navygirl1: I sure hope you do get the chance to travel. Its well worth it and you get to meet great people. I don't regret one day of all my travels.
My ancesters came to australia from ireland around 1870, and i would just like to see that country because of that, and france well what glorious food there would be there, i am jealous of all the european people that can just travel around and see all the great cvultures and people so close to them. We are quite isolated down under.
somechick: I don't expect someone to be perfect just some ideas I put down.
I don't have a list but I certainly don't want to meet a drug user or another alcoholic. Of course couch potatoes aren't going to work for me either. I think we all have our idea of the ideal person for our lives. I personally don't care about his wealth or his looks but he must have a good heart. I tried settling once and I almost had my neck broken as he was an alcoholic and an abuser. Learnt my lesson not to just settle, so nor should you. I hope you find the right guy.
gazz101: My ancesters came to australia from ireland around 1870, and i would just like to see that country because of that, and france well what glorious food there would be there, i am jealous of all the european people that can just travel around and see all the great cvultures and people so close to them. We are quite isolated down under.
Yeah, you are kind of isolate. Guess I never really thought of it that way. The price you pay for living in a great country with warm weather.
gazz101: Was not trying to have a go at you, we all have things we want, like or desire, but most come out later in the relationship.
Just imagine walking past your solemate, just because he said he was not divorced, his divorce would come soon enough if he fell in love.
I think the fear is that what if you do fall for this guy and he changes his mind about the divorce? That would certainly make me think twice about getting involed with a would be divorcee.
navygirl1: I don't have a list but I certainly don't want to meet a drug user or another alcoholic. Of course couch potatoes aren't going to work for me either. I think we all have our idea of the ideal person for our lives. I personally don't care about his wealth or his looks but he must have a good heart. I tried settling once and I almost had my neck broken as he was an alcoholic and an abuser. Learnt my lesson not to just settle, so nor should you. I hope you find the right guy.
Thank you I hope I find the right guy too.
I'm not concerned about someones looks or how how much money they have.I won't settle either.Almost made that kind of mistake of settling once but won't let myself make that same mistake again.
navygirl1: I think the fear is that what if you do fall for this guy and he changes his mind about the divorce? That would certainly make me think twice about getting involed with a would be divorcee.
your probably right, but here in australia, you have to wait a certain time after separaton before you can get divorced.
I supose it just gets back to the idea, is he a good one or not, this has made me think abit about how people in different countries think differently about some subjects, things aren't the same world wide, i would date a separated woman even if she was still married, if she made me feel loved, then i would wait for the divorce, but if she refused after a year or so, i would wonder why
gazz101: your probably right, but here in australia, you have to wait a certain time after separaton before you can get divorced.
I supose it just gets back to the idea, is he a good one or not, this has made me think abit about how people in different countries think differently about some subjects, things aren't the same world wide, i would date a separated woman even if she was still married, if she made me feel loved, then i would wait for the divorce, but if she refused after a year or so, i would wonder why
Yeah, its always a gamble when you are dating a sperated or about to be divorced person. I personally find it hard just dating a divorced guy as the ones I meet are still angry over their divorce so they tend to take their anger out on me. Thus my last three boyfriends. Its not just a coincidence.
Wow. That's a good question on this one. Dream Partner.
Well, He'd definetly be a Southern Man. For some reason that southern accent just makes my heart do flip flops. He'd have strong jaws LOL, I like long hair on men they kind you pull into a pony tail. Blonde hair, blue eyes and oh he'd be cute, have a good sense of humor, patient, good with kids, be devoted to me, not an abuser and never do drugs or ever drink too much. He'd have to also have a nice package tucked away in his boxers(come on now you said dream partner). He'd have to be understanding with me when I have my bad days and share the good days with me. Just love me for me. He wouldnt be the financially richest man nor the poorest (it keeps character). Oh and he'd have to be in to some type of Motorsports LOL. I cant think of anything else.
navygirl1: Yeah, its always a gamble when you are dating a sperated or about to be divorced person. I personally find it hard just dating a divorced guy as the ones I meet are still angry over their divorce so they tend to take their anger out on me. Thus my last three boyfriends. Its not just a coincidence.
Well navygirl, i must admit i have enjoyed chatting to you about a subject like this, wonder how we would go on a subject we dont agree on :)
I have to go and throw a nice steak on the barbie.
maybe we will end up on a post chatting away some other time.
Dont lose those nice things that i have seen today in you. Will have a nice beer for you as you have non in your fridge.
Odysseus101: Which of the above characteristics would influence you or impress you most when looking for a partner?
Well, a nice question :-) I`ll try it to answer for me.. # Good-looking: Good appearance is in the eye of the beholder. By the way, from the beautiful dishes you never eat alone .. # Nice personality: With this I agree # Great body: What makes the most beautiful body, if in the head not a pear burns? I mean, how good are 1000 watts in the muscles when in the head is darkness? # Financially stable: It´s ok if she has a job. Dependencies is a bad thing for a woman. # Filthy rich: Do you think rich is important? # Committed to family: If she be committed to the family, we try to build... # Party person-loads of fun: Yes sometimes... # Wise, emotionally intelligent: I am not sure if that could be... # Smart dresser, great hair: Not really important # Loads of friends, big social circle: If she like it, why not? Maybe some of her friends can be mine as well? Hmm, however,at first it would be good, if we love and understand each other.
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My ancesters came to australia from ireland around 1870, and i would just like to see that country because of that, and france well what glorious food there would be there, i am jealous of all the european people that can just travel around and see all the great cvultures and people so close to them. We are quite isolated down under.