again..She was a very aggressive, in love with herself, know it all and that probably had more to do with it ending than anything... Anyway, yes, you can fall in love without meeting...
Aug 16, 2009 5:20 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
QuietStormF
QuietStormFQuietStormFSouthern Ontario, Ontario Canada25 Threads 610 Posts
RobertC2: A nice story!


Why thank-ya Robert.. and I know where you stand on this subject.. Insane was I believe the word you used..rolling on the floor laughing teddybear
Aug 16, 2009 5:24 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Yes and no dunno
Aug 16, 2009 5:32 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
mtngypsy828
mtngypsy828mtngypsy828Sylva, North Carolina USA6 Threads 283 Posts
HotrodLarrys: If the answer is No, then How Could you Love God, without seeing Him?

Just thought this was a Good discussion, As it is an unanswered Question at the moment, Just wanted to hear others who may have experienced this! OR NOT? Please have respect! And maybe we can all learn something


Good topic, Hotrod. To me the answer to both questions is spiritual. I can fall in love with someone I've never met but have corresponded with by snail or email or the telephone or by seeing their responses to these forums. Because this is a visual medium, many people may judge each other only by what they see in pictures, but many of us are also gut level honest in what we say. If I have developed the insight and maturity to know what I want in a partner, then I should recognize it by his words.
It's the same with my Creator. I have never seen God, but I have seen the Creator's works all around me; and live in the middle of his trees and mountains. I can love him/her and never see him/her.
Aug 16, 2009 6:03 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
poshguy
poshguyposhguyclapham london, Greater London, England UK1 Threads 17 Posts
been there done that and it all ended in disaster for me
Aug 16, 2009 6:03 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
morgan5: Think it's dangerously easy to fall in love with the idea of falling in love.
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Aug 16, 2009 6:08 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
QuietStormF: I googled it.. they didn't know either.. j/k..I think you can luv someone you've never met.. but until you actually meet and spend time together, it's not Love..

When I met the one I thought I loved, although we had been communicating for months.. my first inclination was to run.. he was outwardly not the type I would have given a second look, he was the biker and I was according to him Ms Priss..But I already knew him, on the inside and that made all the difference.. It all came together, despite my immediate misgivings.. Now it didn't happen overnight,but we had agreed to a trip together, so I kept to that.. and spending that time together.. I came to see that he was exactly the person I knew him to be.. even if we looked sort of like the odd couple.. he won my heart and I his.. so we were right.. I guess the bottom line is, you have to meet.. but you have to be willing to give it some time too.. and let it grow..


Well thanks for looking, Absolutely it takes time to grow, tho as One stated, About it being Spiritual, and Maybe so very true.



I think it can be Spiritual. and that Surpasses ALL UNDERSTANDING, hu A God Thing

And do agree 2 have to Meet to Clarify, and Connect, And then let it grow..... but an Emotional Bond, can be spiritual too!

Thanks for your Coment QS Good postbouquet
Aug 16, 2009 6:16 PM CST Can You fall in Love, even" Before" meeting Someone
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
gingerb: All things are most likely possible, so there would be things about everyone to love. There are aspects of their character to love, such as their humour, or stoicism, honesty, earnestness, tenacity etc.

Meeting someone can happen in many way too. When people talk, or use webcams, theya re communicating just as they would in RL, just at a distance of miles/kilometers.

When people type, it is no idfferent to when people wrote letters years ago and grew to love things about each other.

I am going to leave God out of this because most people relationship with their God is one of subservience and pleading rather than the two way street of love. To explain it better I will ask the question, "what do you do for God?" (that is not motivated by self interest).
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