Trying to change someone (10)
HDALE: If you find the nearly perfect one for you , would you try to change them to your specifications? Or learn to luv them as is or ......?
Have you tried before? What was the outcome?
Have you tried before? What was the outcome?
No one can change unless they want to, and even then one person's fault is purely subjective. To others, it can be an attribute.
We are all perfectly imperfect, and if you truely love someone you love them for all their characteristics, and learn to compromise, adjust and - most importantly - look inwards primarily before attempting to alter another.
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I've found someone and love him just the way he is flaws and all.
I have no intention on trying to change him cause he's fine the way he is.
I have no intention on trying to change him cause he's fine the way he is.
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somechick: I've found someone and love him just the way he is flaws and all.
I have no intention on trying to change him cause he's fine the way he is.
I have to agree. I you think you need to change that person, it ain't going to happen. And besides, if you don't like them to the point you think they need to change, then maybe you need to change. Even if it's getting out.I have no intention on trying to change him cause he's fine the way he is.
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I'm a very open minded person. 
I do not change people, I accept them.
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HDALE: If you find the nearly perfect one for you , would you try to change them to your specifications? Or learn to luv them as is or ......?
Have you tried before? What was the outcome?
Have you tried before? What was the outcome?
Change,look...call it what you will,you gotta keepa woman on her toes,or she'll get bored of you eventually.
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Cool , just the results I was hoping for,luv them for being them.
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No need to change me I am NOT perfect ,but I am about as close as you can get expecially when I have on my tool belt on and feather duster in hand.....
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One of my failing in the past was i was a bit of a perfectionist and everything had to be perfect, i even thought i was god's gift to women.
As i have got older and maybe wiser, i know i am not perfect and i don't expect anybody else to be.
I would never try to change somebody and i hope that my partner would not try and change herself just to please me.
As i have got older and maybe wiser, i know i am not perfect and i don't expect anybody else to be.
I would never try to change somebody and i hope that my partner would not try and change herself just to please me.
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spiderbulgaria: One of my failing in the past was i was a bit of a perfectionist and everything had to be perfect, i even thought i was god's gift to women.
As i have got older and maybe wiser, i know i am not perfect and i don't expect anybody else to be.
I would never try to change somebody and i hope that my partner would not try and change herself just to please me.
As i have got older and maybe wiser, i know i am not perfect and i don't expect anybody else to be.
I would never try to change somebody and i hope that my partner would not try and change herself just to please me.
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HDALE: If you find the nearly perfect one for you , would you try to change them to your specifications? Or learn to luv them as is or ......?
Have you tried before? What was the outcome?
Have you tried before? What was the outcome?
Why would anyone try to change someone into something else?
If a person wants to change something about themselves it is a personal choice. Me personally, I will change me for me when I feel or think I need to change something. A man trying to change me will be on the curb and the next chick is more than welcome to him.
Besides it was my past that made me the person I am, I am made up of all of these wonderful things!
Change me? For what? I like who I am.
Ya know?
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Created: Aug 2009
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Have you tried before? What was the outcome?